Why do I still feel like shit despite being blackpilled?

[Deleted member 101]

I feel like it should liberate me from my depression. Knowing the truth about women and how they act and what they desire. 

And yet I still feel lonely and still long for a girlfriend who loves me. Despite knowing that women aren't really capable of love.

I feel the blackpill has made my depression even worse. It's made my depression mix with anger. I feel more suicidal, now. I'm more sensitive to shit.

Maybe I can't handle the truth.

 

[WorldRulerAisha]

Because even if we know this shit, we still havent felt the womens touch and affection. No matter how we try to cope this will be on our minds that well die alone because of being ugly. We will never know what love is, and no amount of escorts will fix that.

 

[Garbage]

because we know theres no hope for us if we werent blackpilled we would still be delusional and think we have chance

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

I think women are definitely capable of love, so that part of the "blackpill" is just cope. They are, for the most part however, not loyal, unlike men. Men have a hard time moving on, whereas women can do it much easier. A month later, a woman is already in a relationship whereas the guy is still lonely as hell.

 

[spergcel]

It's not supposed to be fun. Being blackpilled is shit.

 

[Deleted member 2901]

The blackpill isn't supposed to liberate or make you happy. It's about making you aware and informing you.

 

[Pasteleiro]

"'It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."
- BlackOps2cel.

Get new hobbies, start gymceling(for mental health)or a sport.

 

[Bernard]

Also just feel more depressed by the black pill.. More aware maybe, but thats it. The red pill at least gave me motivation and acceptance until I realized its about looks. Sometimes I think about if I will ever be able to change this depressive mindset.

 

[Yoyo]

Because we realize that society is more cruel than we thought before. And for many, this brings our hopes down significantly. That's when you realize, it's over.

 

[Incel801]

Biology can't be ignored

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Yeah, feels like im outside the matrix

 

[VincentVanCope]

"'It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."
- BlackOps2cel

Truly a wise man. On par with Gandhi.

 

[_incelinside]

This is the reason I refuse to blackpill myself completely. You need a little hope to stop the rope

 

[Deleted member 1627]

The Blackpill only makes it worse

 

[Weirdcel]

Because blackpill is a form of cope. You wish so badly to be an NT Chad but you know you can't.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Because blackpill is a form of cope. You wish so badly to be an NT Chad but you know you can't.

I don't even care about being Chad. I just want to be loved by some girl.

 

[Weirdcel]

I don't even care about being Chad. I just want to be loved by some girl.

Chances are, if you are loved by one girl, you are loved by more. There's hardly an in-between incel and Chad.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Chances are, if you are loved by one girl, you are loved by more. There's hardly an in-between incel and Chad.

I don't believe women are capable of loving someone that isn't their own child. I believe all women only find Chad attractive.

The only woman that has ever loved me is mother.

 

[JovanD]

Blackpill is not supposed to complete your life, it's just supposed to stop you from trying so you feel less pain, embarrassment and shame.
It's just there to stop you from playing a rigged game, but not supplement what you truly crave. For that you need catfishing and escorts.
Catfishing to manage some kind of emotional connection with a femoid and escorting to actually get to fuck a femoid, it's really best thing incel could get.
Or you can try to get a trap, your milage may vary depending on where you live.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Blackpill is not supposed to complete your life, it's just supposed to stop you from trying so you feel less pain, embarrassment and shame.
It's just there to stop you from playing a rigged game, but not supplement  what you truly crave. For that you need catfishing and escorts.
Catfishing to manage some kind of emotional connection with a femoid and escorting to actually get to fuck a femoid, it's really best thing incel could get.
Or you can try to get a trap, your milage may vary depending on where you live.

Don't like cocks so I wouldn't want a trap. Can't afford escorts and the lack of being wanted puts me off. And catfishing might really put me over the edge of my insanity.

 

[JovanD]

Don't like cocks so I wouldn't want a trap. Can't afford escorts and the lack of being wanted puts me off. And catfishing might really put me over the edge of my insanity.

try chatbots than idk, just wait for AI to improve you might get an gf that better than flesh femoid

 

[TheVman]

Are you nuts? knowing the vile truth about the one thing you want in the world being completely vapid and evil and you expect it to make you feel better?
sometimes i wish i was still bluepilled. still having hope. still trying with women.
hope.. its a bitch

 

[Deleted member 101]

Are you nuts? knowing the vile truth about the one thing you want in the world being completely vapid and evil and you expect it to make you feel better?
sometimes i wish i was still bluepilled. still having hope. still trying with women.
hope.. its a bitch

It should because knowing how bad women are should destroy any desire you previously had to be with them.

 

[TheVman]

Are you nuts? knowing the vile truth about the one thing you want in the world being completely vapid and evil and you expect it to make you feel better?
sometimes i wish i was still bluepilled. still having hope. still trying with women.
hope.. its a bitch

It should because knowing how bad women are should destroy any desire you previously had to be with them.

not how biology works

 

[Deleted member 101]

not how biology works

I get that but you look at the MGTOW fucks and they seem happy not going after females

 

[TheVman]

not how biology works

I get that but you look at the MGTOW fucks and they seem happy not going after females

you think that's why they spend all day on their forums talking about women?

 

[Deleted member 101]

you think that's why they spend all day on their forums talking about women?

Yeah it does seem cope but there are men who genuinely are happy being alone. 

I'm unhappy being alone even if it's when I feel at my highest level of comfort.

 

[Weirdcel]

I don't believe women are capable of loving someone that isn't their own child. I believe all women only find Chad attractive.

The only woman that has ever loved me is mother.

I'm not even sure this is true either. It seems to me that mothers "love" their children as a way to protect their egos. Most mothers don't want to believe their very own children are losers/ugly and all that shit. Mine certainly doesn't. She calls me handsome when other girls don't see me that way.

 

[Deleted member 101]

I'm not even sure this is true either. It seems to me that mothers "love" their children as a way to protect their egos. Most mothers don't want to believe their very own children are losers/ugly and all that shit. Mine certainly doesn't. She calls me handsome when other girls don't see me that way.

If all mothers didn't love their children, then all mothers would be abusive and neglective. 

My mother is the only woman who's ever given a shit about me. Once she dies then there will be no women who care.

 

[Weirdcel]

If all mothers didn't love their children, then all mothers would be abusive and neglective. 

My mother is the only woman who's ever given a shit about me. Once she dies then there will be no women who care.

Your mother gives a shit about you the same way a mother cat cares about her kittens. It's mostly instinctual behavior is what I mean. Women are driven by instinct. Their love of Chad and the love for their children is just instinctual. No reason or higher thinking than 'my genes'.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Your mother gives a shit about you the same way a mother cat cares about her kittens. It's mostly instinctual behavior is what I mean. Women are driven by instinct. Their love of Chad and the love for their children is just instinctual. No reason or higher thinking than 'my genes'.

She's not even my biological mother. She's my stepmom. My actual mom died when I was a kid.

 

[Weirdcel]

She's not even my biological mother. She's my stepmom. My actual mom died when I was a kid.

Ah, I don't have the stepmom experience to say much on that. I can only conjecture that your dad must be a Chad to have options after your biological mother's death.

 

[Robinxyz]

The blackpill doesn't offer a way to deal with your desires. It only makes you aware of the matrix we live in: the importance of looks, women's preference for the most biologically viable male, society's catering to its most attractive members. Your ability to attract a desirable woman and your value as a man are welded together. When you perceive that you've failed to accomplish the only thing you were born to do (pass your genes) it is only natural that the feelings you've described should come to the surface. You'll have to learn how to cope and hope that you can get satisfaction from things unrelated to courtship. A coping mechanism may help soothe your wounds but it is not a cure in itself. You will still feel blue from time to time.

We are like alcoholics or drug addicts under treatment. An individual will never be cured from his addictions, he can only manage to which extent his cravings will control him. We're exactly in the same situation: we can only manage it day by day. As for the MGTOW guys, I doubt they're in any way possessors of a key to happiness which is superior to everything I have discussed so far. They're coping just as we are. The reason as to why some might be happier than others is due to degree of emotional impermeability which they have developed.

 

[UncannyValley]

What do you mean? Blackpill causes depression