The only people who genuinely believe a femcel isn't an oxymoron are those who have never interacted with one in their life.
"Why don't incels just date femcels?"
Because they unironically have worse standards than normies, saying this as someone who have had online "close" friends that had identified as such (looking back pains me to think about), as well as witnessing such things in major servers in the past.
Let's break down this certain pattern I've witnessed over long exposure with these supposed counterparts of ours.
Femcels, on a regular basis over the TikTokified lens of the term, are typically women that grew up in some shape or form 'ugly' and ostracised for it, leading to a deep-rooted sense of inferiority with little-to-no self confidence in their looks.
And so, they would overcompensate through obsessing over aesthetics, and in particular, 'pretty' aesthetics as a coping mechanism; without realising consciously, they hold tight onto circling around prettiness in hopes that they themselves could be seen as such.
And so, they are drawn to anime, Pinterest, very 'pretty' aestheticism on profiles etc as an outlet of that desire of seeming pretty.
When a normie sees this, they might think that this should allow an incel to save these poor, lonely, 'inkwell' woman right?
Because clearly they are compensating to be loved?
Completely wrong, as this completely ignores what I originally mentioned, let me repeat: they are obsessed with lookism and in particular, 'prettiness'.
These women are constantly exposed fictional men of impossible beauty standards that consistently hold 'pretty'/feminine features to the point where vast majority of these women are drawn to the phenomenon known as a 'prettyboy'.
A lot would even call the biggest masc-coded players ugly as long as he has no 'pretty' charm, unlike a normie girl, because they don't see it as aesthetically pleasing to the eye in the sense that they are used to jfl.
It's not hard to understand when you realise the connection, it's similar to how someone insecure of their drawing skills would heavily admire art pieces that makes them feel completely inferior on a personal level. It's a mix of self-loathing, jealousy and admiration when they see a prettyboy; wishing they had that sort of naturally pretty look on top of wanting him.
The issue is that, the male gender is far less inclined towards looking 'pretty' or feminine in in the way that is aesthetically pleasing to a femcel, as we are naturally more androgenic due to higher testosterone exposure.
The worst thing is that they don't even realise their standards have reached a point where it's outright higher than the 'normies' they despise so much; they would try to water it down to just wanting a 'cute' guy, and that they don't have high standards as they don't CARE about a good jaw or a huge muscular dude!!!
Jfl, they don't actually seem to realise that you are far more likely to find men who'd fit the standards of a 'good jaw' or muscular and big over a 'cute' guy in a pretty sense (good averageness, good harmony, just low bones and smoother bone transitions leading them give a false sense of them being 'average').
Because they are good looking, but 'average-looking' enough to seem reachable without the crazy huge bone mass, they believe that it's a fair option to expect. Think about this: in comparison to men with high bone mass, how often do you see the type of men that would fit within this category? Maybe once? Twice?
Moreso amongst young teens that are underdeveloped, not fully grown men; even then hardly any fit.
Meanwhile you see high bone mass all the time, disregarding how smoothly those bones transition. Or jacked dudes, taller dudes?
Its fucking far easier to work out over just being born 'pretty'.
The biggest issue is that this is what they consider a 'settle', a 'cute' guy in that sense of the term instead of what it typically means when referring to a man.
An average woman would still consider the average man or above average man a 'settle' even if they aren't particularly attracted to him, but these women specifically want one that is practically against what men are naturally more inclined to look like.
They downright refuse for anything less, that's their bare minimum for a betabuxx. Maybe a 'cutecel' (jfl) might be able to fit in like Knajjd, but again how many people look like Knajjd?
They genuinely see the prettyboys they look at on social media as on their level, and even if they don't, they just refer to any guy below that as just "ugly moids who would stick their dick in anything" no matter how nice of a person they truly are; not just incels or below average men but literally any men that has 0 feminine/youthful features deemed aesthetic.
Whoever thinks a femcel is a real option for an incel should genuinely fucking kys.
"Why don't incels just date femcels?"
Because they unironically have worse standards than normies, saying this as someone who have had online "close" friends that had identified as such (looking back pains me to think about), as well as witnessing such things in major servers in the past.
Let's break down this certain pattern I've witnessed over long exposure with these supposed counterparts of ours.
Femcels, on a regular basis over the TikTokified lens of the term, are typically women that grew up in some shape or form 'ugly' and ostracised for it, leading to a deep-rooted sense of inferiority with little-to-no self confidence in their looks.
And so, they would overcompensate through obsessing over aesthetics, and in particular, 'pretty' aesthetics as a coping mechanism; without realising consciously, they hold tight onto circling around prettiness in hopes that they themselves could be seen as such.
And so, they are drawn to anime, Pinterest, very 'pretty' aestheticism on profiles etc as an outlet of that desire of seeming pretty.
When a normie sees this, they might think that this should allow an incel to save these poor, lonely, 'inkwell' woman right?
Because clearly they are compensating to be loved?
Completely wrong, as this completely ignores what I originally mentioned, let me repeat: they are obsessed with lookism and in particular, 'prettiness'.
These women are constantly exposed fictional men of impossible beauty standards that consistently hold 'pretty'/feminine features to the point where vast majority of these women are drawn to the phenomenon known as a 'prettyboy'.
A lot would even call the biggest masc-coded players ugly as long as he has no 'pretty' charm, unlike a normie girl, because they don't see it as aesthetically pleasing to the eye in the sense that they are used to jfl.
It's not hard to understand when you realise the connection, it's similar to how someone insecure of their drawing skills would heavily admire art pieces that makes them feel completely inferior on a personal level. It's a mix of self-loathing, jealousy and admiration when they see a prettyboy; wishing they had that sort of naturally pretty look on top of wanting him.
The issue is that, the male gender is far less inclined towards looking 'pretty' or feminine in in the way that is aesthetically pleasing to a femcel, as we are naturally more androgenic due to higher testosterone exposure.
The worst thing is that they don't even realise their standards have reached a point where it's outright higher than the 'normies' they despise so much; they would try to water it down to just wanting a 'cute' guy, and that they don't have high standards as they don't CARE about a good jaw or a huge muscular dude!!!
Jfl, they don't actually seem to realise that you are far more likely to find men who'd fit the standards of a 'good jaw' or muscular and big over a 'cute' guy in a pretty sense (good averageness, good harmony, just low bones and smoother bone transitions leading them give a false sense of them being 'average').
Because they are good looking, but 'average-looking' enough to seem reachable without the crazy huge bone mass, they believe that it's a fair option to expect. Think about this: in comparison to men with high bone mass, how often do you see the type of men that would fit within this category? Maybe once? Twice?
Moreso amongst young teens that are underdeveloped, not fully grown men; even then hardly any fit.
Meanwhile you see high bone mass all the time, disregarding how smoothly those bones transition. Or jacked dudes, taller dudes?
Its fucking far easier to work out over just being born 'pretty'.
The biggest issue is that this is what they consider a 'settle', a 'cute' guy in that sense of the term instead of what it typically means when referring to a man.
An average woman would still consider the average man or above average man a 'settle' even if they aren't particularly attracted to him, but these women specifically want one that is practically against what men are naturally more inclined to look like.
They downright refuse for anything less, that's their bare minimum for a betabuxx. Maybe a 'cutecel' (jfl) might be able to fit in like Knajjd, but again how many people look like Knajjd?
They genuinely see the prettyboys they look at on social media as on their level, and even if they don't, they just refer to any guy below that as just "ugly moids who would stick their dick in anything" no matter how nice of a person they truly are; not just incels or below average men but literally any men that has 0 feminine/youthful features deemed aesthetic.
Whoever thinks a femcel is a real option for an incel should genuinely fucking kys.
