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Blackpill Why are normies so unwilling to differentiate the relationship between cause and effect?

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Seriously, the wind is moving because the branches are blowing for these motherfuckers.

Perfect example: how they continue to obnoxiously blame men’s mental health problems on excessive screen time or, I don’t know, fucking videogames.

If some vidya addict is suffering from depression, then that obsession with videogames isn’t a fucking cause but rather an amplifying effect and a desperate cry for help with a much bigger problem. These patterns of unhealthy lifestyles don’t just stem from one or two bad habits but more from a severe struggle that one might feel trapped within.

The same applies to our loneliness. It is constantly blamed on our apparently lack of emotional maturity, personality, and how men need to “talk” about their feelings and problems more (meanwhile, if push comes to shove and God forbid we fall for this, the same group who encourage us will then berate or maybe even humiliate us), and it’s just so sad purely because you can easily tell how it’s all done as an attempt to further obfuscate the ACTUAL cause, i.e., complete lack of support from a matriarchal society in which women’s issues are held in a higher regard, outrageously unrealistic and just borderline unachievable beauty standards placed on men thanks to pornography, TikTok zoomer culture, etc., men being born with lower value as opposed to women having inherent value due to their reproductive systems and therefore men tend to feel more isolated and hopeless as a result of men being misrepresented, and I mean, the list can just go on and on.

But no, who cares about weeding out the cause and creating a better world for everyone when you can just blame it on the effects, right? :feelsclown:

In all sincerity, has it ever even occurred to these people that maybe, if a self-proclaimed incel is, I don’t know, let’s say, misogynistic or one with a bad “personality,” then those traits aren’t exactly what’s depriving him of being loved, but instead, an effect of constantly being treated unfairly by the opposite gender on account of being physically unattractive? Obviously, that doesn’t necessarily make it okay for him to continue being a shitty person, but still, can these people AT LEAST try to see this?
 
when life becomes unbearable you will either adopt and cope or go insane. it is what it is
 
They get it mixed up a lot. Some men are not desired by women because they are confident; they are confident because they are desired by women. Ugly men are not rejected by women for being resentful and spiteful; we are resentful and spiteful for being rejected by women.
Precisely. Should’ve written something similar in the thread. The same can be said about how people with good personalities tend to be more desirable purely because THAT good personality is amplified and nourished by a good face, not vice versa: a good personality yielding a good face.
 
Seriously, the wind is moving because the branches are blowing for these motherfuckers.

Perfect example: how they continue to obnoxiously blame men’s mental health problems on excessive screen time or, I don’t know, fucking videogames.

If some vidya addict is suffering from depression, then that obsession with videogames isn’t a fucking cause but rather an amplifying effect and a desperate cry for help with a much bigger problem. These patterns of unhealthy lifestyles don’t just stem from one or two bad habits but more from a severe struggle that one might feel trapped within.

The same applies to our loneliness. It is constantly blamed on our apparently lack of emotional maturity, personality, and how men need to “talk” about their feelings and problems more (meanwhile, if push comes to shove and God forbid we fall for this, the same group who encourage us will then berate or maybe even humiliate us), and it’s just so sad purely because you can easily tell how it’s all done as an attempt to further obfuscate the ACTUAL cause, i.e., complete lack of support from a matriarchal society in which women’s issues are held in a higher regard, outrageously unrealistic and just borderline unachievable beauty standards placed on men thanks to pornography, TikTok zoomer culture, etc., men being born with lower value as opposed to women having inherent value due to their reproductive systems and therefore men tend to feel more isolated and hopeless as a result of men being misrepresented, and I mean, the list can just go on and on.

But no, who cares about weeding out the cause and creating a better world for everyone when you can just blame it on the effects, right? :feelsclown:

In all sincerity, has it ever even occurred to these people that maybe, if a self-proclaimed incel is, I don’t know, let’s say, misogynistic or one with a bad “personality,” then those traits aren’t exactly what’s depriving him of being loved, but instead, an effect of constantly being treated unfairly by the opposite gender on account of being physically unattractive? Obviously, that doesn’t necessarily make it okay for him to continue being a shitty person, but still, can these people AT LEAST try to see this?
They don't give a shit about a better world.
All that matters to them is that they can have a piece of the pie.
Nobody cares if you go under.
You can die alone in your apartment and lie there for 2 years and no one would care.
This world shits on us and no one comes to help.
Normies deny the matter because they are in the game themselves and they don't want to question the game.
 
They don't give a shit about a better world.
All that matters to them is that they can have a piece of the pie.
Nobody cares if you go under.
You can die alone in your apartment and lie there for 2 years and no one would care.
This world shits on us and no one comes to help.
Normies deny the matter because they are in the game themselves and they don't want to question the game.
:yes:

The brutal truth.
 
Absolutely fucking nightmarefuel. :reeeeee:
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Much of this is deliberate. They are maliciously misrepresenting our problems and trying to gaslight us. The goal is always to make us appear wholly responsible for our life circumstances. Even when you pin them down and get them to acknowledge society's systemic mistreatment of disabled, short and ethnic men, they will try to recenter female issues by blaming the "patriarchy" for it.

They don't give a shit about us and just want us to pipe down.
 
Much of this is deliberate. They are maliciously misrepresenting our problems and trying to gaslight us.
Perhaps, but I perceive it more as ignorance and how people just can’t fully empathize.

It’s just irrationality and generally speaking, most people just CAN’T relate with incels purely because most people are good or at least healthy looking enough to be loved, and thus, their unsolicited “advices” also tend to be irrational and impractical.

When a woman tells you to “be yourself” it’s only because THAT’S ALL she needed to do in order to get laid.

Nonetheless, appreciate the insight.

The goal is always to make us appear wholly responsible for our life circumstances.
You wouldn’t believe it, but I once read a TikTok comment saying some shit like “short men deserve to be unlovable because they could’ve had more sleep or eaten healthier food to grow taller” and it genuinely infuriated me. :feelskek:

Anything to help them jump on the liberal bandwagon of being misandristic and push this false narrative that lonely men deserve their predicament. This is why you see so many bait tier “GRAP3 ALL F0IDS :feels:” threads. They’re making their best to dehumanize us.

@PLA1092 thoughts on any of this?

Even when you pin them down and get them to acknowledge society's systemic mistreatment of disabled, short and ethnic men, they will try to recenter female issues by blaming the "patriarchy" for it.
Or just immediately turn a blind eye and dismiss everything and render it as “biased” or “unrealistic.” It’s just so tiring and they’re getting boring, unfortunately.
 

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