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Experiment Why can't we have sex?

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Angelsegg

Greycel
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Consider the fact that one of the main reasons we are here is that we cannot have sex and are therefore deprived of
1) a major physiological need and
2) social acceptance.

I will ask you to drop all hatred and answer this question objectively.

Why can't we have sex?

It seems this issue has been discussed many times on this platform.

Personnaly, I am genuinely interested in your answer, since there is a lot of factual content, historical and social evidence for what you say here.
However, not being blackpilled, I think a lot of productive discussions are polluted with trolls and hate, which I understand as I am disgusted with the current system myself, hence my question.

If we want society to stop demonising us, we must start by answering this very question in a way that will convince even foids.
 
Because we aren't human
 

Angelsegg

Greycel​



Joined Nov 7, 2021
Posts1Online 1h 3m


Fuck off
 
bcuz we r addicted to porn and cannot even enjoy prostitutes not to mention have the balls to approach women
 
"Convince Foids" yeah good luck with that. You just get immediately labelled incel mysognist etc. if you criticise them. That word gets thrown around today so much it's lost all meaning.
 
Because I'm short, poor and ugly.
 
My dick is broken
 
bcuz we r addicted to porn and cannot even enjoy prostitutes not to mention have the balls to approach women
however its very hard to stop

and the shit we have to endure makes it almost impossible
 
however its very hard to stop

and the shit we have to endure makes it almost impossible
I think being addicted to porn since I was a kid is part of the reason I'm here tbh.
 
personality
This and looks don't matter at all sweaty, also it's because we don't watch enough Marvel movies starring female protagonists and don't donate to feminist charities while guzzling soy 24/7
 
From incels.wiki
  • Social/sexual exclusion and rejection hindering socialization, access to members of the opposite sex and marriage. Possibly caused by neurodivergence or physical anomalies due to mutationsor pollutants/developmental disturbances.
    • Mental disorders, neurodivergence, autism, schizophrenia and anorexia nervosa are some of the strongest predictors of sexlessness, especially in males.[4] In one study, high functioning autistic men were 5 times more likely sexually inexperienced than their neurotypical counterparts.[5] Lack of flirting skills has been identified as a main cause of inceldom.[6]
    • Being bullied, ostracized and rejected by one's peers or being socially withdrawn during childhood are predictors of adulthood virginity.[7][8] The vast majority of users on incels.co said they were bullied at some point in their lifetime, whether it was during childhood, adolescence or adulthood, and many regard themselves as autistic (see demographics).
    • Being physically unattractive. In one study, people of either sex with below-average attractiveness had a 1.5-3x higher chance of remaining virgin during early adulthood compared to people of above-average attractiveness, however all 26 very unattractive guys in the study did have sex by the time they were around 28 years old, and being good looking appears to be slightly more useful for women than it is for men in lowering the chances of adult virginity.[9] Among adult virgins aged 28, only 0-3% of men and 1-8% of women were judged as "very unattractive" (a two or less, p = 0.02).[9] Add Health data also suggests that unattractive men are not more likely see prostitutes. However, half of the adult virgins in this study having reported to have no interest in sex, and it is unknown whether attractive virgins were more likely volcels than unattractive virgins. Looks are strongly linked to initial romantic interest, however only moderately to romantic initiation, and only weakly to long-term romantic success and in some samples even unrelated to lifetime reproductive success, further, looks were also unimportant in arranged marriage decisions which used to be the primary form of human mating (see beauty).
    • High BMI or being overweight[9] Some of the link between looks and sexual behavior may also be mediated by health as looks and health are linked weakly though consistently.
    • Premature birth[10]
    • Disease, e.g. in a German sample, those with poor general health were only around 40% as likely to have had sex in the past four weeks compared to those in good health,[11] though in a student sample, immunocompetency was not linked to mating performance[12]
    • Low social status or peer status,[13] with the socially excluded having very low status.
    • Physical disability. In a sample of physically disabled individuals, 47% did not have a partner, while in a matching sample of non-disabled individuals, 30% did not have a partner.[14]
    • For men (not women), low IQ predicts fewer offspring,[15] similar to the effect of mental disorders.
  • Slow-life history strategy inherited from the parents thus potentially accompanied by an overall sex-negativity and high achievement expectations. Slow LH types are often volcels. Slow LH may be related to adaptations for (late) arranged marriage as a stable bond of marriage enables investment in the offspring. Hence slow LH volceldom may eventually turn into inceldom, if marriage gets delayed too much or never occurs, or when there is a lack of guidance toward marriage. In fact, lack of flirting skill has been identified as the main cause of inceldom, which may disproportionally affect slow-life strategists for whom contemporary overemphasis on free mating is particularly unnatural.[6][16][17][18]
    • Asexuality/volceldom is by far the strongest predictor of virginity around the age of 28, with about half of them stating they never felt attraction to the opposite sex while asexuals only make up 1% of the general population.[9] Could be mutation or slow-life trait.
    • Starting puberty late as a male or being physically immature compared to your peers as a teenager,[19] with slow sexual maturation being a primary marker of slow life history genetics.
    • Shyness or social anxiety, no flirting skills, approach anxiety.[2] Could be mutation or slow-life trait. Possibly an adaptation for arranged marriage.[2] Due to women's passive courtship style, introversion and social anxiety have been found to substantially reduce men's mating success more than women's.[20]
    • Niceness tends to slightly reduce physical attractiveness of men to women and agreeable men have a somewhat lower income,[21] which due to women's preference for affluent men may also explain some of men's low sexual success, however out of the Big Five personality traits, only extraversion is related to men's reproductive success.[22] Extroversion may correlate with the willingness and ability to intimidate other males, which one study has shown to predict men's access to females (even more so than women's own choices, which actually had a non-significant impact on men's mating outcomes).[23]
    • Long education is a significant predictor of early adult virginity,[24] though in one study only for women (long-education femcels).[9] The phenomenon of educated women refusing to date down is also discussed in the hypergamy article, though it is unclear whether this tendency is really due to refusal to date down, or being too busy and hitting the wall, or facing evolutionary mismatches regarding an exchange of sex in return for resources.
    • Lower use of alcohol and drugs,[1][9][3] possibly causally at individual level.[24]
    • Living with both biological parents[1]
    • Having a highly educated mother[1]
    • Having caring and monitoring parents.[3]
    • Having received more sexual education.[3]
    • Fast LH acquaintances might cause envy and inceldom in those who have a slower LH speed
    • Low socio-economic status,[3] unemployment, affecting men more detrimentally than women.[25]
    • High mate choice standards, however standardcels are mostly volcels[26]
    • Low mating effort, especially in case of women (which is further evidence of Briffault's law),[27] often volcels
    • High achievement standards,[1] with today's students rather working to make ends meet than engaging binge drinking and sex,[28] however career-focused singles tend to report they focus on their career because they are single rather than they stay single in order to focus on their careers[29]
    • Female race preferences (see ethnicel), with Asian-American males yielding the highest incel rates (see demographics and the Scientific Blackpill), which could be partly explained by female hypergamy and by slow LH predisposition.
    • A high degree of neoteny in males might give rise to the cutecel phenomenon. Neoteny is related to late maturation and slow life history, possibly evoking inceldom in neotenous adult and adolescent males due to envy toward faster LH-strategic peers who are already in relationships. In an informal survey by ABs (German incels), there may have been an overrepresentation of particularly neotenous males with nearly two thirds saying they are typically perceived as younger than they are.[30] Cute looking and relatively frail overall physic may loose out in dominance competitions,[31] especially in the modern, potentially evolutionarily mismatching fast-life dating context.
  • Fast-life strategists have an overall higher sex drive, hence may experience inceldom and dryspells as a greater psychological burden.
    • Good looks might matter more in fast LH, short-term context[32]
    • Fast life history races/immigrants living in slow LH host countries with increasingly strong norms against teen sexuality and casual sexuality (though also benefiting from laxer norms regarding out-of-wedlock births and sexuality).
    • The psychological burden of inceldom is likely often amplified by sexual envy provoked by sexually successful fast LH types boasting about having sex and fast LH women self-sexualizing online and in public, which they appear to do more in areas with greater economic inequality.[33]
  • Ideology and religion can be either a positive or negative factor:
  • Husbandcels in dead bedroom marriages, as women lose their sex drive much sooner than men, seemingly especially when cohabiting closely.[35]
  • A string of bad luck
 
Because women are too picky in regards to looks, social status, money, caring what their friends think ect. If she has any mental/physical disorders, she wants a normal male unless the one with issues looks 8/10.

Basically.
 
bcuz we r addicted to porn and cannot even enjoy prostitutes not to mention have the balls to approach women
"we" :feelsseriously:

[UWSL]speak for yourself okay, i avoid that shit like plague.[/UWSL]
 
"we" :feelsseriously:

[UWSL]speak for yourself okay, i avoid that shit like plague.[/UWSL]
most havent even asked out more than 5 girls in person with a sentence like:

"Can we go out sometime?"
 
most havent even asked out more than 5 girls in person with a sentence like:

"Can we go out sometime?"
huh?

i mean by saying "we" u mean this whole forum no?>
 
huh?

i mean by saying "we" u mean this whole forum no?>
i mean myself and assume others who i think are also ponoaddicts (majority of forum)

after all since we r all incels it makes sense to assume we developed similar habbits
 
i mean myself and assume others who i think are also ponoaddicts (majority of forum)

after all since we r all incels it makes sense to assume we developed similar habbits
Alot of users feel that porn is degenerate including myself so idk anyway w/e lol
 
Because I'm not ethnic, so I can't slay
 
Angel’s Egg is the worst anime movie I’ve ever seen.
 
We all have bad personalities
 
I know a monkey that joined YESTERDAY is not telling ME what to do.

Nigger, off of my god damn forum with your WE Jewish tactic. YOU JOINED YESTERDAY AND HAVE LESS POSTS THAN INCHES IN MY PENIS

shitty WATER IS WET JEWISH NIGGER SHILL IDF THREAD
 
Why can't we have sex?
Because we are ugly and/or neurodivers and women (when they are free to choose) don’t want to fuck ugly weirdos.

It’s not rocket Science…
 
Hi IT, I think you are a bit confused, it's not about having sex, many incels have with prostitutes, it's about having a gf and we can't because we aren't attractive enough, NT enough or popular enough to get a girl that we would want to date.

Full answer:
The root of the problem is that in the tinder era, girls have too many guys to choose, they obviously choose the most attractive so we end up with a small pool of guys having short or one night relationships with a very large pool of girls. The rest of the guys compete for the less attractive girls and offcourse the less attractive guys don't have almost any chance to find a girl cute enough for them. Actually it's common sense, any guy can understand this
 
because feminism
 
this user. infiltrates me XD
 
Hi IT, I think you are a bit confused, it's not about having sex, many incels have with prostitutes, it's about having a gf and we can't because we aren't attractive enough, NT enough or popular enough to get a girl that we would want to date.

Full answer:
The root of the problem is that in the tinder era, girls have too many guys to choose, they obviously choose the most attractive so we end up with a small pool of guys having short or one night relationships with a very large pool of girls. The rest of the guys compete for the less attractive girls and offcourse the less attractive guys don't have almost any chance to find a girl cute enough for them. Actually it's common sense, any guy can understand this
When I said "Why can't we have sex?", I was implying that we can't have sex with a woman who actually wants to have sex with us. Like why can't women be attracted to us? It is degrading to be forced to have sex with a women whose job it is. I should have been more specific.
Because we aren't human
well why aren't we human?
 
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We are ugly, nothing more too it
 
Because, we don't look like: Zac Efron, Justin Bieber, or Alexander Ludwig.
 
because were ugly. when we try to approach women, because of our ugliness, it is regarded as “creepy” or even “sexual abuse”. that or we’re not rich nor tall, so women dont even want to manipulate us because of that :smonk:
 
The pfp was given to me by @Fat Link. But honestly, I think I'll keep it.
This dude’s avatar looks comical when he speaks. It gives an ‘I’m in charge’ halo.
 
I don’t know man. We got cheated
 

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