Blackpill Where did the myth of "#1 thing woman are attracted to is confidence" come from?

[Crustaciouse]

I always hear this meme being spouted out by non incels.
Wheredid they come to this conclusion?
Why would confidence be the most important, why not looks, style, wealth, personality, or some other shit?
Why this one specific quality?
Is it one of the remnants from the pick up artst boom? Pua's lied to ugly men and told them they only need to be confident to get laid.

 

[Reprobus]

Confidence is a trait which represents dominance in a male, this means nothing and makes you look like a dick if you're not Chad though...

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

Perhaps because chad is confident, it makes women think they are attracted to this. When in fact it is just his genetics which make him attractive and nothing to do with his confidence or personality at all.

 

[1984cel]

Confidence = tall, nw0, hunter eyes, lantern jaw

 

[Mainländer]

It's like the charlatan pastors who claim to perform miracles and then tell you "you didn't have enough faith" when the miracle doesn't happen.

The key factor must be attributed to some abstract, impossible to be measured, shit. It's a cunning trick.

 

[Pinpoint]

Perhaps because chad is confident, it makes women think they are attracted to this. When in fact it is just his genetics which make him attractive and nothing to do with his confidence or personality at all.

It's another con-artist contortion.
Like if a business owner was saying they were trying to motivate people by cutting the workers pay by lying about their low revenue (so they could keep the extra credit). When in reality motivation isn't an element they would need so badly so as to make them lose out on payment themselves.
All lies come from explaining a facet or detail of something that is uncertain/ not explicitly known.
And millions of them can come from talking about people's motivations.

It's like the charlatan pastors who claim to perform miracles and then tell you "you didn't have enough faith" when the miracle doesn't happen.

The key factor must be attributed to some abstract, impossible to be measured, shit. It's a cunning trick.

Very good comment.
Yes, it's something that is impossible to be measured. They usually talk about things coming from an abstract way since people are motivated by abstracts like purpose, ideology, emotion, etc. So they try and create a fake cause to justify the situation in their favor.

You cannot find out all the abstracts about sociology because we cannot test every single person whether they want to or not, kept at bay, with a *super complex* FMRI (that we don't have yet) to monitor people's minds that can certainly WITHOUT A DOUBT measure what people are choosing people for. (GUARANTEED IT'S NOT CONFIDENCE). So they make a fairybraided/ happy clappy cause from the situation, and rely on people being ignorant/ the law/ normie denialists/ humanity's inclination to wishful thinking... in order to halt/ dragback the high willpower skeptic's ability to come to the truth. They rely on all this friction so that losers will remain losers.

Women want to especially dragback the intelligent from being skeptical.

 

[Six]

If you're attractive of course you'll be confident.

 

[Insomniac]

If you're attractive of course you'll be confident.

Exactly. They both go hand in hand.

 

[Ub2w]

Being an high SMV male = having success = being confident

Again, normies are great in confusing correlation and causation.

 

[Mik_TFL]

I always hear this meme being spouted out by non incels.
Wheredid they come to this conclusion?
Why would confidence be the most important, why not looks, style, wealth, personality, or some other shit?
Why this one specific quality?
Is it one of the remnants from the pick up artst boom? Pua's lied to ugly men and told them they only need to be confident to get laid.

In a nutshell: Chad + confidence = successful chad however it is not PC to admit that the chad part is necessary, so the "you only need confidence" myth was born

 

[iKillCucks]

cOnFiDeNcE bR0

 

[Deleted member 1060]

In order to keep those beta-orbiters and cucks busy. "Confidence" is a vague concept, and vague concepts are always used to fool the masses. Because when you ask "what do you exactly mean by confidence?", you will see that no one can define it precisely.

 

[ihaveno1]

Perhaps because chad is confident, it makes women think they are attracted to this. When in fact it is just his genetics which make him attractive and nothing to do with his confidence or personality at all.

Being an high SMV male = having success = being confident

Again, normies are great in confusing correlation and causation.

 

[currycel]

I always hear this meme being spouted out by non incels.
Wheredid they come to this conclusion?
Why would confidence be the most important, why not looks, style, wealth, personality, or some other shit?
Why this one specific quality?
Is it one of the remnants from the pick up artst boom? Pua's lied to ugly men and told them they only need to be confident to get laid.

This conclusion is correct, actually. Men who have success with women (Chad) are obviously more confident. Have you ever met a confident incel? Incels are browbeaten, bullied and ignored from childhood, whereas Chads have fucked 100+ females by the age of 20. Who do you think has more "confidence" here?

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Because guys who slay women are confident, so retarded normies took that as the cause of their slays rather than the effect.

It does help boost your smv because it gives a slight illusion of looking better, because an ugly guy has no reason to be confident, but its not magic. It also has a very high chance of biting you in the ass if you have no reason to be confident. Such as in a fight, if youre cocky but can't fight at all and you pick fights, your confidence will only hurt you badly.

Likewise, confident as an incel is creepy, toxic masculinity, sexual harassment, etc.

Confident as a chad is charming.

 

[Zielony4]

It's a bunch of shit made so the bottom 80 percent of males don't rope. We are what made civilization as advanced as it is today and pay lots of taxes.

 

[KingChemist]

I guess it's humanity trying to say that since women rely on men for survival, they are moreless looking for a more dominant man to look after them. Nowadays, that's complete bullshit for several reasons. 1-women have rights and can live on their own, they don't need to rely on anyone. 2-the halo effect is at play at all times. 3-its "confident" guys approaching women for a relationship. Looks are the dealbreaker in this case. All in all, we always end up getting the short end of the stick if we aren't goodlooking. We NEED to look our best to survive.

 

[Deleted member 677]

If you're attractive of course you'll be confident.