I believe every answer here is right but for the wrong reasons. I think that the dating apps are
set up for foids inboxes to be flooded. Once the females inboxes are flooded, it means that
their criteria increases. This results in average guys paying more for swipes, messages, likes, winks,
pinches etc. This keeps the app surviving. Chad doesn't need to pay because the app works
for him. The real enemy then is the dating app or the hamster cage itself.
It is like a beast they created. If average men could get plenty of dates from the app for free then the app
eventually would not be able to survive. The owners use women as the bait, Chad as the accomplice, and
its average men who are the target.
Therefore you're either paying A LOT or you're good looking. Average men will get dates every now
and again which is consistent with what happens.
I believe the solution to inceldom is deleting all of the apps firstly (unless you're willing to spend £100
a month and they will no doubt push you so much women will respond) OR have pictures that
make you look like chad. Then understand there are women who are looking for attention. These
are fake and often show cleavage and sexualised photos. They don't need dating apps but just
want attention. The reasoning is thus
1. Men get rewarded for being good looking or paying money to the app
2. Women are rewarded with MORE messages when their photos are sexualised
You could try meeting women on facebook dating groups which isn't engineered
towards money. You're then outside the hamster cage itself and may be treated differently.
If my theory is correct then inceldom only exists for men who have been damaged by the
dating apps.
This is a hypothesis and i will eventually come back with results.