LDAR When you haven't talked to & seen someone that you grew up with in years, and one of the first things they ask you is "Do you have a job"?

[Oneitiscel]

I hate it when this shit happens!

 

[psyop]

I tell them I do crypto

 

[GeckoBus]

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I hate it when this shit happens!

normies alway gotta establish hierachy with shit like this, fucking animals
another thing is also that if you dont talk for a while, you get mentally deleted by them until ur basically a stranger
they erase all common history and just forget you, no longterm comittemnt
ive had normies surprised that i just picked up where we left, after they didnt talk to me for a whole year
yeah nigga because im not a borderline psychopath like the rest of you faggots

also notice that women have even more license when it comes to obnoxious intrusive quetions like this
women ask questions like
where do you work
how much do you earn
do you know xyz person
bla bla
super intrusive questions a guy could never ask a foid

they are information addicts, its like crack to them, and the crack is smoked by telling the shit to other cunts. This is why you never talk to foids or only give them information you want everyone to know (just lie honestly)

 

[GeckoBus]

I tell them I do crypto

 

[Roastie Crusher]

another thing is also that if you dont talk for a while, you get mentally deleted by them until ur basically a stranger
they erase all common history and just forget you, no longterm comittemnt

the most brutal pill

 

[Oneitiscel]

another thing is also that if you dont talk for a while, you get mentally deleted by them until ur basically a stranger
they erase all common history and just forget you, no longterm comittemnt
ive had normies surprised that i just picked up where we left, after they didnt talk to me for a whole year
yeah nigga because im not a borderline psychopath like the rest of you faggots

I'd say this part is a lot more circumstantial, because it really depends, imo.

People that knew me very well wouldn't be surprised at all if I started a conversation from a past meet-up like that. Because they know I'm weird like that.

But everyone else seems to do that with me on a quite consistent basis.

You know I have shortcomings. Don't ask me personal questions, please. Just say hi, and move on.

Practically everyone I talked to from my high school cut me off after the first year beyond graduation. The ones that still maintained a connection ended up inviting other people besides me during every chance they had to hang out.

 

[ethniccel2025]

normies alway gotta establish hierachy with shit like this, fucking animals

I hate when normies do this

Even on this forum it happens

“Muh greycel”


another thing is also that if you dont talk for a while, you get mentally deleted by them until ur basically a stranger

they erase all common history and just forget you, no longterm comittemnt
ive had normies surprised that i just picked up where we left, after they didnt talk to me for a whole year
yeah nigga because im not a borderline psychopath like the rest of you faggots

also notice that women have even more license when it comes to obnoxious intrusive quetions like this
women ask questions like
where do you work
how much do you earn
do you know xyz person
bla bla
super intrusive questions a guy could never ask a foid

they are information addicts, its like crack to them, and the crack is smoked by telling the shit to other cunts. This is why you never talk to foids or only give them information you want everyone to know (just lie honestly)

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

another thing is also that if you dont talk for a while, you get mentally deleted by them until ur basically a stranger
they erase all common history and just forget you, no longterm comittemnt
ive had normies surprised that i just picked up where we left, after they didnt talk to me for a whole year

unless the relationship was DEEP this is human nature. human beings are normally very self-orientated and naturally lose interest in ppl they no longer benefit from (common interests, buisness, etc) or who are no longer convienent to talk to (long-distance, changed jobs, switched schools, etc).

 

[GeckoBus]

unless the relationship was DEEP this is human nature. human beings are normally very self-orientated and naturally lose interest in ppl they no longer benefit from (common interests, buisness, etc) or who are no longer convienent to talk to (long-distance, changed jobs, switched schools, etc).

autistic people dont do this, this has been observed. Essentially, beliefs and relationships do not "decay" over time.
One analogy sometimes given is that for non-autistic people, beliefs and relationship are like a leaky cup with a dribble hole at bottom. Beliefs leak out drop by drop, and new stuff is added on top. If beliefs are not constantly refreshed, i.e. "catching up" etc then they will eventually disappear altogether.

Autistic people are more rigid and will adhere to beliefs super strongly, unless convinced on rational basis somehow. This also applies to relationships. There is no logical reason to not view a person as a friend anymore because you didnt see them for six months, so the autist will never stop seeing that person as their friend.

Just some reddit threads that kinda showcase this. As you can see, for the autist its not a problem to disappear for months on end and then just show up again. Its like closing a book and when you come back, you open it an continue reading exactly where you left off. This may also be because autistic people do not mentally include other people into their experience, meaning, they dont conceptualize that time went on for th the other person while they were gone (theory of mind issue, problems with mentally imagining other people having minds independent of your own).


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/aspergers/comments/11gc1fi/why_do_aspie_friends_disappear_then_return/

https://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=340419

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/AutisticAdults/comments/1d2yznu/i_dont_experience_friendship_decay_what_about_yall/


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/AutisticWithADHD/comments/1by9ta8/friendship_degradation_mechanics_and_autism_adhd/

When a Cactus Meets a Rose - Why Autistic/Neurotypical Friendships Often Fail (And How to Prevent It) - Jaime A. Heidel - The Articulate Autistic

Inter-neurotype friendships between autistic and neurotypical people can be a challenge, especially if you're a rose and they're a cactus.

www.thearticulateautistic.com

 

[psyop]

And sports betting

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

autistic people dont do this

condolences. human beings are not worth being attached to at that extent at all.

 

[Oneitiscel]

I tell them I do crypto

I just tell them the truth. I am unemployed, because working a 9-5 for the rest of my life is too mundane and pointless. My brother is working on an apprenticeship for plumbing, and the job has completely changed his personality for the worse. Always in a bad mood, and thinks the "boomers" owe him something, despite making bank. I see this every day, and I do not want to become like him. If they don't like it, and ask the question in a manner that could easily be construed as "passive-aggressive", I cut them off and forget they exist. To hell with them.

 

[Oneitiscel]

condolences. human beings are not worth being attached to at that extent at all.

What Geckobus described is 100% legitimate. Speaking as someone with too much experience.

Never was diagnosed with aspergers, but I do exhibit some traits.