Why don't jobcels ever go ER?

[big nose bug eyes]

Getting a job is 10x more frustrating than wallowing on incels.is, it's like a roastie stringing you along for a week and then ghosting you afterwards. Meanwhile you have to put on a smile and a facade and basically hype up how much you love the company just to get a no a month later. Fuck this gay earth

 

[SmugMohito]

Why don't incels with nothing to lose in general go ER?

 

[acnescarcel]

randy strait. and also the term going postal comes from mailmen shooting up the post office.

 

[Sendthil]

incels arent inherently violent.

a violent end is the last act of desperation.

an incel will spend his life trying to ascend. if all foreseeable options are exhausted, the final option is suicide or violent suicide.

personally, i feel inceldom does not come from depression. it comes from being at the bottom of a dominance hierarchy. as a male, being at the bottom of a dominance hierarchy has similar symptoms to depression but has a very different treatment. being at the bottom of a dominance hierarchy also makes you an incel. you cant provide. or rather you are not perceived as someone who can provide, which is the real problem.

An Incel needs to win at something. needs to show some kind of domineering influence. nothing more dominant than ending someone elses life. this is why it attracts some of us.

They don't really want to do it. But there's nothing left to do. you can go out quietly or you can go out swinging. you still going out.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

If you have a job and house you have got something. Most men are not 'dominant apes' at the top of the tree. They have a regular job such as a gas service engineer, a tree surgeon and a regular house, yet manage to get a slim / acceptable wife. If you still can't get a woman after that... yeah 100% its your ugly genetics/looks, lack of social proof/circle or shyness. It's more of the former for most of us: genetics/looks.

If your ugly and workcel, your colleagues will be giving you a hard time/shun you, you'll be ignored when attending social events as a lone male. Its this looks-based SHUNNING: that's what truly hurts the incel-looking men, and all the time you ask yourself "is it better if I could claim disability/NEET. Why work when society nothing in return?".