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I used to be a non-drinker when I was younger, and it always made me a complete outcast. Simply, no matter how funny or intelligent I was, when they hear I don't drink alcohol they always rejected me. That's one of the main reasons I had just one friend when I was a teenager, and no friends during my college days. I was socially active but the second my new friends hear I don't drink or do drugs they start teasing and bullying me, and eventually they simply reject me.
But why Is this? I just never understood. The reason I never drank in those years is that my uncle was a heavy alcoholic, so my mother had terrible fear that she instilled in me since I was very compliant as a child. Now I am more self reliant and I actually drink, but I never understood why this was such a deal breaker in my youth. I just feel like I missed out on something by not drinking or taking drugs. Am I wrong?
But why Is this? I just never understood. The reason I never drank in those years is that my uncle was a heavy alcoholic, so my mother had terrible fear that she instilled in me since I was very compliant as a child. Now I am more self reliant and I actually drink, but I never understood why this was such a deal breaker in my youth. I just feel like I missed out on something by not drinking or taking drugs. Am I wrong?