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Example:
View: https://youtu.be/ESD2XHeTxjA
See segments on sex^.
On the one hand I can appreciate that channels like this are trying to broach very touchy sacred ground subjects for most people so they probably try to play the “both sides I’m neutral and objective” angle as much as possible for that reason.
But on the other hand, anyone with two functioning eyes and two braincells to rub together should grasp that no, lol, men and women are in totally different realities when it comes to sexual opportunity and relationship opportunities. Of course the women this guy knows complain about Chad not committing — he explains it basically that way verbatim yet doesn’t make the next logical step that maybe just maybe these women are aiming too high and being too picky.
Other than that I actually agree with a decent amount of this video — for example he talks about how women entering the workforce undeniably led to wage depression and people having fewer children for better or worse.
Anyway, having numerous options and opportunities for sex is a far cry from having virtually no options at all. These two situations simply are not comparable I mean.
People typically think that is inaccurate or hyperbole but unless the speed dating and online dating statistics are majorly off for some reason it’s a very real growing problem in western countries right now. There’s basically a widening gulf in sexual opportunity between men and women.
My observation has been many many women make the Apex fallacy regarding men — probably because men really are divided into the top men who are effectively sharing all of these women looking at the numbers and then there are the rest of the men who don’t make the cut and aren’t competitive enough.
I’m not sure how you solve this without reinstituting some old societal norms and regulating sex in some fashion. But that’s genuine heresy to most westerners and 100% of women in the present day.
What will happen if a large enough cohort of young men are disgruntled without a family or stake in their own society? In the old days it would eventually mean war and destabilizing said society — today it maybe doesn’t mean anything.
View: https://youtu.be/ESD2XHeTxjA
See segments on sex^.
On the one hand I can appreciate that channels like this are trying to broach very touchy sacred ground subjects for most people so they probably try to play the “both sides I’m neutral and objective” angle as much as possible for that reason.
But on the other hand, anyone with two functioning eyes and two braincells to rub together should grasp that no, lol, men and women are in totally different realities when it comes to sexual opportunity and relationship opportunities. Of course the women this guy knows complain about Chad not committing — he explains it basically that way verbatim yet doesn’t make the next logical step that maybe just maybe these women are aiming too high and being too picky.
Other than that I actually agree with a decent amount of this video — for example he talks about how women entering the workforce undeniably led to wage depression and people having fewer children for better or worse.
Anyway, having numerous options and opportunities for sex is a far cry from having virtually no options at all. These two situations simply are not comparable I mean.
People typically think that is inaccurate or hyperbole but unless the speed dating and online dating statistics are majorly off for some reason it’s a very real growing problem in western countries right now. There’s basically a widening gulf in sexual opportunity between men and women.
My observation has been many many women make the Apex fallacy regarding men — probably because men really are divided into the top men who are effectively sharing all of these women looking at the numbers and then there are the rest of the men who don’t make the cut and aren’t competitive enough.
I’m not sure how you solve this without reinstituting some old societal norms and regulating sex in some fashion. But that’s genuine heresy to most westerners and 100% of women in the present day.
What will happen if a large enough cohort of young men are disgruntled without a family or stake in their own society? In the old days it would eventually mean war and destabilizing said society — today it maybe doesn’t mean anything.