Experiment Why do most incels have 0 friends or shitty Social Lifes. Is it because of aspie like behavior or face discrimination.

[bluecollarCEL]

Every time I see a poll on here it seems like most of us have no friends or very few. And we certainly have 0 Social Media presence.

My theory is that during your childhood if you don't have the good looks you are automatically the outcast. During those Crucial Developmental years you are missing out from developing proper social skills and that anti-social autistic/aspergers behavior will follow you for the rest of your life.

Its so hard for someone like me at 35yo to ever catch up with my peers who had Hs/College/Career to develop close friendships.

I look at people with thousands of friends on Facebook and I don't even own a fucking Cell Phone.

At some point I have to accept my fate and forget about Ascending with pussy SINCE I can't even Ascend Socially.

I need to JBmmorpg.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Both. The snowball effect is strong. The strong get stronger, the weak get weaker

 

[Moustachcel]

Both. The snowball effect is strong. The strong get stronger, the weak get weaker

this tbh

 

[NEETAndTidy]

We didnt have friends because of our looks also.

 

[fOreVER]

Nobody ever wants to talk to me

 

[Total Imbecile]

And your theory is correct, nobody wants to hang out with an uggo so you either get bullied or ignored, either way youre an outcast and you never learn to socialize properly. With no social skills its over forever, now youre ugly AND shit when it comes to talking to people

 

[ValiantThor2]

I had friends when I was younger but I drew into isolation because of looks discrimination. Normies and above reap the benefits of friends because their social interactions are based on success. For incels we are so used to it failing every time we just give up. theres no point in touching a hot stove twice.

 

[Incellectual]

this tbh

 

[Kent]

 

[VincentVanCope]

Both. The snowball effect is strong. The strong get stronger, the weak get weaker

Einstein IQ.

What percentage of a really good looking people have a shit social life? Low. What percentage of a really ugly looking people have an amazing social life? Low.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

Because we're not NPCs

 

[Blue Squirtle]

You have no value if your face isn't good to look at.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Women like genetically superior men. If you arent an outcast you arent genetically inferior.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

Both. The snowball effect is strong. The strong get stronger, the weak get weaker

 

[Frankenstein's M.]

Einstein IQ.

Have you ever known of a really good looking person with a shit social life? Have you ever known of a really ugly looking person with an amazing social life?

Well I have seen guys I mog with a better social life

 

[VincentVanCope]

Well I have seen guys I mog with a better social life

Yeah, fixed.

 

[Frankenstein's M.]

Yeah, fixed.

???

 

[VincentVanCope]

???

I fixed my initial comment.

 

[Termus123]

Every time I see a poll on here it seems like most of us have no friends or very few. And we certainly have 0 Social Media presence.

My theory is that during your childhood if you don't have the good looks you are automatically the outcast. During those Crucial Developmental years you are missing out from developing proper social skills and that anti-social autistic/aspergers behavior will follow you for the rest of your life.

Its so hard for someone like me at 35yo to ever catch up with my peers who had Hs/College/Career to develop close friendships.

I look at people with thousands of friends on Facebook and I don't even own a fucking Cell Phone.

At some point I have to accept my fate and forget about Ascending with pussy SINCE I can't even Ascend Socially.

I need to JBmmorpg.

I have plenty of friends and pretty social a lot of the time, minor social media presence. Still incel.

 

[Anger]

People underestimate how autism can be a death sentence in the dating scene

 

[ImpureIncel]

For me it's, being ugly, autistic, low status, a natural introvert and having no social skills; even when I make an effort I'm regarded as weird by people. A lot of human interaction is non-verbal, people are hardwired to detect defects in others, especially females. When people socialise it's like they're tuning into a radio station that I can't access.

 

[StaroRavager]

I’ve had “friends” in the past but I was always the outsider or the “funny guy” of the group. No one has ever truly connected with me, and when I wasn’t physically around them they didn’t give me a second thought

 

[Ataris]

Here's the truth. You are probably not aspie or autistic. It's not that most of you aren't social - how interesting someone is socially is 99% based off how good looking you are and whether you were fortunate enough to get a charismatic face (rather than resting bitch face. God help you if you have bitch face and you're ugly)

I've tried to talk to people and keep conversations going with interesting topics, they eventually lose interest because people only want to be associated with other attractive people.

Looks and resting face is EVERYTHING.

 

[grayjedi90]

For me it's my social retardation. In general i just can't connect or relate to other people which makes social interactions in social settings hell or almost impossible for me. No matter what i try and having the typical incel traits only adds more to my problems.

 

[Deleted member 14490]

Here's the truth. You are probably not aspie or autistic. It's not that most of you aren't social - how interesting someone is socially is 99% based off how good looking you are and whether you were fortunate enough to get a charismatic face (rather than resting bitch face. God help you if you have bitch face and you're ugly)

I've tried to talk to people and keep conversations going with interesting topics, they eventually lose interest because people only want to be associated with other attractive people.

Looks and resting face is EVERYTHING.

Autism/Aspergers definitely hinders you socially, this isn't debateable, it's a fact.

 

[FaceandHFD]

I have tried to get normie friends, but we don't usually hang out. They probably don't like me that much due to my looks. I have 0 close friends at the moment. I am guilty of not trying to befriend the uglier dudes, but I just can't relate at all to them because most are too socially inept, bluepilled and into gaming.

For me it's my social retardation. In general i just can't connect or relate to other people which makes social interactions in social settings hell or almost impossible for me. No matter what i try and having the typical incel traits only adds more to my problems.

And this.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Were just ugly, so even if we get friends (which I did) they treat you terribly so you end up preferring to be by yourself.

 

[TheIncelStaresBack]

Were just ugly, so even if we get friends (which I did) they treat you terribly so you end up preferring to be by yourself.

 

[GeneticFilth]

I recently left my "friend" group, i couldnt tolerate the bullying anymore so i decided i was better off alone

I recently left my "friend" group, i couldnt tolerate the bullying anymore so i decided i was better off alone

This guy is nt and he went from being friendless with zero relationships to having tons of friends and girls after getting his busted teeth fix and puberty. You are your looks.

 

[Incelazo]

Both