I wrote a thread a while ago that discussed what I believe is the psychology of why we as guys naturally feel turned off by any girl who we know has been with a guy before, let alone multiple.
I know IT won't understand this since they're all fucking retards, but no, it is not the same thing if a guy has had sex with many women before. This isn't a double standard, it is fundamentally different to women having had sex with many men in the past. The reason? When a man has sex with a...
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However, if you don't want to read it, the underlying conclusion that I came to was that our brains actually all have a natural understanding of how women actually come to be sexually attracted to a man. That is, women aren't the same as guys are, in that they simply seek to have their sexual desires gratified by any one guy, and then detach themselves from him.
Whether it is because of how humans naturally partake in intercourse, or some other subconscious reason,
women usually have to have an emotional connection with the guy. Any guy that she decides to have intercourse with,
she has to feel some sort of emotional, loving connection to him. There are obviously different degrees to this, but the underlying requirement is there nonetheless.
Guys, generally speaking, are not like this—at least not in the way that they are
required to have that connection, to say. A lot of us simply seek to have sex with a woman we think is attractive, and then finish with that woman and move on.
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This is also the reason why infidelity is often not as bad when a man does it, simply because he can still love his wife despite it—while a woman can not love her husband and still cheat.)
That is all to say,
we as men subconsciously know this. A woman who has had a lover before, and then moved on from him,
is a mercurial woman who has fickle emotions, and who's connection and love to you can never be said to be certain. The more she has done this, the more we as men can not visualize themselves as wives.
This can often extend to not wanting anything to do with the woman entirely, just generally seeing her as disgusting, which leads to us even refusing to pursue casual sexual relations with her.
At least, that's what I think...