Why do most men have zero self-awareness?

[mylifeistrash]

Every older guy I know thinks society loves them and they're good looking.

Every guy of any age thinks when a clerk at the gym greets him, they think he's hot and they're a celeb. Every guy I've run into in life is either legit insane or delusional. They always inject themselves in any situation to give their input as if anyone wants it.

Most men don't realize how completely fucked they are.

 

[NotQuiteChadLite]

Self awareness would require introspection into one's flaws, something Normies don't want to confront.

 

[ticktock]

sounds more like 0 cope awareness

 

[CopingGymcel]

When the gym clerk smiles at me and gives me a high pitch "hello," I know it's apart of their job. I don't get how anyone could think otherwise.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Self-awareness isn’t conducive towards breeding.

 

[theson]

Every older guy I know thinks society loves them and they're good looking.

Every guy of any age thinks when a clerk at the gym greets him, they think he's hot and they're a celeb. Every guy I've run into in life is either legit insane or delusional. They always inject themselves in any situation to give their input as if anyone wants it.

Most men don't realize how completely fucked they are.

Most men are brought up believing that confidence is a masculine trait without explicitly being made aware of the fact that there's a social hierarchy at the bottom of which they might be placed. As a result, you will sometimes see ugly or very short guys making these public displays of bravado. It's kind watching a little pug dog trying to mount a female golden retriever. The pug dog is driven purely by instinct, unaware of the futility of its efforts.

 

[incel scum]

normies are faggots thats why

 

[Getlooksordie]

the average guy doesn´t put in nearly the amount of effort we have put in so he isn´t nearly as jaded. The average guy also doesn´t have a clue how different chads life is and how unbelievably easy women have it in the dating game. The average person thinks they are above average at everything they do and completely delusional about their looks. Most guys think they are a 7.5 - 8 in the looks department.


this is the normie cycle:

1. get a gf who settles for you in high school because she doesn´t know her true worth yet. She likely won´t let you fuck her.

2. Get another gf in high school/college through social circle who will let you fuck her. You marry her.

3. She will cheat on you and divorce you

4. you are now in your late 20s/mid 30s and single

5. you try to meet women in bars/clubs/online and fail.

6. join the gym because you think muscles will get you girls. Fail.

7. maybe even learn about PUA and think you can seduce any woman if you just act confidet. Fail.

8. become a male feminist and orbit women. Fail.

9. you are now in your mid 30s - early 40s.

10. suicide or betabux an obese single mother

11. the end

 

[mylifeistrash]

the average guy doesn´t put in nearly the amount of effort we have put in so he isn´t nearly as jaded. The average guy also doesn´t have a clue how different chads life is and how unbelievably easy women have it in the dating game. The average person thinks they are above average at everything they do and completely delusional about their looks. Most guys think they are a 7.5 - 8 in the looks department.


this is the normie cycle:

1. get a gf who settles for you in high school because she doesn´t know her true worth yet. She likely won´t let you fuck her.

2. Get another gf in high school/college through social circle who will let you fuck her. You marry her.

3. She will cheat on you and divorce you

4. you are now in your late 20s/mid 30s and single

5. you try to meet women in bars/clubs/online and fail.

6. join the gym because you think muscles will get you girls. Fail.

7. maybe even learn about PUA and think you can seduce any woman if you just act confidet. Fail.

8. become a male feminist and orbit women. Fail.

9. you are now in your mid 30s - early 40s.

10. suicide or betabux an obese single mother

11. the end

LOL. The cycle is so depressingly accurate. I love it.

Toward the end there should be something about being socially isolated and realizing that his past women won't even return his messages on facebook.

 

[Deleted member 677]

That was me before I took the black pill.

 

[Grotesque]

I will say that many males are waking up to the realization of society's ridiculous double standards. It's a matter of time for the rest.

 

[mylifeistrash]

I will say that many males are waking up to the realization of society's ridiculous double standards. It's a matter of time for the rest.

I like it when they wake up in their 30s/40s and blow their brains out.

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

probably driven by the male ego too

 

[Incelibate anarchist]

Must be nice to feel validated, even if its just a delusion.

 

[CopingManletcel]

Normies are even harder copers than us LDARers

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Because that is advantageous to happiness. Being cognizant of the truth and having the optimal mentality for happiness are polar opposites of each other.

 

[acnescarcel]

sounds more like 0 cope awareness

yeah i don't think they know they're coping. people cope a lot without realizing they're doing it or why.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

The younger generation won't be like this. There is going to be a lot more cynicism in the coming age.

 

[WarriorSkull]

Because that is advantageous to happiness. Being cognizant of the truth and having the optimal mentality for happiness are polar opposites of each other.

Something that always cracked me up is in psychology (its shit, I know) decades ago they noticed that people with high self-esteem didn't engage in negative thought patterns or self-talk. They concluded that if we can get depressed people to just not think negative things, then they will have higher self-esteem and won't be depressed anymore. After decades of failing miserably, the few in the psychological community who care about reality have been forced to accept that happy people are just that. They don't have high self-esteem because they never think anything negative, they just have high self-esteem, so why would they ever think anything negative?

That's the thing about modern psychology and even just general western beliefs that the conscious mind controls our subconscious, but it really is the other way around.

 

[Notgoingtomakeit]

Because guys have to cope each and everyday so they can go to bed at night and wish for a better future. Guys have to suffer and struggle in life to learn from it to become a man. Girls are kids for life

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Older men over 50 are the worst. Total fucking retards - they grew up when being a man was actually good, before feminism was mainstream, before female hypergamy was allowed/encouraged, before SJWs existed, before affirmative action, before widespread cuckery, when men were respected and desired. They genuinely think attractive young women are sweet-natured and are attracted to sub-8 men.

 

[grayjedi90]

Every older guy I know thinks society loves them and they're good looking.

Every guy of any age thinks when a clerk at the gym greets him, they think he's hot and they're a celeb. Every guy I've run into in life is either legit insane or delusional. They always inject themselves in any situation to give their input as if anyone wants it.

Most men don't realize how completely fucked they are.

I think the problem is pressure and expectations of society. You are expected to be a bluepilled optimistic idiot and live a hedonistic lifestyle, always smiling and in a good mood yolo. Did i forget to say always stay positive and smile? If you fail to match this kind of attitude you will be shunned by other people. They will call you whiny bitch or a downer and party killer etc. they don't want to hear about your depressing stuff and problems.

 

[Misery]

the average guy doesn´t put in nearly the amount of effort we have put in so he isn´t nearly as jaded. The average guy also doesn´t have a clue how different chads life is and how unbelievably easy women have it in the dating game. The average person thinks they are above average at everything they do and completely delusional about their looks. Most guys think they are a 7.5 - 8 in the looks department.


this is the normie cycle:

1. get a gf who settles for you in high school because she doesn´t know her true worth yet. She likely won´t let you fuck her.

2. Get another gf in high school/college through social circle who will let you fuck her. You marry her.

3. She will cheat on you and divorce you

4. you are now in your late 20s/mid 30s and single

5. you try to meet women in bars/clubs/online and fail.

6. join the gym because you think muscles will get you girls. Fail.

7. maybe even learn about PUA and think you can seduce any woman if you just act confidet. Fail.

8. become a male feminist and orbit women. Fail.

9. you are now in your mid 30s - early 40s.

10. suicide or betabux an obese single mother

11. the end

Extremely high IQ post. There are so many examples of this happening to people.

 

[incel scum]

Most guys think they are a 7.5 - 8 in the looks department.

that is completely true. these normfags think we are talking about them when we talk about 8+ males aka. Chads.
Less than 10% of men are 8/10+