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Why do incels care so much about getting "laid"

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I sort of cared about it when I was 16 but now I don't give a fuck. Even if it were feasible, you would have to spend nearly every waking moment lookmaxing, statusmaxing, socialmaxing just so you can fuck a woman who will probably be a gross fat roastie and either fail to get hard or cum in a few minutes. That's assuming you want just casual sex, in which the chance of getting an STD is significant. If you were to enter a relationship with said woman, she would almost certainly provide nothing of value to you other than her hole to fuck. Either way, the return on investment is dismal. I don't understand why any of you desire this, when fapping achieves basically the same thing with none of the effort.

Having a wife, a real wife who stays at home rather than working a job, is a whole other prospect. It would mean having a woman who will cook, do laundry, take care of the house, run errands and other things that take up so much of your time as a single man. And if you want children she can provide them and take care of them.

That is what nearly every man was able to obtain until the sexual revolution ruined everything. The benefit of it is huge. Not just to an individual man, but to society as a whole, since the division of labor between the husband and wife makes them more efficient at their respective duties. Especially the man who will be driven to perform well at his job to provide for his wife. This is what drove Western society to its peak of greatness in the 60s.

Then the baby boomers decided that traditional marriage is lame and casual sex and short-term flings are preferable, followed by broken marriage where both the husband and wife work, and likely end up divorced. Since then the emphasis of media has increasingly been on one-night stands and short-term relationships rather than harmonious marriage. You may think you're so different from normalfags, but by obsessing over sex you've been brainwashed by the degenerate mainstream media just like them.
 
dude buy the cow lmao
it's old and can't give milk anymore? what are you a calf grabber?
just buy the cow
 
Fear of missing out, feeling like you are an outcast, being virgin shamed, and also men want to krempi. Unless you are willing to meditate hours everyday for the rest of your life you are going to think about the opposite sex, as long as you have libido.

I think if sexuality wasn't so pushed and promoted then people would care about it a lot less, but I can't confirm if that's true.

Society wasn't created for single men, it was really created for couples and single women. Even incelmatics said in his videos, that he got treated much better in public when he was with his girlfriend. And now as a single male, he is like an invisible ghost.

Simply put, if you are a guy and you don't have women in your life, people in general look down on you. Especially women think this way
 
It doesen’t effect me that much
 
Cultural and biological pressures. I've tried and I'm simply not able to be happy as a forever alone.
 
didn't read. why are you not back on r/inceltears with your fellow soys?
 
Fear of missing out, feeling like you are an outcast, being virgin shamed, and also men want to krempi. Unless you are willing to meditate hours everyday for the rest of your life you are going to think about the opposite sex, as long as you have libido.

I think if sexuality wasn't so pushed and promoted then people would care about it a lot less, but I can't confirm if that's true.

Society wasn't created for single men, it was really created for couples and single women. Even incelmatics said in his videos, that he got treated much better in public when he was with his girlfriend. And now as a single male, he is like an invisible ghost.

Simply put, if you are a guy and you don't have women in your life, people in general look down on you. Especially women think this way
Very well put. It's easy to see why it's so sought after. But objectively getting pussy alone isn't worth it (hence why paying an escort is so disappointing), what makes it worth it is everything else that it comes with when apart of a relationship. I think the validation is what most incels actually crave the most.
 
didn't read. why are you not back on r/inceltears with your fellow soys?
I've rarely been on reddit :soy::foidSoy: let alone that shithole. And I burn down soybean fields whenever I can.
 
I sort of cared about it when I was 16 but now I don't give a fuck. Even if it were feasible, you would have to spend nearly every waking moment lookmaxing, statusmaxing, socialmaxing just so you can fuck a woman who will probably be a gross fat roastie and either fail to get hard or cum in a few minutes. That's assuming you want just casual sex, in which the chance of getting an STD is significant. If you were to enter a relationship with said woman, she would almost certainly provide nothing of value to you other than her hole to fuck. Either way, the return on investment is dismal. I don't understand why any of you desire this, when fapping achieves basically the same thing with none of the effort.

Having a wife, a real wife who stays at home rather than working a job, is a whole other prospect. It would mean having a woman who will cook, do laundry, take care of the house, run errands and other things that take up so much of your time as a single man. And if you want children she can provide them and take care of them.

That is what nearly every man was able to obtain until the sexual revolution ruined everything. The benefit of it is huge. Not just to an individual man, but to society as a whole, since the division of labor between the husband and wife makes them more efficient at their respective duties. Especially the man who will be driven to perform well at his job to provide for his wife. This is what drove Western society to its peak of greatness in the 60s.

Then the baby boomers decided that traditional marriage is lame and casual sex and short-term flings are preferable, followed by broken marriage where both the husband and wife work, and likely end up divorced. Since then the emphasis of media has increasingly been on one-night stands and short-term relationships rather than harmonious marriage. You may think you're so different from normalfags, but by obsessing over sex you've been brainwashed by the degenerate mainstream media just like them.
Honestly, getting laid would be nice and all but I honestly just wish I could live like a normal guy instead of being ridiculed, unloved by my family and the people who I want to recognise me. That would be 1000x more better than just getting laid
 
I honestly just wish I could live like a normal guy instead of being ridiculed, unloved by my family and the people who I want to recognise me
Yeah this is what hurts the most. I wouldn't care about being a virgin the rest of my life if I could just feel normal and accepted. But being a virgin pretty much necessitates being an outcast.
 
I sort of cared about it when I was 16 but now I don't give a fuck. Even if it were feasible, you would have to spend nearly every waking moment lookmaxing, statusmaxing, socialmaxing just so you can fuck a woman who will probably be a gross fat roastie and either fail to get hard or cum in a few minutes. That's assuming you want just casual sex, in which the chance of getting an STD is significant. If you were to enter a relationship with said woman, she would almost certainly provide nothing of value to you other than her hole to fuck. Either way, the return on investment is dismal. I don't understand why any of you desire this, when fapping achieves basically the same thing with none of the effort.

Having a wife, a real wife who stays at home rather than working a job, is a whole other prospect. It would mean having a woman who will cook, do laundry, take care of the house, run errands and other things that take up so much of your time as a single man. And if you want children she can provide them and take care of them.

That is what nearly every man was able to obtain until the sexual revolution ruined everything. The benefit of it is huge. Not just to an individual man, but to society as a whole, since the division of labor between the husband and wife makes them more efficient at their respective duties. Especially the man who will be driven to perform well at his job to provide for his wife. This is what drove Western society to its peak of greatness in the 60s.

Then the baby boomers decided that traditional marriage is lame and casual sex and short-term flings are preferable, followed by broken marriage where both the husband and wife work, and likely end up divorced. Since then the emphasis of media has increasingly been on one-night stands and short-term relationships rather than harmonious marriage. You may think you're so different from normalfags, but by obsessing over sex you've been brainwashed by the degenerate mainstream media just like them.
The need for intimacy is inherently biological. Also, Chad doesn't have to spend any time maxxing anything.
 
The need for intimacy is inherently biological. Also, Chad doesn't have to spend any time maxxing anything.
Yes, but intimacy is not the same as just fucking. Many here bitch about not being able to have sex but what they really want is all the things that come with sex, such as intimacy.

And the obsession with Chad is really dull. A real Chad is such a rarity, why the hell do you compare yourself to him? The only significant thing about Chad is that he can get casual sex easily. Yet there's countless other men who can't get casual sex but still all the things incels are missing out on.
 
Yes, but intimacy is not the same as just fucking. Many here bitch about not being able to have sex but what they really want is all the things that come with sex, such as intimacy.

And the obsession with Chad is really dull. A real Chad is such a rarity, why the hell do you compare yourself to him? The only significant thing about Chad is that he can get casual sex easily. Yet there's countless other men who can't get casual sex but still all the things incels are missing out on.
Long term relationships are also based on looks, something that Chad has a major advantage in. Also Chads aren't extremely rare. It's common to be a Chad in the West. Yes, 20% of men is low, but not very rare.
 
It doesen’t effect me that much
People are mostly Shit and this world worships Woman 50 / 1 means ever 50 Woman that are Worshiped , one man IS worshiped.

No Need to worry when the world is Rigged against Man , and you know its Not your fault
 

Why do incels care so much about getting "laid"​

Fakecel,failed normies care,truecels stopped caring about that pointless shit a long time ago and focus on realistic things.
 
Great post OP, yes , I noticed that many users on this forum and incels in general are simply normies but with an ugly face and are not so far off from normies mentally. Only a few are high IQ and would question reality even if they were given the same sexual and social opportunities growing up. Many here would end up exactly like most normalfags.

And the obsession with chad is indeed very gay. They make it seem like chads are a very coon thing. When most I see irl are HTN or chadlites at most.
 
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It’s less about getting laid at this point and more about having women treat us with respect, like more than just subhuman wage slaving tax payers that support them.

But women nowadays are ALL trash so that won’t happen anytime soon, that’s why I condone violence against them
 
Greys .... :feelswhat:
they never learn.
 
It’s less about getting laid at this point and more about having women treat us with respect, like more than just subhuman wage slaving tax payers that support them.

But women nowadays are ALL trash so that won’t happen anytime soon, that’s why I condone violence against them
Yeah that's a whole other thing. Men are so taken for granted it's depressing. The OP was more aimed at the youngcels on here who post AHHH I NEED PUSSY NOW NEED TO COOOOM OR I'LL KILL MYSELF.
 
They make it seem like chads are a very coon thing. When most I see irl are HTN or chadlites at most.
For sure Chad is only relevant on dating apps. IRL it is being attractive enough and being NT that matters.
 
I don’t about getting laid if I die a virgin then I die a virgin all I want is a short term relationship
 
i don't, i care more about my fellow brocels suffering and friendship with women though.
 
I thought "getting laid" was a basic human need
 
If I didn't want to krempi and breed, I wouldn't be on this site complaining about it. I'm too high T and always horny!:feelsohgod::reeeeee:

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I want emotional connection, but that's simply not possible
 
no point in being scared of something that u cant prevent
 

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