Serious Why do Mothers have to tell their ugly sons that they are handsome?

[SoCalSuifuel]

I actually believed it as a child, and up until highschool when I got that beaten out of me with bullying. If I always knew I was ugly I wouldn't have gone through the traumatic experience of my entire worldview falling apart, if I was taught as a kid that I was ugly and that I would always be given less in life for it, I might have actually been prepared for reality.

 

[Dekim]

I actually believed it as a child

 

[Futurecel2.0]

only people to tell me im handsome is my mom and old people, like grandma tier. my boss mom said i was handsome. i wouldnt have known if she didnt tell me. i think my boss was making fun of me, im not sure though.

 

[Deleted member 12256]

She loves you because she is your mom. It's her factory reset to like you, how her brain was programmed.

 

[WhyMe?]

1) not all mothers do. Plenty provably say nothing

2) she actually does believe you are so she’s not lying. Mothers are programmed to think their children are at least above average

3) it’s better than her saying you’re ugly. Your self-esteem would be even lower, don’t kid yourself

 

[Deleted member 7573]

It can be really bad if you end up with 15 still believing what she say, I'm glad when I was 13 I realized that everyone hated me and humiliated me because of my appearance

 

[Pai Mei]

"Handsome" has its origins in Middle English and translates as "easy to handle or use."

 

[FiveFourManlet]

bait thread for me

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

"Handsome" has its origins in Middle English and translates as "easy to handle or use."

 

[Dregster]

I actually believed it as a child, and up until highschool when I got that beaten out of me with bullying. If I always knew I was ugly I wouldn't have gone through the traumatic experience of my entire worldview falling apart, if I was taught as a kid that I was ugly and that I would always be given less in life for it, I might have actually been prepared for reality.

Thats was so suppose to build your confidence

 

[FrothySolutions]

It's because they love us and can't bear to say hurtful things about us, or believe that we're doomed.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

It's because they love us and can't bear to say hurtful things about us, or believe that we're doomed.

I've never embraced a girl in my life, I've never tasted a woman's lips, I'm now balding at 24 so there's literally zero reason to believe that it will ever happen in the future. If I knew that my only chance to do any of those things was when I was like fucking 12 or something before the acne came and before puberty raped me, then maybe I would have tried to play shota game. I should have been warned about what my future would entail.

 

[Luxity]

She loves you because she is your mom. It's her factory reset to like you, how her brain was programmed.

 

[Achmetha]

I like to think it is because admitting that you're ugly it is the same as saying she is a failure of a mother for producing such a defect. How would you feel if everything you try to create is shit or that your sole creation/legacy is an abomination?

 

[Deleted member 5712]

Your parents, generally speaking, can't admit you are a failure because that means they are partially to blame. If you are ugly their genetics played a part and that means they are somewhat ugly. Nobody wants to admit to themselves that they are ugly. That fucking hurts. Most people here accept it because we have been validated as ugly since we are incels. Many of us very old.
Normies can never accept they failed or raised a failure hence why they always seem positive or want to hype their sons up and cheer them on even though they know it will never work out for them. My Mom was always very supportive and said I was handsome. It wasn't until she got wasted drunk that she told me the truth and told me to my face I was ugly. My Dad used to do something similar where he would tell me to go talk to this girl or that girl. Now he just doesn't talk to me at all. It's better this way.

 

[TheOnlyWei]

Mothers love you and are blinded to your flaws. In their heart, you will always be that baby the doctor put in their arms.

 

[Fontaine]

They don't want to be accused of ruining their son's self-esteem I guess...

 

[Deleted member 10124]

I actually believed it as a child, and up until highschool when I got that beaten out of me with bullying. If I always knew I was ugly I wouldn't have gone through the traumatic experience of my entire worldview falling apart, if I was taught as a kid that I was ugly and that I would always be given less in life for it, I might have actually been prepared for reality.

Mothers love you and are blinded to your flaws. In their heart, you will always be that baby the doctor put in their arms.

They don't want to be accused of ruining their son's self-esteem I guess... A very bad calculation because it's going to get ruined by someone else

 

[TheIncelStaresBack]

My mother said my ugliness could be ‘enduring’ to the right girl. That’s all she needed to say.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

"Handsome" has its origins in Middle English and translates as "easy to handle or use."

Lmfao blackpill

 

[Asianmanletcel]

Because they are gigacoping, they can't accept they have a subhuman son

 

[AllHandsOnDeck]

What about Grandma?

 

[MentallyBroken]

1) not all mothers do. Plenty provably say nothing

2) she actually does believe you are so she’s not lying. Mothers are programmed to think their children are at least above average

3) it’s better than her saying you’re ugly. Your self-esteem would be even lower, don’t kid yourself

4.) at least your mother loves you, I don't think my parents could give two shits about how I'm feeling, they'd just find it to be an inconvenience or an insult towards them

 

[Termus123]

Why would any foid who lives for social status want to admit that her son is a defect from her own genes? Low IQ question

 

[RopeMaXXer]

I like to think it is because admitting that you're ugly it is the same as saying she is a failure of a mother for producing such a defect. How would you feel if everything you try to create is shit or that your sole creation/legacy is an abomination?

This.
Jfl at cucks that think mothers are somehow different to regular foid thinking. Having a kid is the ultimate projection of narcissism on another person. You created someone that's 50% you.
If that thing is ugly and subhuman (funnily enough most likely because of the mother since they can be 3/10 to reproduce) then it hurts their ego.