Who else here has done a lot of cold approaches (100+)

[Ryo_Hazuki]

I did well over 5,000 +

Wow you got me beat. I can see why you have mental health problems. I don't care how normal/NT your default brain hardwiring is...getting rejected over 5000 times would drive any man insane.

Did you guys know that 50% of offenders in a UK prison are neuro-divergent?

Apparently this is true:

Prevalence of Neurodiversity in a UK High Secure Psychiatric Hospital Cohort: A Records Study - PubMed

With the survey suggesting that the majority of patients in one high secure psychiatric hospital have at least one form of neurodivergent condition, it raises questions around how useful the term is and what the term neurodivergence means in this population. With each form of neurodiversity...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

I can understand why too.

People with autism have a difficult time understanding with things like unwritten/unspoken rules, nebulous concepts, and implicit double standards. It's not even about just not liking them, but they really have trouble understanding them in the first place.

On paper, the UK has freedom of speech, but it's nowhere near as protected as it is in america. There are hate speech laws, but those are nebulous concepts and they're enforced by popular opinion (what is "offensive" anyway?). The UK arrests more people than Russia does for things said online. Often the arrests are for mild criticism of immigration policy.

Most brits seem to actually like this system as they get the benefits of appearing like a free and open society while also getting to punish people for wrongthink. But even most of the brits that don't actively like it don't really care. At least they can have a pint at the ol pub with their mates and talk about how manchester united are a bunch of fookin' wankas, that's free speech enuf innit govna?

This leaves mostly just the neuro-divergent people who don't understand the unwritten rules and unspoken double standards that end up violating them and being punished by the law, all while thinking what they did/said was legal and having no malicious intent behind it.

I think in some ways, certain neuro-divergent people would be better off in an explicitly authoritarian country like North Korea, where it's very explicit about what you can and cannot do, as opposed to an orwellian nightmare state cosplaying as a "liberal democracy".

Thank god I was born in America so I don't have to worry about this bullshit.

 

[craniofacialcel]

Never tried

 

[Eremetic]

Yeah if I did as many cold approaches in 2024 that I did in the 2000s, I would probably get into legal trouble.

The worst thing that happened to me as a direct result of cold approaching was getting knocked out once, and getting kicked out of a mall.

explains the brain damage

 

[Eremetic]

I think in some ways, certain neuro-divergent people would be better off in an explicitly authoritarian country like North Korea

Thank god I was born in America so I don't have to worry about this bullshit.

who made this retard mod

 

[Eremetic]

also manchester united mog

 

[manletcel1488]

Never. I'm socially awkward in general and I don't want to get humiliated.
If you have to approach females they aren't attracted to you simple as.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I never really approached any stacies. I usually went for sub5 women, as I was self-aware enough to realize I was sub5, but at the time I didn't fully understand juggernaut law, so a lot of the women I approached were sub3 even.

Ugly women (sub-5, and especially if they're fat and short) are the meanest ones by far in my experience.

 

[oldNgreycel]

Cold approaching for a non-chad is just asking for jail time.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Yup, and that's just in person. Online it's way more.

 

[sonogonz]

Mogs me for approaching people

 

[ezio6]

Cold approahed 10 betch and all of them frown and tell me to fuck off lol. No more

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Ugly women (sub-5, and especially if they're fat and short) are the meanest ones by far in my experience.

That's been my experience as well. I'm sure it's because sub5, and especially sub4 women have to deal with a lot of sub5 men trying to get with them due to juggernaut law.

 

[SrutalBeggs]

Don't risk it brocel

 

[JKlancecaster069]

I've cold approached around 15 times pretty all of the foids I approached were unattractive facially, overweight or both but they still rejected me.

 

[TooSomething]

A lot less than you because I was looking for a virgin like myself to have a relationship on equal grounds and because I thought that I deserved it for holding out for so long.

Then, one day I took the red pill and shortly after the black pill and I understood that me being a virgin was not even my choice. I never even stood a chance.

Since virgins were rare even during my youth (37 now) I think I have cold approached 11 foids.

It of course is a lot less, but I never wanted to just approach some random bitch on the street, just because she was attractive. Those 11 foids I knew a little bit, and I liked them enough to go for it.

Since I am a loner and don't have any friends, naturally the amount of women I know is very small.

The last time I've approached was last year on a late summer night.
Bitch had a far lower SMV than me, actually, except her being raised well, for the most part and a young virgin.
She was a disproportionatelly short legged midget with a fat ass and a thin upper body. Very weird looking.

Got rejected again for being "too old" and as an alternative for not having enough money.

She was not attracted to me so she kept saying bs like too old, too passionate, unlike her, to not hurt me, but I understood.

Being rejected by someone who is even uglier than yourself is suifuel, and quite frankly it broke me for a good while.

 

[Gott _mit _uns94]

Cold approches are so unnatural to me, I can't do it, and I won't try.

society f*cked up dating mechanics, in the past we either were arranged married from young age, and consequentially got to know the w0men most of the times.

Or we met them in places like churches and other loctions and got to know them natuatrlly, JFL at people who believe that just approching a person out of no where is normal.

 

[TooSomething]

Yeah if I did as many cold approaches in 2024 that I did in the 2000s, I would probably get into legal trouble.

The worst thing that happened to me as a direct result of cold approaching was getting knocked out once, and getting kicked out of a mall.

Wtf?! Why'd you get ko'd and by whom?

 

[fullofchagrin]

I've never done that.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Wtf?! Why'd you get ko'd and by whom?

I made a thread about it a little over a month ago here:

The time I got knocked out for cold approaching.

Not sure if this warrants it's own thread but it was requested by @Grodd I approached this obese woman at the mall that I thought was by herself. She wasn't receptive to my approach and I was getting ready to walk away, then her boyfriend comes up to me and stands over me all like "YO THAT'S...

incels.is

 

[TooSomething]

I made a thread about it a little over a month ago here:

The time I got knocked out for cold approaching.

Not sure if this warrants it's own thread but it was requested by @Grodd I approached this obese woman at the mall that I thought was by herself. She wasn't receptive to my approach and I was getting ready to walk away, then her boyfriend comes up to me and stands over me all like "YO THAT'S...

incels.is

Ah, ok, thanks. I remember. I commented on that.
That was 17 years ago. Shame.