The most obvious incel copes I see are usually an attempt to portray the world as a worse place than it actually is for normies - implying that there is endemic suffering for normies within the current system as an attempt to not feel so bad about one’s own insufferable situation is contradictory to the Blackpill in my opinion because it is quite clear to me that many incels only adopt this belief as a coping mechanism to help themselves feel less isolated in their own loneliness. Claiming that anywhere near half of all normie relationships result in cuckoldry is pure cope.
When you start believing something is true (if you actually care about the truth) you should automatically consider whether the belief provides you with respite from a previously acknowledged harsh reality, if so, you should mull over the belief for some time before establishing it as part of your philosophy, otherwise you will become reliant on it as a form of respite which will in turn give you a cognitive bias against any information, even if tangible, that may serve to discredit that belief. This is the very essence of the bluepill, and why normies insist upon its veracity in the face of mountains upon mountains of contradictory evidence. Most people cannot accept that the most important variable when it comes to human attraction is looks because the fact of the matter is that this information reduces humans - who are supposed to value deeper meaning above all else - to senseless, impulse driven animals, motivated by nothing more than base primal instincts which cannot be objectively rationalised. As humans like to think of themselves as rational creatures, they simply cannot reconcile their desire to explain everything rationally with the irrationality of their mate selection processes, and thus the bluepill is sustained.
Going by this definition, I see many beliefs expressed on this forum which claim to be blackpilled, which are in fact incel-specific variations on the bluepill. At the surface level, the belief that near to all normies are being cucked in their romantic relationships may appear like a blackpill because it seemingly provides further credence to the belief that human relationships are ultimately flawed and fucked up, but in reality it is a bluepill designed by incels, for incels with the intention of stemming the effects of jealousy felt when witnessing happy couples go about their happy lives. If every time you see a couple enjoying their day the pang of anger and jealousy felt is quickly extinguished by the calming realisation that "She's probably cucking him" or "He's being betabuxxed" then you have to question the veracity of that "realisation" and identify it for what it is; a coping mechanism to protect one's ego against an unpalatable reality - a bluepill.
Cuckoldry and Betabuxxing do exist, but nowhere near to the extent insisted by many on this site, which is a clear attempt to deny that the rest of the world is no better off than oneself and deny that the grass really is greener on the other side.
predictably, the incels I see who are most likely to propagate these types of incel-specific bluepilled beliefs are the ones who are most bitter and dissatisfied with their own lives, those who are most isolated; no friends, bullied all the way through school, severely autistic and NEET are usually the ones to insist that the world is almost equally fucked up for everyone, save Chad. Though I must say; it is totally understandable to me that those who have suffered most are those who rely most heavily on these delusional beliefs to cope, I am too much of believer of swallowing blackpills for what they are to not call out this bluepilled behaviour for what I believe it to be.
The true blackpill here is that although relationships are based on superficial criteria, they still feel as though they are profound (the illusion of love) and thus in the endless human pursuit of meaning are one of the default prerequisites for human happiness, and most humans in relationships are happy. This is the true blackpill for incels because it really hammers home the statistical unlikelihood of being born an Incel in a world where most people are born with the genetic capabilities to find happiness.
TLDR; It is very difficult to discern whether one's own beliefs are an exercise in self-preservation or an objective evaluation of reality for one simple reason; we are more likely to believe in things which provide us with some kind of comfort than those which make us feel uncomfortable, regardless of whether or not they are true. This is what I call a bluepill, religion is a generic example for this behaviour, and the belief that normies suffer under the current system is an incel-specific example of it as well.
