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Why do I feel lonely asf but also like I enjoy being alone at the same time?

Clavicus Vile

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I don’t understand this. And before anyone calls it cope, I 100% do want a girlfriend. But then at the same time the thought of having to deal with another person all the time and their problems, interests that I may not care about, emotional baggage, life, hormones, etc sounds like it would get annoying.

Or maybe I just have a stuck up naggy bitch envisioned when I think of a girlfriend. She’d have to be Stacy for me to look past this kinda. Although this is all cope asf :feelskek: .

I probably wouldn’t get much alone time for my own interests and hobbies. Plus a lot of women are far too emotional and would take everything to heart, not listening to reason. Although I doubt a chad would have this issue as anything goes for women if you look good enough.
 
You‘re a horrible person but you still have the desire of companionship
 
You're just realistic about it. Your brain is trying to cope with the fact that you'll never get a girlfriend anyways, so it makes you think you'd be better off without one.
 
You're just realistic about it. Your brain is trying to cope with the fact that you'll never get a girlfriend anyways, so it makes you think you'd be better off without one.
 
ur not ronery it's ur cockru zats ronery.
 
Jfl, I bet normies would hate some of us enjoying being alone to any degree. It’s the only real insult they have against us.
 
probably because, you’re forced to spend so much time alone that you eventually get used to it and enjoy the peace that comes with it, i’ve literally got zero interest in the normie life at this point but i also reckon that’s just maturity a bit.
 
You're just realistic about it. Your brain is trying to cope with the fact that you'll never get a girlfriend anyways, so it makes you think you'd be better off without one.
probably because, you’re forced to spend so much time alone that you eventually get used to it and enjoy the peace that comes with it, i’ve literally got zero interest in the normie life at this point but i also reckon that’s just maturity a bit.
 
probably because, you’re forced to spend so much time alone that you eventually get used to it and enjoy the peace that comes with it, i’ve literally got zero interest in the normie life at this point but i also reckon that’s just maturity a bit.
I think this is it. I'm so used to peace, quiet and a simple life that losing it doesn't seem worth it anymore for anyone.
 
Anybody else used to feel touch starved 24/7 between 2020-2022. Touch starvation is the weirdest feeling, feels like chronic pain and stress.
 
Anybody else used to feel touch starved 24/7 between 2020-2022. Touch starvation is the weirdest feeling, feels like chronic pain and stress.
Touch starved since birth to now
 
I think this is it. I'm so used to peace, quiet and a simple life that losing it doesn't seem worth it anymore for anyone.
facts, and i realize this too, i always think that an escort is always an available option there if im THAT desperate but i don’t think i want to do that for multiple reasons. it doesn’t seem legit.
 
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I don’t understand this. And before anyone calls it cope, I 100% do want a girlfriend. But then at the same time the thought of having to deal with another person all the time and their problems, interests that I may not care about, emotional baggage, life, hormones, etc sounds like it would get annoying.

Or maybe I just have a stuck up naggy bitch envisioned when I think of a girlfriend. She’d have to be Stacy for me to look past this kinda. Although this is all cope asf :feelskek: .

I probably wouldn’t get much alone time for my own interests and hobbies. Plus a lot of women are far too emotional and would take everything to heart, not listening to reason. Although I doubt a chad would have this issue as anything goes for women if you look good enough.
i feel this way too. I think i’m so used to being alone that i also don’t feel like having any girlfriend or friends to hang with all the time at this point.
 
Dealing with people is exhausting but I still feel lonely. I guess I'd want a girlfriend sometimes but I wouldn't want that commitment the whole time.
 

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