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Serious Why are you a Incel?

P-Chan

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Just for interest, why do you think you are a Incel? I dont think thats there some right or wrong answers, but lets have overview why the guys here think the are incels.
And pls dont say just face or something, say what you think its wrong with it.
If you ethnic say you ethic kind and the place where you live.

In my case its just my autism, i dont get well with woman and fuck it every time up.
 
Why so [Serious] ?
 
First I had little motor racing and I could not play futsal (very popular here in schools) boring and fast game for me. It was chosen last, I took corticoid because of inflammation in sight. Later I was intimidated but not so serious to the point of being beaten and such, then still due perhaps to catch a certain abdominal circumference, I gained enough getting very ugly. It consumed even more my penis that was embedded. Before I discovered I had a built-in penis it was red! I was black this year alone.
 
currycel, average height, weak build, and ugly face
 
Autism, height, face
 
Mentalcel,facecel,locationcel
 
Framecel, face and some sort of autism maybe aspergers.
 
ugly and a bit aspie
 
Autism, Height, and i have nothing to offer Foids
 
Being ugly and having autism.
 
Mental and aesthetic issues.
 
Height and below average looks
 
100% lack of looks.

Not sure who said it but this quote.

"Looks aren't everything. They are the ONLY thing".

Doing online catfish experiments since 2013 and time and time again. Looks.
 
Because of my race, my nose, my current hairstyle, my height and my location.
 
Below average autismo with mental issues due to childhood abuse.
 
Mental problems, and I don't have a great face either.
 
because femoids do not want to mate with me
 
Because I'm 5'6". That's literally it. I was respected in junior high until everyone started growing while I remained stunted. It's fucking pathetic that my uglier 6'2" friend gets pussy while I don't. It's fucking criminal.
 
I was imprisoned at a young age due to false accusation. Social isolation, abandonment and trust issues.
 
Because I'm ugly and short, duh
 
I'm too old, that'll get anybody. Anybody. Time is undefeated. Time will always eventually limit who you can fuck. And you'll have to settle for other old sacks of cellulite like yourself. And that's not worth it. And if anyone disagrees, let them fuck the old sacks of cellulite and tell me it was worth it.

But on top of that, I'm short. And height is a real deal breaker, especially for women my age.

I'm also bald. But the being old and short is what takes priority. Baldness is more of a male pride thing. Height and age are really killing me.
EDIT: Oh, I'm probably mentalcel/autistic. I get little hints and clues at my disability every now and then. Recently I was watching this Cinefix countdown list/video essay about "5 Brilliant Moments In Film." And Moment #4 was from The Godfather. Watch this part of the list and tell me if you picked up on what was so great about the scene.



The scene evokes Michael mulling over whether or not to go through with the hit, and it does this by pushing in on Michael while his eyes are darting around, and also pushing in on the loud noise in the background, symbolic of a coming up to a violent climax. But I didn't get that, because I'm autistic. And I didn't make a natural connection to Michael as a human being and look him in the eyes. I was entirely detached from the scene. And it totally took me by surprise how detached I was when I listened to the narrator's explanation. Because I look people in the eyes all the time! When I'm talking to them or they're talking to me. I have to be prompted to look people in the eye. I have to make an effort to look people in the eye. But on pure natural reflex, I just drift like a retard.

I feel lonely a lot, and I like to think I'd like some people around. But then I think about it, and I'm like "What am I supposed to do with these people 10 years from now? Or 20? Or 40?"
 
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Because my facial bones have been deemed unworthy of love and companionship.
 
Short answer: looks and social status.

Long answer: I didn't give much thought to dating/relationships in school and university. In university in particular I didn't get too involved with the social side of things. It was only after I'd graduated I realized I'd missed the best chance I would ever have, going to a place full of attractive girls in their prime. Over the next couple of years my social circle dwindled. Now I'm in a position where I have no real social circle and no way to meet girls in conventional ways. As a result I've resorted to cold approaching but it hasn't worked due to a variety of factors including my sub-par looks. Effectively I'm now on a flat trajectory with my life set to continue with no prospect of ever experiencing dating/relationships/sex.
 
face, race and social status
 
Because I want to fuck pussy and have not been successful.
 
im incel due to my looks and female hypergamy
 
Because i born ugly in a society in which there is the sexual freedom.
 
I rank bottom 1.97% based on a tinder measurement with about 4000 samples. But tbh I couldn't tell you why exactly, It must me in my face because I'm pretty fit, and you can't see I'm 5'3" through the tinder pics so the manletism can't be the only thing. Real life experiences match the measurement though. I wish I knew exactly what is it that makes me so disgustingly ugly, maybe I'm really lucky and just a couple surgeries away from normie status.
 
I rank bottom 1.97% based on a tinder measurement with about 4000 samples. But tbh I couldn't tell you why exactly, It must me in my face because I'm pretty fit, and you can't see I'm 5'3" through the tinder pics so the manletism can't be the only thing. Real life experiences match the measurement though. I wish I knew exactly what is it that makes me so disgustingly ugly, maybe I'm really lucky and just a couple surgeries away from normie status.
Wait, how was that Tinder experiment conducted? Getting such a precise measure of one's (lack of) attractiveness would be very interesting.
 
only the ugly can be incel
 
Wait, how was that Tinder experiment conducted? Getting such a precise measure of one's (lack of) attractiveness would be very interesting.
Fairly simple actually, assuming you have good non photoshoped profile pics, the idea is that someone already calculated a formula that correlates the like percentage to your place in the scale. The formula can be calculated from the "how woman rank men" distribution we all know from OKCupid, since all online dating sites have almost the same distribution. TL;DR, this is what comes out : 16.8*ln([%])+52.3

Someone uploaded the formula to a wolframalpha widget:
https://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718

in my example, I got 2 matches from 4000 swipes, that is 0.05%

NOTE: there is a caveat, the math only works out if it assumes you swiped right to everyone, however if you actually did that, then the tinder algorithm would shadowban you and not show your profile... The solution is to swipe left to the top 20-30% (since you have astronomically low chances with those anyway) and swipe right to everyone else. You also have to be at least some weeks active, since it takes time for it to show your profile to enough women.
 
5'5 manlet scoliosis 2/10 SEAcel
 
asymmetrical face, no chin, no jaw, thin hair, receding hairline, 4" dick, autistic stutterer--can't say anything right, anxiety & avoidant personality from years of bullying
 
Women can sense my misogyny and it's a MAJOR RED FLAG for them.
 
I have asked women out for 8 years now and amounted to 0 success.
 
Short height and hair loss
 
HEIGHT, HAIR, SKIN
 
I’m skinny with narrow shoulders, weak wrists, average face, introverted, not very intelligent. I just don’t hold up compared to Chad and Chadlite
 

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