Venting Why am I so fascinated with white women?

[Esoteric7]

As a British-born South Asian man, I’ve always felt a powerful, magnetic pull toward white women.

Is anyone surprised?

I want to clarify:

• This isn’t some “fresh off the boat” thirst. I grew up here in the UK. I know what an average white woman looks like. I’m not mystified by every pigskin I see. I can tell the difference between a 4 and an 8. I see the average, the below-average, and the stunning. This isn't the desperation of someone from the homeland seeing a foreign novelty.
• And I agree: the brown guy obsessed with white girls is a pathetic stereotype, and I hate that I fit it. But I genuinely don’t believe this comes from self-hatred. The feeling isn’t “I’m beneath you.” It’s “I’m drawn to you.”

So if it’s not due to insecurity, and not novelty . . . what is it?

After a lot of thinking, I think it's something biological and aesthetic:

It’s the visual peak of femininity, as my brain perceives it.

Specifically, two things stand out:

1. There’s something about light skin that reads as inherently delicate, gentle, feminine. When it flushes pink, it looks vulnerable and alive in a way that feels intensely appealing. I heard pale skin is often linked to higher estrogen levels? Maybe my dumb animal brain sees that and screams fertility signal.
2. High-contrast effect: darker eyebrows, eye colors like blue, green, even light brown pop against fair skin. That contrast makes facial features sharper, more defined, more noticeable. It's the same reason why bold text grabs your attention more than regular text.

I’m like a reverse vampire. Instead of fearing the sun, I’m drawn to those who burn easily.

It’s not that I'm not attracted to other races of women. It’s that this particular combination of pale skin paired with high-contrast features hits some primal recognition in me that shouts feminine. Loudly and consistently.

It's frustrating. I wish it were under my control, but it's hardwired. Like my senses are tuned to a specific frequency, and White women just broadcast strongest on it.

I’m not looking for validation or shame. Just clarity. Why does this pull feel so involuntary?

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Poem:

In the beginning, there was Curry Man

Curry Man was sad

God gave Curry Man white woman

Curry Man happy for ever

 

[Grodd]

White foids aren't special and are rotten cunts like all foids, AWALT is law.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

White foids aren't special and are rotten cunts like all foids, AWALT is law.

 

[Vector2800]

• This isn’t some “fresh off the boat” thirst. I grew up here in the UK. I know what an average white woman looks like. I’m not mystified by every pigskin I see. I can tell the difference between a 4 and an 8. I see the average, the below-average, and the stunning. This isn't the desperation of someone from the homeland seeing a foreign novelty.

You answered your question with this. You grew up in the UK, which is a majority white country, so you grew up around white people and interacted with them every single day. Naturally you would get more attracted to them than other races. This is why I can’t blame white foids for not wanting to date shitskins. They grew up around white Chad and saw him on tv all the time. Why should she waste her time with a disgusting shitskin?

 

[Diddy]

South Asian man

This is why

 

[LeFrenchCel]

This is why

Bro answered his own question in the first sentence of his post kek

 

[InvoluntaryChigga]

they're more attractive, that's it really

 

[Cuckoja]

Race is the least important thing in attraction. I know on average this and that, but you dont fall in love in someone because you find her average, but because you find her special for any reason. You will love one woman for having blue eyes and pale skin and you will love another for having brown eyes and tanned skin and third for having green eyes and dark skin. You would love her with blonde, dark or red hair, because its not about the colors, its about how she makes you feel.

 

[four1298]

White foids aren't special and are rotten cunts like all foids, AWALT is law.

I hate white women.

 

[sxjghmvhgykfvtyjk]

Specifically, two things stand out:

1. There’s something about light skin that reads as inherently delicate, gentle, feminine. When it flushes pink, it looks vulnerable and alive in a way that feels intensely appealing. I heard pale skin is often linked to higher estrogen levels? Maybe my dumb animal brain sees that and screams fertility signal.
2. High-contrast effect: darker eyebrows, eye colors like blue, green, even light brown pop against fair skin. That contrast makes facial features sharper, more defined, more noticeable. It's the same reason why bold text grabs your attention more than regular text.

its definitely to lure you in

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

Because they're the hottest

 

[SlayerSlayer]

this is such a stupid question.

they have higher SMV that's why

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Race is the least important thing in attraction. I know on average this and that, but you dont fall in love in someone because you find her average, but because you find her special for any reason. You will love one woman for having blue eyes and pale skin and you will love another for having brown eyes and tanned skin and third for having green eyes and dark skin. You would love her with blonde, dark or red hair, because its not about the colors, its about how she makes you feel.

what are you talking about, women are attractive because of their race

 

[Cuckoja]

what are you talking about, women are attractive because of their race

I disagree, high e looks makes them attractive

 

[Freixel]

because you are brown

 

[SatanicDark83]

Race is the least important thing in attraction. I know on average this and that, but you dont fall in love in someone because you find her average, but because you find her special for any reason. You will love one woman for having blue eyes and pale skin and you will love another for having brown eyes and tanned skin and third for having green eyes and dark skin. You would love her with blonde, dark or red hair, because its not about the colors, its about how she makes you feel.

I’d say it’s one of the most important. Look at black women.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

deathnic moment

 

[Moth]

As a British-born South Asian man, I’ve always felt a powerful, magnetic pull toward white women.

As another British-born Pajeet, I'm telling you to stop putting white women on a pedestal.