Why don't incels understand that dating is a numbers game?

[big nose bug eyes]

Incels = low value because of their looks, therefore the only way to get laid is to meet thousands of people and eventually find a girl that has an affinity towards you and is single.

If you've ever seen an ugly manlet before with a gf, guarantee he knows or has met hundreds of people. Yeah it's unfair that Chad has girls approach HIM, but Chad was born high value. You weren't. You're lucky you get to breathe the same air as Chad.

Btw this doesn't work for gooks. Gooks should literally just end it.

 

[Evildoer]

Incels = low value because of their looks, therefore the only way to get laid is to meet thousands of people and eventually find a girl that has an affinity towards you and is single.

That's impossible, because modern sexual market alow even looksmatched femoids date Chads, so nobody would choose an incel.

 

[imbored21]

I realize that and truly believe I could find a girl if I spam approached. Unfortunately I am so high inhibition that I haven't even been able to ask 1 girl out in my 24 years of existence. How is someone like me supposed to ask 100s of girls out? It's futile. I'm better off LDARing.

 

[big nose bug eyes]

I realize that and truly believe I could find a girl if I spam approached. Unfortunately I am so high inhibition that I haven't even been able to ask 1 girl out in my 24 years of existence. How is someone like me supposed to ask 100s of girls out? It's futile. I'm better off LDARing.

No spam approach doesn't do shit, even really gl guys have like a 2% success rate or lower. Watch a non-faked day game video. You would need to run social circle and social media game to increase your status first.

 

[Mainländer]

I would agree 100% with OP had he specified a minimum looks requirement. If you're not sub4, it definitely can work if you put some effort on numbers game/spam approach, etc.

But encouraging any man, including sub4s, to do it, is either dumb or cruel.

 

[imbored21]

No spam approach doesn't do shit, even really gl guys have like a 2% success rate or lower. Watch a non-faked day game video. You would need to run social circle and social media game to increase your status first.

by approach i didn't mean cold approach girls. I meant ask girls out (from school, work, hobbies, social circle etc...).

 

[Robinxyz]

if women don't approach you, it's over.

 

[TheRealChincel]

You sound like a PUA.

 

[acnescarcel]

I'm too anti social to ask out 200 girls. i don't even go outside.

 

[big nose bug eyes]

You sound like a PUA.

PUA are correct that dating is a numbers game and that one woman's judgement of you isn't absolute. Hell their snake oil "tricks" might even work once in awhile. But telling sub5s to approach girls on the street is just autism level shit. Hell, telling ANYONE to do that is retarded at best and at worst can be setting someone up to be arrested.

I guess what I'm saying is, prepare to get rejected a fuckton if you really want a gf, because you'll get 10 rejections for every girl that legitimately wants to fuck. I think most of us are just too high inhib for that sort of thing. You need to be in a state where you're talking to like 5 or 6 girls at a time IRL or on social media and pressuring escalation every time.

I'm not young (24) but I'm not oldcel yet either, what I would tell people in high school is to take a chance and try to escalate, 99% of the time nothing bad will happen. That's my biggest regret in high school.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Incels approaching just leads to rejections, it's a numbers game for us and that number = 0.

 

[Evildoer]

Incels approaching just leads to rejections, it's a numbers game for us and that number = 0.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

cant tell if OP is troll or just a pua / mgtow fag.

 

[big nose bug eyes]

cant tell if OP is troll or just a pua / mgtow fag.

Ask yourself: are there uglier people than me who have gotten laid? If you say NO, you're in denial. If you say yes, consider why, and understand it's part numbers (knowing a bunch of people), part being useful to people, and part luck (right place right time).

Biggest blackpill: you could have gotten laid in this life but being high inhib + unlucky fucked you over.

 

[Kirito3]

Incels = low value because of their looks, therefore the only way to get laid is to meet thousands of people and eventually find a girl that has an affinity towards you and is single.

If you've ever seen an ugly manlet before with a gf, guarantee he knows or has met hundreds of people. Yeah it's unfair that Chad has girls approach HIM, but Chad was born high value. You weren't. You're lucky you get to breathe the same air as Chad.

Btw this doesn't work for gooks. Gooks should literally just end it.

The ugly manlet likely is wealthy or has lucrative connections of some sort. Dating is a numbers game above a certain PSL but sub 4 money is pretty much the only way out. There arent enough women on the planet to find one who is genuinely attracted to a non wealthy or famous sub 4.
Before you say anything I'm a gook.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

cant tell if OP is troll or just a pua / mgtow fag.

Op has a point, but as a manlet it’s not approach 10, fuck 1, it’s approach 100 maybe fuck 1. Not worth my fucking time.
If I have to try that hard then dating just wasn’t set out for me to begin with therefore no point trying.
Tallcels would be able to fuck 1 every 10 they approach. Manlets? No chance.

 

[Mahlo]

It is a numbers game and that number is zero

 

[Robo Sapien]

I've approached well over 2000 femoids. The numbers game stuff is bullshit. It doesn't work. Fuck you pua infiltrator.
I've approached well over 2000 femoids. The numbers game stuff is bullshit. It doesn't work. Fuck you pua infiltrator.

 

[Bagelcel]

Op has a point, but as a manlet it’s not approach 10, fuck 1, it’s approach 100 maybe fuck 1. Not worth my fucking time.
If I have to try that hard then dating just wasn’t set out for me to begin with therefore no point trying.
Tallcels would be able to fuck 1 every 10 they approach. Manlets? No chance.

Wish it was that easy as a tallcel, remember that poll on incel height and like 40% of us were 6ft+

I've approached well over 2000 femoids. The numbers game stuff is bullshit. It doesn't work. Fuck you pua infiltrator.
I've approached well over 2000 femoids. The numbers game stuff is bullshit. It doesn't work. Fuck you pua infiltrator.

Height? Frame? Face? how fucked are you in those catagories and are you NT

 

[big nose bug eyes]

I've approached well over 2000 femoids. The numbers game stuff is bullshit. It doesn't work. Fuck you pua infiltrator.
I've approached well over 2000 femoids. The numbers game stuff is bullshit. It doesn't work. Fuck you pua infiltrator.

kill yourself if you don't even bother reading the thread. I'm not implying you should daygame and walk around the streets bothering people. I'm just saying NTmaxx would work for most people here especially if they're white.

 

[CaptainCuck]

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kill yourself if you don't even bother reading the thread. I'm not implying you should daygame and walk around the streets bothering people. I'm just saying NTmaxx would work for most people here especially if they're white.

"Most people here" is the key word here which I agree with.

For trucels (sub 4s) however NTmaxxing wouldn't make much difference.

 

[Robo Sapien]

kill yourself if you don't even bother reading the thread. I'm not implying you should daygame and walk around the streets bothering people. I'm just saying NTmaxx would work for most people here especially if they're white.

If we could NTmaxxx this fucking forum wouldn't exist fag. Neurotype just like looks are set since birth.

 

[AR15]

You sound like a PUA.

 

[Robo Sapien]

Height? Frame? Face? how fucked are you in those catagories and are you NT

Can't judge and not willing to doxx myself in the mega thread. I'll just have to guess that I'm inadequate in all mentioned areas.

 

[Bagelcel]

Can't judge and not willing to doxx myself in the mega thread. I'll just have to guess that I'm inadequate in all mentioned areas.

Well height and frame are easy, measure your height and your wrist size for overall frame, maybe bideltoid width too.
Face is a bit more confusing, but i'm sure you could roughly gauge your /10 rating

 

[Robo Sapien]

Well height and frame are easy, measure your height and your wrist size for overall frame, maybe bideltoid width too.
Face is a bit more confusing, but i'm sure you could roughly gauge your /10 rating

I'm above average height. I'm not sure about frame and my face is below average. So I'd probably be 3 or 4 depending. I'm not white so that would put me down to probably 2.

 

[Bagelcel]

I'm above average height. I'm not sure about frame and my face is below average. So I'd probably be 3 or 4 depending. I'm not white so that would put me down to probably 2.

Not white doesn't necessarily mean bad as long as you don't have typical rice or curry features. If you're arab or meditarianian looking that's alright.
You'd know if you had a bad frame...
Try to list your bad features so you can work on them to looksmax

 

[big nose bug eyes]

If we could NTmaxxx this fucking forum wouldn't exist fag. Neurotype just like looks are set since birth.

Definitely not true, environment has a lot to do with it, if you spent your entire childhood and teens indoors playing video games in a suburb somewhere you're infinitely more likely to be incel, i.e. Elliot Rodger. That's despite this guy being rich, owning a car, and being just below average (i.e. definitely salvageable if he were NT) . Your ability to be NT depends on years of experience interacting with people including foids.

 

[LebaneseCel]

JFL if you believe that having a social circle and more "friends" will get you laid as an ugly male. If anything you'll be ridiculed or friend zoned at best.

 

[big nose bug eyes]

JFL if you believe that having a social circle and more "friends" will get you laid as an ugly male. If anything you'll be ridiculed or friend zoned at best.

Define ugly. Nothing will save you if you're manlet, bald, fat, or extremely ethnic. If you're facially average or a little below, actually knowing people would help significantly, ER is a prime example of a friendlesscel.

 

[Robo Sapien]

Definitely not true, environment has a lot to do with it, if you spent your entire childhood and teens indoors playing video games in a suburb somewhere you're infinitely more likely to be incel, i.e. Elliot Rodger. That's despite this guy being rich, owning a car, and being just below average (i.e. definitely salvageable if he were NT) . Your ability to be NT depends on years of experience interacting with people including foids.

Yeah, just like malnutrition can stifle your height. But all things being equal there is a Max height you can grow to. Same with neurotype. Environment may increase or decrease certain parameters but overall it remains the same.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

enumerate the real numbers it's just a numbers game as well

 

[FortunateMilkman]

I'm too anti social to ask out 200 girls. i don't even go outside.

 

[tooth monster]

You need a social circle, not this stupid numbers game crap JFL

 

[Deleted member 3385]

i asked about 75+ girls out

by the end my self esteem was crushed, that many rejections and you can't recover

if you have to ask out hundreds of females just for a chance one may say yes, you are bottom tier ugly, it's over, chads get women approaching them

 

[xMadcelx]

I realize that and truly believe I could find a girl if I spam approached. Unfortunately I am so high inhibition that I haven't even been able to ask 1 girl out in my 24 years of existence. How is someone like me supposed to ask 100s of girls out? It's futile. I'm better off LDARing.

Just have confidence bro

 

[big nose bug eyes]

You need a social circle, not this stupid numbers game crap JFL

The social circle is what gives you the numbers. If you read through the thread you'd understand that. The more women know you exist, the more likely you can get a date. That's the bottom line.

Like I've stated numerous times, if you're a deathnik (like gook or dark skinned Indian/Arab), short or especially bald, then forget about this.

The ugly manlet likely is wealthy or has lucrative connections of some sort. Dating is a numbers game above a certain PSL but sub 4 money is pretty much the only way out. There arent enough women on the planet to find one who is genuinely attracted to a non wealthy or famous sub 4.
Before you say anything I'm a gook.

I have nothing against Asians but jfl they definitely without a doubt have the toughest time dating outside their race or even within their race if they're western. I don't know why, Asians aren't even really all that ugly imo. There's something mentally wrong in the minds of Asian women, like on a racial scale.

 

[happiless]

You're lucky you get to breathe the same air as Chad.

cuck

 

[Deleted member]

beauty is subjective bro you just need to find a female that finds your features attractive, it's a numbers game. extremely low IQ thread

 

[WarriorSkull]

How on earth do you manage a social circle when all male friendships are suffering from the intense competition caused by foid's runaway hypergamy? The vast majority of male friendships that guys seem capable of maintaining these days are those where females are not part of the mix. As soon a single bitch enters, the entire dynamic changes and the group slowly dissolves to drama centered around the foid.

 

[big nose bug eyes]

cuck

We're invisible subhumans. I'm just coming to terms with that. We were granted a spot at the very bottom of society. Incels should be ground up and fed to starving people instead of being allowed to roam the streets. There is nothing good about incels or being incel.

 

[VLÖ]

Lmao and how are you going to get this social circle?

What can you as an incel offer the normies? Why should they be friends with you?

 

[big nose bug eyes]

How on earth do you manage a social circle when all male friendships are suffering from the intense competition caused by foid's runaway hypergamy? The vast majority of male friendships that guys seem capable of maintaining these days are those where females are not part of the mix. As soon a single bitch enters, the entire dynamic changes and the group slowly dissolves to drama centered around the foid.

idk man if i knew that or if I knew anything about getting friends I wouldn't be incel posting here Friday nights. I'm just stating what I see on facebook, people I height and face mog who have gfs, not super cute or anything, but they exist.

Lmao and how are you going to get this social circle?

What can you as an incel offer the normies? Why should they be friends with you?

Nothing. We're low value men who missed our chance. We're fucked. But theoretically if you had a social circle and something to offer (drugs, money, connections) then you could happen upon a foid who would take interest. A lot of nigger rappers also claimed sexual frustration before becoming famous, see Tupac and Wiz Khalifa, two 6ft+ BBCs who struggled with women.

beauty is subjective bro you just need to find a female that finds your features attractive, it's a numbers game. extremely low IQ thread

but that's unironically true, some women value height more than others, some might say "meh, he's cute in a weird way" or some shit. I see it happen.

I've already explained death sentence exceptions which I totally agree are fucked from womb to tomb. ITT I'm talking about the 4/10 5'9''+ guy who might be white, hispanic, med, or arab/light skinned indian.

 

[WarriorSkull]

A lot of nigger rappers also claimed sexual frustration before becoming famous, see Tupac and Wiz Khalifa, two 6ft+ BBCs who struggled with women.

Tupac was actually a manlet and that played a lot into his personality because he couldn't get respect easily in the streets. Also, holy fuck Eazy-E.