Never check them as well.
I think they consist of three main groups:
1) Foids and their white knights who are too sensitive to handle male frustration, yet are not willing to offer solutions or at least sympathy
2) Normies who had sex at least a few times and cannot grasp how damaging and final incel virginity feels like. They think we are being dramatic.
3) Sensitive "goody" people who try to cope with the fact that nature is amoral and that there are human beans who were born "subhuman" and damned to live a life in misery. They are frightiened that they could have been like that, They could turn out to be like us due to illness or accidents, and their children could turn out to be like us.
Tbh I think most people at inceltears are group 3. They are scared and cannot accept the harsh reality of mother nature. So they try to beat us down and silence us because we disturb their moral world veiw.