Most foids are NEETs, and the ones that aren't are mostly studying useless stuff, or working fake "girljobs" that add nothing to society. In the aggregate, males alone support society - males, foids, and kids. Foids, on aggregate, don't even support themselves.
The normie hates the male NEET because the normie's primary social instinct is to protect and provide resources for foids, and that includes conseserving social resources to enable foids to be NEET/girlbosses in greater numbers and/or with more security and comfort.
A male NEET is seen as using up resources that should go to foids instead, and that triggers normies' primary social instinct. A NEET male might as well be stealing food from foids and kids, that's how normies see NEET males.