Serious Where can one realistically meet average girls?

[InternalJizzz]

Serious question, aside from all the advice to normiemaxx ya ya, i dont work a very social job, my university is primarily online, and I rarely go out, only time I do is to exercise or get food, I wouldn't say I'm necessarily hideous or ugly in general nor am I longer a fatcel, I've improved my looks and life tenfold this year but I still see a ton of people my age with gfs that I have no clue how it happened.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

There is no public place anymore just private cliques already pre established, unless you have a friend circle with connections or a high enough SMV to survive dating apps there are none

 

[InternalJizzz]

There is no public place anymore just private cliques already pre established, unless you have a friend circle with connections or a high enough SMV to survive dating apps there are none

You're 15

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

You're 15

No I swear I am not

 

[CopingForBrutality]

Most normies meet their partners via existing social circles through mutual friends, if you are friendless it's hard to get started, unless you're a minimum Chadlite of course

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Go to university where you can socialize. This is the only time of your life when it will be relatively simple to socialize.

 

[Kekenut]

I will advise you to go to join hobby classes or book clubs. Not just for meeting women, but anyone - to become more social and becoming friends with others. One thing I noticed is that, most of us in this community have really abysmal communication skills IRL, breaking the initial ice and doing so in a smooth manner always helps.

I have started going to my local library and got to know about a book club inclined towards everything sci-fi and joined the same. They have helped me a lot in opening up though most of the times, I feel like fish out of water. I couldn't fully become anyone's friend still but in this particular week I have more social interaction than the last 4 years - so that's something.

I wish you all the best.

 

[Hapalattocel]

A lot of open world games. Take your pick

 

[Hapalattocel]

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I will advise you to go to join hobby classes or book clubs. Not just for meeting women, but anyone - to become more social and becoming friends with others. One thing I noticed is that, most of us in this community have really abysmal communication skills IRL, breaking the initial ice and doing so in a smooth manner always helps.

I have started going to my local library and got to know about a book club inclined towards everything sci-fi and joined the same. They have helped me a lot in opening up though most of the times, I feel like fish out of water. I couldn't fully become anyone's friend still but in this particular week I have more social interaction than the last 4 years - so that's something.

I wish you all the best.

I agree

 

[InternalJizzz]

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I agree

The problem is those hobby groups like book clubs or DnD whatever are usually filled with people who have the same issue as us

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

The problem is that average women don't want average or below average guys. It won't make a difference.

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

The problem is that average women don't want average or below average guys. It won't make a difference.

This is the brutal truth.

The average man is attracted to the average woman.

The average woman is not attracted to the average man.

In order to be attractive just to the average woman, a man needs to have above average everything: height, face, body, money, dick size.

 

[HeroinNihilism]

parking lots

 

[InternalJizzz]

parking lots

Just rapistmaxx huh

 

[greggymex7]

chad only

 

[Incel TV]

Nowhere accept it’s over and move on.

 

[incel god]

you can't. men are so turned on by women the thing is, only giga chad can have sex with her.

 

[InternalJizzz]

A lot of open world games. Take your pick

Most open world games are single player iirc, I've been grinding TOTK every single night for the past 2 months and it's become my main cope

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

In order to be attractive just to the average woman, a man needs to have above average everything: height, face, body, money, dick size.

 

[EngelCallDell19]

Just rapistmaxx huh

Just Be Rapist theory

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Just Be Rapist theory

 

[Kekenut]

The problem is those hobby groups like book clubs or DnD whatever are usually filled with people who have the same issue a

I will highly encourage to socialise and go out just for the sake of it - as I mentioned, people like us are not particularly stellar when it comes to communications. Just meet people and make friends now - if one forces a sexual or romantic connection, it tends to creep others out.

The objective should be to make friends and if things progress naturally it happens.

And most book clubs have a healthy amount of women as well, at least in my city. Everyone has been really nice to me in a long-time, while I am not friends with anyone yet because I am so new - I am friendly with everyone.

It's a small group of 11 people with 6 women and 5 men including me, we interact and discuss about books we like and dislike for 4 hours every Sunday. The group is even planning to go for a Christmas picnic to the nearby lake - it will be something I have never done before outside mandatory school outings - and never before with such a group of almost strangers. But it has been nice and gave me confidence that things might just look up and I will get friends.

For me at this juncture, is all about building confidence and making friends.

 

[InternalJizzz]

I will highly encourage to socialise and go out just for the sake of it - as I mentioned, people like us are not particularly stellar when it comes to communications. Just meet people and make friends now - if one forces a sexual or romantic connection, it tends to creep others out.

The objective should be to make friends and if things progress naturally it happens.

And most book clubs have a healthy amount of women as well, at least in my city. Everyone has been really nice to me in a long-time, while I am not friends with anyone yet because I am so new - I am friendly with everyone.

It's a small group of 11 people with 6 women and 5 men including me, we interact and discuss about books we like and dislike for 4 hours every Sunday. The group is even planning to go for a Christmas picnic to the nearby lake - it will be something I have never done before outside mandatory school outings - and never before with such a group of almost strangers. But it has been nice and gave me confidence that things might just look up and I will get friends.

For me at this juncture, is all about building confidence and making friends.

You're relatively socially intelligent to be honest, breath of fresh air from all the constant negative stuff and shit posting I see here

 

[Uninvited]

In Tyrone's bed

 

[Kekenut]

You're relatively socially intelligent to be honest, breath of fresh air from all the constant negative stuff and shit posting I see here

Thanks, man. Appreciate it.

But I understand the constant bitterness I observed the last three days, I have been here - it's a vicious cycle of constant self-hatred and honestly 8 months ago I was the same but now I am trying to let it go. Trying not to hate myself or anyone else.

Trying to live a better existence for a change.

 

[yung loner]

There is no public place anymore just private cliques already pre established, unless you have a friend circle with connections or a high enough SMV to survive dating apps there are none

 

[InternalJizzz]

Thanks, man. Appreciate it.

But I understand the constant bitterness I observed the last three days, I have been here - it's a vicious cycle of constant self-hatred and honestly 8 months ago I was the same but now I am trying to let it go. Trying not to hate myself or anyone else.

Trying to live a better existence for a change.

I'm currently there, I have been there, my mom actually just passed away on the 10th of this month, I'm struggling in some areas of life but succeeding in others, it's a never ending battle sometimes but I don't see how screaming the N word or celebrating random foids dying somewhere in the world will better my situation, its honestly a matter of self fullfillment

I'm angry at society and some aspect of my upbringing and as much as I want to blame someone a good majority of inceldom that I can see is self inflicted, there's nothing stopping me from finishing college, working out for aesthetic or just simply being healthy

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

If you didn't have matches on tinder it might be over. Bitches preselect online.

 

[Kekenut]

I'm currently there, I have been there, my mom actually just passed away on the 10th of this month, I'm struggling in some areas of life but succeeding in others, it's a never ending battle sometimes but I don't see how screaming the N word or celebrating random foids dying somewhere in the world will better my situation, its honestly a matter of self fullfillment

I'm angry at society and some aspect of my upbringing and as much as I want to blame someone a good majority of inceldom that I can see is self inflicted, there's nothing stopping me from finishing college, working out for aesthetic or just simply being healthy

I am really sorry to hear that. I really am. Hope you have someone you share the grief with.

I lost my parents during the pandemic, had a terrible relationship with them but their passing away evoked such conflicting emotions. Thankfully, I always had my older brother who is there to guide me.

He was the one who pushed me towards therapy and now is holding my hands when I need to heal. It's a long, long way to achieving that but I am trying not to spiral again. I know there will be ups and downs, and it all will be unprecedented too - but I think human beings are more resilient than many of us think.

Trying to take care of myself - by not hating myself anymore or anyone else. I can't demand others to love me if I continue on thinking and behaving my entire existence to that of a so-called 'subhuman'.

Because that's one thing I am not. I am trying to better.

Hope, you find the light at the end of the tunnel too. Asking for help even though it is incredibly difficult always help - I thought there will no one for me but my older brother and a few aunts have been there and decided to be my lifeline.

 

[InternalJizzz]

I am really sorry to hear that. I really am. Hope you have someone you share the grief with.

I lost my parents during the pandemic, had a terrible relationship with them but their passing away evoked such conflicting emotions. Thankfully, I always had my older brother who is there to guide me.

He was the one who pushed me towards therapy and now is holding my hands when I need to heal. It's a long, long way to achieving that but I am trying not to spiral again. I know there will be ups and downs, and it all will be unprecedented too - but I think human beings are more resilient than many of us think.

Trying to take care of myself - by not hating myself anymore or anyone else. I can demand others to love me if I continue on thinking and behaving my existence to that of a so-called 'subhuman'.

Because that's one thing I am not. I am trying to better.

Hope, you find the light at the end of the tunnel too. Asking for help even though it is incredibly difficult always help - I thought there will no one for me but my older brother and a few aunts have been there and decided to be my lifelinline

Do you have discord?

 

[Kekenut]

Do you have discord?

No, man. I am trying to reduce my digital footprint on most of the sites because it is taking a heavy toll on my mental health.

We can talk here, if you like.

 

[PersonaPimp]

If you didn't have matches on tinder it might be over. Bitches preselect online.

Using online dating apps make me want to kms. I never get any matches at all as a subhuman. If you're getting matches on tinder then you're a fakecel.

 

[PersonaPimp]

I will highly encourage to socialise and go out just for the sake of it - as I mentioned, people like us are not particularly stellar when it comes to communications. Just meet people and make friends now - if one forces a sexual or romantic connection, it tends to creep others out.

The objective should be to make friends and if things progress naturally it happens.

And most book clubs have a healthy amount of women as well, at least in my city. Everyone has been really nice to me in a long-time, while I am not friends with anyone yet because I am so new - I am friendly with everyone.

It's a small group of 11 people with 6 women and 5 men including me, we interact and discuss about books we like and dislike for 4 hours every Sunday. The group is even planning to go for a Christmas picnic to the nearby lake - it will be something I have never done before outside mandatory school outings - and never before with such a group of almost strangers. But it has been nice and gave me confidence that things might just look up and I will get friends.

For me at this juncture, is all about building confidence and making friends.

You sound like a normie/fakecel.

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

Serious question, aside from all the advice to normiemaxx ya ya, i dont work a very social job, my university is primarily online, and I rarely go out, only time I do is to exercise or get food, I wouldn't say I'm necessarily hideous or ugly in general nor am I longer a fatcel, I've improved my looks and life tenfold this year but I still see a ton of people my age with gfs that I have no clue how it happened.

1. Speed dating (beware the fact that most toilets there are superficial, go after career toilets that simply don't have much time or got pressured into doing this by their girlfriends).

2. Hobby places, make sure that it's a hobby enjoyed by many toilets.

3. Volunteering, especially at the animal shelter. When I volunteered at an animal shelter the population was easily 95% female.

4. Support groups for anything, especially loneliness (though I'm too ugly to be seen as human by them).

5. The Philippines (tutorial islands).

6. Dating sites where you can immediately message without swiping like Fdating.

7. Facebook groups, unironically, I saw tonnes of love stories from these groups online. Don't try it on Instagram, Instagram is just OnlyCucks with extra steps.

8. College campuses, student events, Etc. (overwhelmingly female).

Bonus tip, avoid clubs and bars all the toilets there are sluts or money vampires.

Blackpill, none of this works if you're Black African and/or fat.

I'm planning on going to the Philippines next year myself and hope to finally leave this forum if I'm successful. Though not much hope as Asian toilets HATE Black men.

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

Using online dating apps make me want to kms. I never get any matches at all as a subhuman. If you're getting matches on tinder then you're a fakecel.

Stop using the swiping based one, type in "100% free dating site" and directly message toilets. You actually get to talk before they reject you...

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

In Tyrone's bed

Blacks are all incels, I refuse to believe that Tyrone has ever touched a toilet outside of his fantasies. I refuse to believe that any Black man has ever been desired by ANY toilet in all of human history. Even those in deep Africa had a born in instinct to lust of White and Chinese men.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Using online dating apps make me want to kms. I never get any matches at all as a subhuman. If you're getting matches on tinder then you're a fakecel.

You might get a fake match when your subscription is expiring. They shouldn't do that but it's in their financial interests.

 

[PersonaPimp]

"100% free dating site"

No thank you. That sounds like an easy way to enter a scam site that tries to steal your information or money.