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I used to be a non-drinker when I was younger, and it always made me a complete outcast. Simply, no matter how funny or intelligent I was, when they hear I don't drink alcohol they always rejected me. That's one of the main reasons I had just one friend when I was a teenager, and no friends during my college days. I was socially active but the second my new friends hear I don't drink or do drugs they start teasing and bullying me, and eventually they simply reject me.

But why Is this? I just never understood. The reason I never drank in those years is that my uncle was a heavy alcoholic, so my mother had terrible fear that she instilled in me since I was very compliant as a child. Now I am more self reliant and I actually drink, but I never understood why this was such a deal breaker in my youth. I just feel like I missed out on something by not drinking or taking drugs. Am I wrong?
 
because you are boring
 
I totally understand your situation.
I lost all my ""friends"", cuz I stopped drinking (or never really started it).

I think normies just don't like different people.
 
maybe this could be why i am an outcast
 
Well @FinnCel is a heavy drinker, and he is still here
 
If everyone is drinking and you are not, who do you think is going to be singled out and ostracized? It doesn’t take a lot of IQ to realize that humans hate people that are different. Not acting like a normie is the quickest way to become a social outcast.

I don’t drink anymore either.
 
By not drinking you're pointing out their degenerate habit. They know its wrong to kill their liver and get shitfaced deep down but they do it because its fun. Its like being into clean eating around ppl who don't care about nutrition, they get butthurt and either want to drag you down with them or isolate you from the group. 'Just one bite of cake won't hurt', because how dare the subhuman try to be more virtuous than them.
 
Normies don’t like people who make choices for themselves and don’t cave in to peer pressure, that’s like weird and shit. God forbid you have willpower.
 
mogs me because mentally stable enough to not care about alcohol/drugs
 
Normies don't like people who don't kill their organs.
 
Normies don't like to think, they like to "live in the moment" and forget their problems, a person who is never drunk is always thinking and likely introspective, so you will "kill their vibe" with your selfawareness
 
Yeah even in a islamic country like Turkey especially in less conservative cities everybody drinks. When i say that i don't drink to normies they are always suprised.
 
By not drinking you're pointing out their degenerate habit. They know its wrong to kill their liver and get shitfaced deep down but they do it because its fun. Its like being into clean eating around ppl who don't care about nutrition, they get butthurt and either want to drag you down with them or isolate you from the group. 'Just one bite of cake won't hurt', because how dare the subhuman try to be more virtuous than them.
 
I can’t seem to understand this. Why the hell would it be “fun” to diminish my health?
 
I think normies just don't like different people.
I think this is the main thing. I dealt with the reverse. Everyone in my school thought doing drugs/alcohol was a "loser" trait that only "white trash retards and thugs did" so when I was drinking they treated me like I was the devil. Especially when I lived in Utah.
I can’t seem to understand this. Why the hell would it be “fun” to diminish my health?
because life sucks and alcohol makes you forget about how shit life is for a little. Though I can't entirely blame people for avoiding it since it really does take a toll on your physical and mental health over time. I feel like I ruined my IQ growing up and I would have been higher IQ if I didn't drink or smoke at all as a teen.
 
There's no drink for your face
 
I've never experienced this, but i would imagine it's because of television and media in general constantly promoting the consumption of alcohol as the "go to" thing to do in social gatherings. As a result, most people associate drinking alcohol with being normal.
 
Normies also have this elaborate belief system that includes everything they want to believe.. all the 'feel good' things. But any rational conversation could challenge one of their feel good beliefs, even if by accident.

The normie is most comfortable when he is with a group of like 5 other guys and no one can get a full sentence in. Like they are all drinking and trying stupid things, then dumbly laughing. Normies can do this for hours on end.
 
Alcohol tastes like shit.
 
If I drank alcohol in my first year in university on residency I may have not been an incel.

Alcohol, drugs and tattoos are a major part of childhood. Girls like guys who rebel
Hhh
 
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Good on you, OP. Glad you didn't drink because it messed up your family, very wise. Also i think they rejected you because you're an ugly dude and your coping. Sober chad has lots of friends still.
 
Sometimes they are but only if thy are ugly
 
i hate alcohol taste to be honest
 
if you had a chad face they would respect you and your choice not to drink, maybe they would be influenced by you and would try to stop drinking
 
I'd only drink with a JB tbh. That would open opportunities for ascension.
 
Alcohol has nothing to do with it, hence me. If Chad were to not drink for some reason he wouldn't be an outcast
 
It's the failo effect of being ugly.
"Zyzz, how do i tell my friends I don't want to drink with them to go out"

"Tell them you don't need to drink to have fun because you're not a socially awkward phaggot"
 
I used to be a non-drinker when I was younger, and it always made me a complete outcast. Simply, no matter how funny or intelligent I was, when they hear I don't drink alcohol they always rejected me. That's one of the main reasons I had just one friend when I was a teenager, and no friends during my college days. I was socially active but the second my new friends hear I don't drink or do drugs they start teasing and bullying me, and eventually they simply reject me.

But why Is this? I just never understood. The reason I never drank in those years is that my uncle was a heavy alcoholic, so my mother had terrible fear that she instilled in me since I was very compliant as a child. Now I am more self reliant and I actually drink, but I never understood why this was such a deal breaker in my youth. I just feel like I missed out on something by not drinking or taking drugs. Am I wrong?
Alcohol has been a social lubricant since beer was dispensed by topless female bartenders in Babylon, some 3500 years ago. People who spurn it, especially young people, are placing themselves outside the social interactions that are accompanied, and enhanced, by drinking.
 

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