Blackpill Why do you guys cry over missed youth and sexual experiences?

[Guest37263]

Crying over it is like an implication that you think it “could have been different”, as if there is something that you could have done to get all those experiences back

Don’t cry as if it could have been different. Your life was never going to be anything other than rejection and isolation.

I don’t cry about the past because I know that’s how it was always going to be. Nor am I optimistic for the future because I know my face will always be my ugly face.

Our fate was sealed from birth. Don’t stress over it, just accept it. Embrace the misery and you’ll genuinely feel better.


You only stress yourself out because you feel there is something tangible you can do to change things, and it’s stressful because you feel like you’re not doing enough to make things better. Acceptance will make you feel infinitely better.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Our fate was sealed from birth. Don’t stress over it, just accept it. Embrace the misery and you’ll genuinely feel better.

Define "better." Imma keep it real, there is a part of me that holds onto hope. Even though I'm middle aged. But to let go of that, how does that make me feel better? What am I supposed to apply my efforts to in life?

 

[theson]

If I was born with average looks for a man, things could have been a lot different for me. Nowadays I try to avoid this site and these thoughts, but every once in a while, the more I think about it, the more I realize how fucked up it was that out of millions and millions of men, I was the one born with tiny deformed arms and shoulders. Hundreds of millions of different men, ugly and handsome, but I had to be the one that was born so different that I would be singled out for a life of ridicule and solitude. Really fucked up.

 

[ihaveno1]

nothing worse than missing out on teenage love

 

[Grotesque]

Because we're not human.

 

[Robtical]

Maybe your future is sealed because you're a defeatist. I regret I didn't go SEasia and start escortcelling a long time ago. There's a lot of things I could've done differently if I knew what I know now.

 

[Untrastic]

Define "better." Imma keep it real, there is a part of me that holds onto hope. Even though I'm middle aged. But to let go of that, how does that make me feel better? What am I supposed to apply my efforts to in life?

I dont think giving up hope makes you feel better, but it does make you feel nothing which is a fuckton better than feeling like shit all the time.

 

[FrothySolutions]

I dont think giving up hope makes you feel better, but it does make you feel nothing which is a fuckton better than feeling like shit all the time.

I'd rather want and not have than be dead inside.

 

[Untrastic]

I'd rather want and not have than be dead inside.

I dont know, I think it must feel horrible to always want something I could never get, like in dantes inferno where the guy sees fruit in a tree but can never reach it, its a personal hell. I would rather be dead inside, but idk how to though I also have hope and it feels impossible to get rid of.

 

[NorthAfricanIncel]

If I was born with average looks for a man, things could have been a lot different for me. Nowadays I try to avoid this site and these thoughts, but every once in a while, the more I think about it, the more I realize how fucked up it was that out of millions and millions of men, I was the one born with tiny deformed arms and shoulders. Hundreds of millions of different men, ugly and handsome, but I had to be the one that was born so different that I would be singled out for a life of ridicule and solitude. Really fucked up.

deformed arms and shoulder ? what do you mean

 

[Deleted member 11159]

If my shitty parents took me to the doctor when I was a kid and stopped me from mouth-breathing maybe I wouldn't have such a subhuman lower third now.

 

[Getlooksordie]

It´s a double edged sword. I have zero regrets because I know I tried literally everything, but I just never met the minimum looks thresold to get a gf. I do have regrets though that I missed out on so much because of things that were out of my control.

 

[Inceldo]

I for one dont

 

[Deleted member 6470]

I regret I didn't inject.

 

[iblamemyself]

I usually don't wine about it, but I can understand.
Teen love is sexual and romantic love in its purest form. There is no bluepill, redpill, blackpill or any other pill - just pure desire.
It's also beneficial for your development into adulthood and manhood to have interactions with attractive foids in your teenage years. Almost all people who went ER had lived in a negative feedback loop.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

nothing worse than missing out on teenage love

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I don't cry over it but I just admit that it was the only chance at true happiness and everything else is coping with the fact that you never had it.

 

[FukkenLoser]

because its sad

 

[Deleted member 6470]

I got over it because I never had a chance to start.

 

[TheRealChincel]

While you and I were doomed from the start, OP, there are guys here who maybe wouldn’t have been incel had they gotten surgery or been more social. You shouldn’t harp on the past too much but some people are naturally inclinated to ruminate, especially those with lots of time on their hands.

 

[incel scum]

good post OP

it's like getting upset that you weren't born a millionaire and didn't spend your life travelling and buying expensive shit. LOL.
Nigga if ur incel u never had a chance

 

[PersonalityChad]

Well said.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Are you actually ugly like me or are you like most fags on here who claim being ugly because women don't jump on your dick?

 

[Deleted member 7573]

it was never about hoping that it would be different, it's about been seeing as inferior by everyone else for not had this experiences, it's about been made of a constant joke in the work place, in college, in the fucking market, it's about never, absolute NEVER, have a rest from all this

 

[Cuyen]

Because we're not human.

 

[Remyx]

I don't

 

[Angryatsociety]

I dont but it's more like being forced to stay out of something good whilst you watch it unfold for everybody else but you.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

Because puberty is what made my face look uglier. I was decent looking before then and I used to be popular before I turned 11.

I dont but it's more like being forced to stay out of something good whilst you watch it unfold for everybody else but you.

This too.

 

[happiless]

Because we're mentally damaged from missed youth and sexual experiences.

 

[Cuyen]

Because we're mentally damaged from missed youth and sexual experiences.

 

[Michael15651]

nothing worse than missing out on teenage love

 

[Doug]

Well i really could have done thinks to make my Situation better

But now im just fucked

 

[Bakura806]

Crying over it is like an implication that you think it “could have been different”, as if there is something that you could have done to get all those experiences back

Don’t cry as if it could have been different. Your life was never going to be anything other than rejection and isolation.

I don’t cry about the past because I know that’s how it was always going to be. Nor am I optimistic for the future because I know my face will always be my ugly face.

Our fate was sealed from birth. Don’t stress over it, just accept it. Embrace the misery and you’ll genuinely feel better.


You only stress yourself out because you feel there is something tangible you can do to change things, and it’s stressful because you feel like you’re not doing enough to make things better. Acceptance will make you feel infinitely better.

Acceptance is a false cope death is the only real way to end all of our problems

 

[Deleted member 60]

Maybe your future is sealed because you're a defeatist. There's a lot of things I could've done differently if I knew what I know now.