Sheogorath
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I think the last time I did that was something like 10+ years ago because I was paying to sleep in a hotel room (we were illegally sharing it beyond capacity due to being poor teens and it was overpriced, something like $50 each for a night I think) at a convention so the girl renting the room needed phone numbers for everyone involved and I slept off in a corner but didn't get to know her much otherwise.
It's basically an alien thing and I just bought a year's worth of cell service for emergencies (feeling compelled to go for long walks to escape noise, so good to be able to call 911 in case someone decides to rando shoot me in the back) and it got me thinking about how hypothetically I could exchange numbers with a girl and if I wanted some privacy from roommates/landlord overhearing I could just go make the call in a park where nobody's around.
But I have no idea what I would talk about on the phone... but that kind of freedom is I guess the first step to being able to do things like meet friends that normies do.
I just don't think it's enough though. There's so many other components you need, like a domicile you can't be disturbed at, an impressive job to talk about, even if you do find someone willing to give your looks a chance.
However cucked/biddy it sounds I think I'd even be okay with being friendzoned be a girl just for someone to hang out with and talk to just for the experience of learning how to talk to people which I've largely fallen out of practice with.
Maybe if you have it in your head "I'm 100% okay with ignoring romantic prospects with this girl" you can practice stuff like being based and non-orbiting? I don't know if girls would want to even keep you around as a friend if you don't suck up to her.
What I imagine is they would probably shit-test like pretend to abandon you if you don't cave to her expectations, but maybe if you hold ground if she's desperate for attention she'll come back to you later and respect you better the next time.
I sure am thinking a lot about something I basically have no idea how to begin though. Red-pilled PUA stuff talks about cold-approaching girls for dating but how do you cold-approach girls for friendshipping?
I guess if all I want is friendship I should be trying to make male friends too but I think I'm too homophobic for that. Like I'm literally fearful of a lot of men either trying to fuck me or getting jealous of me making eyes at their sis/GF and wanting to cancel me.
I guess decent male friends who aren't sabotagers/jearous might be useful in hooking you up with female friends. I dunno, I'd probably guard mine jealously, but that's perhaps due to scarcity.
If you had dozens of associate-level foid friends perhaps you are more generous with them.
It's basically an alien thing and I just bought a year's worth of cell service for emergencies (feeling compelled to go for long walks to escape noise, so good to be able to call 911 in case someone decides to rando shoot me in the back) and it got me thinking about how hypothetically I could exchange numbers with a girl and if I wanted some privacy from roommates/landlord overhearing I could just go make the call in a park where nobody's around.
But I have no idea what I would talk about on the phone... but that kind of freedom is I guess the first step to being able to do things like meet friends that normies do.
I just don't think it's enough though. There's so many other components you need, like a domicile you can't be disturbed at, an impressive job to talk about, even if you do find someone willing to give your looks a chance.
However cucked/biddy it sounds I think I'd even be okay with being friendzoned be a girl just for someone to hang out with and talk to just for the experience of learning how to talk to people which I've largely fallen out of practice with.
Maybe if you have it in your head "I'm 100% okay with ignoring romantic prospects with this girl" you can practice stuff like being based and non-orbiting? I don't know if girls would want to even keep you around as a friend if you don't suck up to her.
What I imagine is they would probably shit-test like pretend to abandon you if you don't cave to her expectations, but maybe if you hold ground if she's desperate for attention she'll come back to you later and respect you better the next time.
I sure am thinking a lot about something I basically have no idea how to begin though. Red-pilled PUA stuff talks about cold-approaching girls for dating but how do you cold-approach girls for friendshipping?
I guess if all I want is friendship I should be trying to make male friends too but I think I'm too homophobic for that. Like I'm literally fearful of a lot of men either trying to fuck me or getting jealous of me making eyes at their sis/GF and wanting to cancel me.
I guess decent male friends who aren't sabotagers/jearous might be useful in hooking you up with female friends. I dunno, I'd probably guard mine jealously, but that's perhaps due to scarcity.
If you had dozens of associate-level foid friends perhaps you are more generous with them.





