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Discussion who has ever exchanged numbers with a girl and if so how many months/years/decades ago was it?

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I think the last time I did that was something like 10+ years ago because I was paying to sleep in a hotel room (we were illegally sharing it beyond capacity due to being poor teens and it was overpriced, something like $50 each for a night I think) at a convention so the girl renting the room needed phone numbers for everyone involved and I slept off in a corner but didn't get to know her much otherwise.

It's basically an alien thing and I just bought a year's worth of cell service for emergencies (feeling compelled to go for long walks to escape noise, so good to be able to call 911 in case someone decides to rando shoot me in the back) and it got me thinking about how hypothetically I could exchange numbers with a girl and if I wanted some privacy from roommates/landlord overhearing I could just go make the call in a park where nobody's around.

But I have no idea what I would talk about on the phone... but that kind of freedom is I guess the first step to being able to do things like meet friends that normies do.

I just don't think it's enough though. There's so many other components you need, like a domicile you can't be disturbed at, an impressive job to talk about, even if you do find someone willing to give your looks a chance.

However cucked/biddy it sounds I think I'd even be okay with being friendzoned be a girl just for someone to hang out with and talk to just for the experience of learning how to talk to people which I've largely fallen out of practice with.

Maybe if you have it in your head "I'm 100% okay with ignoring romantic prospects with this girl" you can practice stuff like being based and non-orbiting? I don't know if girls would want to even keep you around as a friend if you don't suck up to her.

What I imagine is they would probably shit-test like pretend to abandon you if you don't cave to her expectations, but maybe if you hold ground if she's desperate for attention she'll come back to you later and respect you better the next time.

I sure am thinking a lot about something I basically have no idea how to begin though. Red-pilled PUA stuff talks about cold-approaching girls for dating but how do you cold-approach girls for friendshipping?

I guess if all I want is friendship I should be trying to make male friends too but I think I'm too homophobic for that. Like I'm literally fearful of a lot of men either trying to fuck me or getting jealous of me making eyes at their sis/GF and wanting to cancel me.

I guess decent male friends who aren't sabotagers/jearous might be useful in hooking you up with female friends. I dunno, I'd probably guard mine jealously, but that's perhaps due to scarcity.

If you had dozens of associate-level foid friends perhaps you are more generous with them.
 
this one time in 9th grade i had this assignment i hadn't done and this one girl gave me her number and she sent me pics of the assignment with the answers, i just said thanks and the conversation ended
the biggest tyronecel strikes again :feelsmage:
 
Only ever for group projects in university, so a year and a half ago.
 
im not black bro:worryfeels:

also that did nothing for me at all

she was jsut being nice ig idk why
i thought you were because of your voice

what's your race nigga?
 
Last female I exchanged numbers with was my immediate boss. That was winters last year
 
south asian:feelsrope:

shits wack
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I had alot of female friends in highschool but in pretty sure fhey saw me as gay. Dudes are usually better friends. Havent had an actual social circle in a minute though.
 
are you white, if so then you mog automatically
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also, i am

but you mog me at the end of the day excluding race
 
Never have I

exchanged numbers with a girl​

 
this one time in 9th grade i had this assignment i hadn't done and this one girl gave me her number and she sent me pics of the assignment with the answers, i just said thanks and the conversation ended
this is such a youngcel trait, in HS for me camera phones were too rare and low-res for this
 
who the fuck still exchanges numbers wtf are you serious what year is this
 
My (former) boss, bout a year ago
 
this one time in 9th grade i had this assignment i hadn't done and this one girl gave me her number and she sent me pics of the assignment with the answers, i just said thanks and the conversation ended
 
who the fuck still exchanges numbers wtf are you serious what year is this
apparently it's as simple as calling someone and whoever receives can just add contact

I wonder if there's some kind of faster way that doesn't involve needing to dial in a number as I imagine many lack patience for that
 
I got very bad memories of going for numbers, it started in the 9th grade back in about 1997. I'd get together 3 other guys and we'd go to the mall,they didnt have the balls but I did and I would comment to girls passing our way or would try to get their number. I remember some girls with disgusted looks,or they'd just keep walking. One time a girl would actually give me her number months into this. And it turned out to be a very big mistake. I simped hard for her,and she became my sister's friend. So even if I wanted to get rid of her she'd come around. I tried being her friend also the good guy role. And I couldn't help but be in love with her. I watched her get with guy after guy after guy. And never like me. One time I confessed my love to her and wanted to kiss her,she agreed she would kiss me to see if she'd "feel" anything. After I kissed her she said sorry I didnt feel anything. She was also a stoner and really weird. Funny thing is I seen she got recently married and the guy looks just like her dad,a dork. But never did like me.

But there's been tons of times in my 38 years of life, they'd say they had a boyfriend, gave me a fake number, or when I contacted them they showed no interest what so ever.
 
Back in 200 BC.
 
apparently it's as simple as calling someone and whoever receives can just add contact

I wonder if there's some kind of faster way that doesn't involve needing to dial in a number as I imagine many lack patience for that
What really? I'm still on my rotary phone with a cord this is unbelievable
 
long time ago, don't even remember who it was with or the reason why but I did.
 
One time I confessed my love to her and wanted to kiss her,she agreed she would kiss me to see if she'd "feel" anything. After I kissed her she said sorry I didnt feel anything.
Could have predicted that, if a foid has to be talked into kissing you they're not going to be spontaneously attracted as a result EVER.
What really? I'm still on my rotary phone with a cord this is unbelievable
I have one of those for in case the power goes out. Wanted to get more (one for each outlet) but can't find them anyway, been checking used item stores.

I stil lthink I'm probably behind tech and there's some kind of "let's just click our phones together" way of exchanging numbers which doesn't require at least one person to dial. There must be n app for that.

Social foids probably know all about it but won't tell non-chads because they want to use "don't have time to orate/type the number" as an excuse to not exchange
 
apparently it's as simple as calling someone and whoever receives can just add contact

I wonder if there's some kind of faster way that doesn't involve needing to dial in a number as I imagine many lack patience for that

huh

well if you count exchanging numbers at a model UN conference or whatever or with a high school classmate i guess it counts, so i actually have quite a few numbers from my time in HS

but most people i know in the UK uses whatsapp or messenger, texting is rare
 
Could have predicted that, if a foid has to be talked into kissing you they're not going to be spontaneously attracted as a result EVER.

I have one of those for in case the power goes out. Wanted to get more (one for each outlet) but can't find them anyway, been checking used item stores.

I stil lthink I'm probably behind tech and there's some kind of "let's just click our phones together" way of exchanging numbers which doesn't require at least one person to dial. There must be n app for that.

Social foids probably know all about it but won't tell non-chads because they want to use "don't have time to orate/type the number" as an excuse to not exchange
Yeah I was smoking weed at the time also,so I was a stoner in love,and she was just a stoner that was wild and got with different guys,I was about 16 at the time. I'm more smarter then I was then.

Also girls will come up with every excuse in the book for non chads/tyrones
 
Over 1 decade ago, it was nothing romantical.
 
Never had that experience, so no idea
 

are you really gonna act like most indian dudes look like that? Most indian dudes, especially dark-skinned south indians are usually truecels even if they're above average facially for their race. Their conservative culture doesn't help either. I once worked with a south indian dude who was probably above average facially but his height, dark skin, accent, and demeanor due to his culture made him a truecel.

Women would literally call him "cute" like in an innocent little kid sort of way and I felt so fucking bad for him.
 
The last time I accepted a foids phone number was in high school(15+ years ago). I got offered phone number from a few other foids but not in the last 10 years at least.
 
Socially? So long ago I can remember. Recently like this year but just with roasties for work purposes.
 
elementary school: i was a very friendly kid in school and my parents were quite active in my schooling years. i didn't have a phone myself and wasn't even allowed to use the house phone but my parents had phone numbers of other parents that were parents of female classmates. i wrote this before but i used to have a study buddy in elementary school that was a girl. sometimes i would fuck up and lose my classwork so my parents would call her house and we would drive over there and i'd either copy her homework or we would do homework together. i feel really bad because i ended up throwing a rock at her head and like a week later we had a test but i didn't know what the test was about so i ashamedly had to tell my parents to call her one last time and we went over to her house and she copied the test notes for me. when she handed them over to me i could feel fire in her eyes. it was an awkward situation but the adults didn't know what happened. that was the last time i spoke to her

middle school: no

high school: in 11th grade we had a group project and i had 3 (COUNT THEM. THREE!) girls numbers written on my notebook. i felt like the fucking man. I think I left my notebook out on my bed and my parents saw the numbers and they thought i was a fucking pimp that week. i didn't tell them it was for a group project but they overheard me talking to a girl at around 11pm and thought i was getting laid. unfortunately we were just coordinating the work but my parents didn't know that. I used to get so nervous I used to stutter over the phone, "Uh-uhmm...S-S-s-sarah? Umm...yes Hello Mrs. Vega. Is S-ss-arah available? Hi Sara! Uhmm-umm can we speak about the school project please?" To their credit these girls were very nice towards me and we ended up getting like a 95% for our grade. I just remember being so nervous. This was my first time talking to girls over the phone I can't even imagine flirting or asking for a date over the phone. Chads must have huge confidence holy shit. I was just talking about school work and nearly fainted

college: freshman year in college. another group project. my team was 3 girls again. except this time they wouldn't talk to me and were not friendly. a white girl. a black girl and an asian girl. the white girl was a hippie that was the ring leader and constantly doing acid. the black girl wanted to be white so she did everything the white girl did. the asian girl was a very tiny petite little asian girl who was very nice but didn't have a mind of her own so she just did whatever the white girl told her to do then would whisper that she was sorry to me because i knew in her heart that she wasn't mean-spirited like the other 2 were. Anyway, i tried calling the asian girl to figure out how we should split the work. The asian girl never picked up but when I met her in person she said the white girl told her to not answer my calls. The black girl was mean and also never answered my calls. So I called the white girl and she also never answered my calls. So I meet up with this white bitch and cuss her the fuck out and tell her I've been trying to get with her for weeks and they won't tell me or coordinate with me for our project. She just blew me over and told me it was inappropriate for a man to be calling them on the phone (wtf?) and I remember yelling, "WE'RE ON THE SAME TEAM YOU BITCH!" on campus

Long story short I ended up doing a whole group project myself in a little under a week. They also did one. It was super awkward that our group had two presentations. The instructor gave us 50% off so we technically failed even though we got perfect scores due to my project. I begged the TA to put in a good word for me and explained everything. He was a cool guy but he couldn't convince the cuck instructor that it wasn't my fault my teammates wouldn't talk to me.

Adult Work: I've posted this before but older ladies like me. I've shared my number before with single or married older ladies (50s and 60s) that have called me in times of emergency. One time we took a lady to the ER. We helped another lady move. We helped this lady sell some stuff. We helped another lady get supplies. And by we I mean myself and my parents. I don't own a vehicle so for example my Mom or Dad would drive.
 
Fakecel Trait:
 
last time I accepted a foids phone number was in high school (15+ years ago).
I got offered phone number from a few other foids but not in the last 10 years at least.
Context of # in HS and 2+ #s 11-14 yrs ago?
 
Never. One girl asked me to follow her insta. I declined. (Not a cuck)
 
Sometime in 2020 my mom had a dentist appointment and the hightier normie/stacylite nurse had me give her my number so i could be notified when she was done.

Honestly she couldn't even call me or text me due to how bad my phone was at the time :cryfeels:
 
Sometime in 2020 my mom had a dentist appointment and the hightier normie/stacylite nurse had me give her my number so i could be notified when she was done.

Honestly she couldn't even call me or text me due to how bad my phone was at the time :cryfeels:
you should go in to that dentist office and make an apt for yourself

also exchange usualyl means you both give each other, not just giving yours out at some office in an official capacity tbh
 

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