Discussion why are we always asked to "better" ourselves

[subindian]

feeling a bit blue/white pilled today as i am microdosing on some acid. sorry if this has been posted before i am not seeing any relevant posts on the search function, i could just be tripping.

i swear to god every normie and foid in a relationship is not perfect and often times find their boyfriend or girlfriend while being extremely toxic. whereas when a single man asks for advice he's constantly given advice to engage in activities, hobbies, personality maxx etc.

i get so annoyed while given this advice because i have been spending the latter half of my teen years and my early twenties to "better" myself only to no avail. however every skinny as fuck normie has a hot girlfriend, while having done zero work on him to better himself.

has anyone here figured out how to effectively better oneself.

 

[lowz1r]

has anyone here figured out how to effectively better oneself.

improve your genetics

 

[AutistSupremacist]

I have bettered myself.

 

[Benteveo]

There aren't a lot of ways to better yourself, you can lose weight, or shave your shitty facial hair, but for some people there isn't much to improve on.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Because they hate angry people. They never stopped to consider why you're angry however.

 

[God of the NewWorld]

feeling a bit blue/white pilled today as i am microdosing on some acid. sorry if this has been posted before i am not seeing any relevant posts on the search function, i could just be tripping.

i swear to god every normie and foid in a relationship is not perfect and often times find their boyfriend or girlfriend while being extremely toxic. whereas when a single man asks for advice he's constantly given advice to engage in activities, hobbies, personality maxx etc.

i get so annoyed while given this advice because i have been spending the latter half of my teen years and my early twenties to "better" myself only to no avail. however every skinny as fuck normie has a hot girlfriend, while having done zero work on him to better himself.

has anyone here figured out how to effectively better oneself.

Because you need to put more money into the system

 

[sub5ricemale]

Bettering yourself means you will be coonsuming more and paying more taxes.

 

[Ringbearer]

I can't "better myself" because I am who I am. I put in the work in AA, and I was better but as soon as something pissed me off, I was right back to my old self. I never change, I just got better at blending in and tolerating normies for a little while. Now back in a deep depression.

 

[Grodd]

Because they hate angry people. They never stopped to consider why you're angry however.

 

[no love found]

I hate how normies expect you to be the perfect paragon, a complete chad, in order to attract any female whatsever. Why can't an average guy be able to attract an average woman? Why should I have to self improve relentlesly? it is completely unfair. Hell, even once/if I do self improve to a point that normies deem acceptable, it's still not guaranteed I could get a GF.

people like us live life on extra hard mode.

 

[Caichan]

they assume that we didn’t try. most of us here i’m sure fell into the redpill a few years ago and coped

 

[Pikacel]

You're supposed to better yourself in spite of women not for women TBH

As you said any normie bum can get a gf. It's all looks