Not true. LGBT is unfortunately widely popular and condoned by many Jews here (Tel Aviv is even considered a gay capital

), while other, more religious and conservative ones despise it — a trend no different than the one that can be observed in other western nations for that matter. The same goes for pornography, feminism, transgenderism, and even immigration, as there is also controversy in regard to that topic here, though admittedly, the problem of immigration is not on the same scale as in countries like Sweden (which is in a very sad state), for example, but that is related to other factors, and not some form of Jewish conspiracy.
Also, education is not free here; K-12 is similar to the USA as far as I know, and universities are a bit more regulated than in the USA, but that has nothing to do with ethnicity; rather, it is about the less regulated nature of education in the USA. There are many European countries that have even better subsidized education and socialist policies.
And the claim that secular Jews in the West oppose healthcare or education is factually incorrect, as many advocate strongly for both; it doesn't make much sense to put them all under one big umbrella. Evidently, the recent mayoral elections in New York demonstrate that it's much less about ethnicity, but about ideological convictions, as a surprising number of Jews votes for the current mayor-elect.
all is a bit of a strong word here. Look, I won't deny there are some deranged rabbis who spew this sort of nonsense, but it really isn't as prevalent as you think it is, especially outside of radical communities.
As I said, tribalism is not unique to Jews. It’s a social behavior common to nearly all groups, especially historically, and it doesn’t automatically translate to hatred or bloodlust. Much of the tribalistic behavior comes from humans adapting to being a small minority surrounded by often hostile societies, as it is sensible to favor the in-group, not from divine instruction. It's typically a result of the diaspora experience and various sociopolitical contexts; it could also stem from the natural human desire to feel a sense of superiority and camaraderie with a group of people. Besides, most Jews aren't blindly tribalistic like that, which is part of the reason many tried to assimilate in the past, or do so today, and are generally supportive of other countries and people who don't detest them.