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since you're already dating the lowest of the low why don't you dm me
sadly he probably cant, this is the state of the west in 2018Minimum wage workers, the true scum of the Earth. JFL. I hope that PHDcel grows a spine and ghosts this roastie.
JFL at being a Neet in 2018. wageslaves get all the Roasties.
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How do so many men have the stomach to go after and worship these evil foid witches?Here is the OP for whoever missed it:
So, I broke up with my ex (30/m) about a month ago. He cheated on me once, and I took him back for a while. After the second time (shame on me), I ended it.
I also picked up and moved to a different state. See, I was living in a small town, but now, I'm in a city for the first time. I've had some time to really evaluate the guys I've picked. See, I'm educated, independent, have a good job, and I know there are many men who are physically attracted to me. And yet, I pick the WORST guys. I've dated felons, minimum wage workers, and just the lowest of the low. But then, there were these guys I passed up. The ones I should have been interested in but something "didn't feel right." I've seen nice guys (educated, kind, etc) for a while, but then I end up losing interest. When I was growing up, my mother (65/f- we're estranged) would often tell me that I would never find a nice guy or no one would love me. I wonder if deep down, I've internalized this.
Well, when I first got to the city, I was feeling lonely. At this point, my ex was still blowing up my phone. I told him we were some and he needed to leave me alone and let me move on with my life (we were together got a year). But, then the loneliness came. I got on tinder. I started talking to a PHD student /researcher(32/m). We had hours long phone conversations for the next few days. Then, we met up at a coffee bar. Then, we had a few dates. I know I shouldn't have, but the date before last, I slept with him. It got my mind off my ex, and it was a total reboundy thing to do. On our last date, we went to dinner and a coffee shop. I told him that I wanted to go home alone that night. He said it was okay, but I sensed he was hurt over that. I told him that I'm not really ready to date because it's too soon. He said he understood. I'm worried I'm running into that old "it doesn't feel right" crap I seem to do. I know it's been a short time, but I can already tell he's better than most of the men I've dated. The old me would just ghost him at this point. But, maybe I need to date someone who "doesn't feel right" because what feels right does not seem to be
tl;dr
I (30/f) broke up with my cheating ex (30/m), and I moved to the big city. I had a rebound (32/m) and am now having second thoughts. I have a tendency to date terrible men, and am wondering if I'm just pulling back because "it doesn't feel right." I can't seem to be attracted to the people I should be attracted to.