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Why do so many normies have commitment issues

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Why ?
I have heard this from foids
 
Only chads can get a gf nowadays. So they have options
 
Normies are psychopats
 
"commitment issues" is what foids say when the man has had enough of her bullshit and left
 
Reported for hearing things from foids
 
Because they know that women nowadays have endless options, constantly men in their inbox and always have backup options. Welcome to the internet era.
In other words, the risk/reward is low and you'd be a fool to commit, an absolute idiot to give your full 100% and go all in.
They simply realize that you as a man are way too replaceable, she is probably talking to multiple other men / entertaining other men, and the average man knows about this information, cause they are not stupid, they caught up with what's going on.

Maybe 100 years ago relationships were relatively safe, not anymore nowadays.

this is not something called 'commitment issues', this is being logical, and I have the same mindset. Hence I decided that it's the best option to not even bother, not even try, cause it's literally pointless. You could be handsome, but even handsome men have issues due to this, what I just mentioned. The next man is only 1 swipe away. It's better to mind my own business, make the best of my 20s and delete myself in my 30s.
 
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Why ?
I have heard this from foids
Why is jonkler saying that is he right v0 xb2qt2kpvn9f1
 
There's a phenomenon where if you educate people they will change their behavior even if they don't change their professed beliefs. Teach villagers they shouldn't defecate near their water source and they will change behavior while still expressing that the water is made pure by Ganesh or whatever. Most men are blackpilled by this point, even if their preferred level of consciousness keeps them expressing bluepilled platitudes.
 
Because they know that women nowadays have endless options, constantly men in their inbox and always have backup options. Welcome to the internet era.
In other words, the risk/reward is low and you'd be a fool to commit, an absolute idiot to give your full 100% and go all in.
They simply realize that you as a man are way too replaceable, she is probably talking to multiple other men / entertaining other men, and the average man knows about this information, cause they are not stupid, they caught up with what's going on.

Maybe 100 years ago relationships were relatively safe, not anymore nowadays.

this is not something called 'commitment issues', this is being logical, and I have the same mindset. Hence I decided that it's the best option to not even bother, not even try, cause it's literally pointless. You could be handsome, but even handsome men have issues due to this, what I just mentioned. The next man is only 1 swipe away. It's better to mind my own business, make the best of my 20s and delete myself in my 30s.
Very interesting thank you
You can maybe make a thread about this
 
Why ?
I have heard this from foids
Because of social media everyone especially arrogant normie foids think they can always do better and get better
 
Very interesting thank you
You can maybe make a thread about this
I will never fully Trust a Woman, and I truly mean that.
I always have my guard up, I'm always skeptical, would Never trust Her words Either.
I have watched too much information and Stories from other Men, that women are incapable of Loyalty.

Like I said before, you can't maintain a Relationship in today's environment.
Women always have many options, tons of men in their inbox and multiple men on Rotation. They even talk to tons of other Men, even if they are in a dating stage with the Man they want (that's why they are always in degenerate Situationships instead of Relationships). And that's why I think it's better to give up, and not even Try.
Matter of fact, it's pointless to even Try. Men are always way too emotionally invested, while most of the time she is talking to Multiple other Men. That's the reason why I said that you'd be an idiot to give your full 100% and invest in her emotionally, cause you as a man are way too replaceable in today's environment, thanks to the internet. Women will always keep their options open, she will always entertain multiple men, because she needs reassurance that she has backup options if her main Relationship fails.

Even Handsome and Pretty Men and will experience This, because She is hypergamous, and she is constantly looking for the better man, even if she is in a Relationship.
And today with the internet, the other Man is Literally 1 swipe away. As a Man You are way too replaceable, quickly replaceable, and that's why I never understood Relationships in today's world.
Maybe 100 years ago it was better, cause it wasn't a high-exposure environment.
Nowadays, On a Monday she may Like You, next week she likes another man, and 1 month later another man.

What people call 'commitment issues', is coming from a place of logic and protection, and I have the same mindset Iike I mentioned before.
I would rather not Try, cause there is no point.
I would rather give up before I even start cause the numbers are stacked against you.
I would rather walk the other way, not even bother cause I know it will probably go wrong eventually.

I have realized that this world is not fixable, I have realized that it takes a certain mind to deal with the stress and nonsense that come with Relationships, And I am simply not that Man.
Those thoughts that I just talked about, will always be in the back of my mind if I was in a Relationship. I would always be on Alert, I would always be in a state of stress and Higher Alert, and that's not how I want to Live.
That's why I decided to give up before Even trying.
I will try to make something of my 20's, but probably end my life in my 30's.
I live in Europe, so unfortunately I don't have access to a Gun to shoot myself through the head.
So I have to mix together some medication, Buy Cyanide or something off Telegram.
 
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