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BlackPilledNormi

BlackPilledNormi

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Do you have a point in life from where it would be pointless for you to get a girlfriend, a time where you wouldnt get girlfriend because you wouldnt get anything out of the relationship, or where the afford to sustain the relationship would be to heavy to make it worth it?
 
It’s still gonna be better than nothing at almost any time in life but after 18 the damage from not having one is already done and only gets worse
 
After 21/22, it’s pretty much over imo
 
At 41, I think it is a bit too late to "learn the ropes", and there are not many people left other than single mothers with kids and used-up skanks.
 
already too late
 
At 41, I think it is a bit too late to "learn the ropes", and there are not many people left other than single mothers with kids and used-up skanks.
I thaught something like this too. At the least from the point where you could barely get an erection it would be pointless
 
imo its never too late, its always nice to have someone. its just a matter of if it will ever happen, which is dependent on how much -maxxing options you have left
 
its always nice to have someone
And thats the part where Im not so sure about, maybe Im just copin idk, but I think, but what I can see around in my circle of friends/ family/ work, that relationships are mostly tonnes of work to keep them "alive", a lot of relationships normies consist are heavily on lies and copin that everything is alright and every problem is just temporary and all thid just to not be single.
I just think that there is a point where all of these coasts dont be worth the value you get out of having a girlfriend.

Besides this, there could be problems if your single and alone for the first 30 years or so of you life, most people learn how to sustain a healthy relationship and how to even love someone when their teenagers or in their 20's. We've never learned

There are only a few people which dont get destroyed or atleast hard damaged by constant loneliness, do you think that you could forget about the blackpill and trust a partner?
 
Too late for me once I graduate jewniversity so at age 23

After that I can’t meet foids anyway and they will expect too much experiences and moneys

Not even worth this bullshit anyway. After teenage years it is pointless to play this game.
 
I don’t know

It might already be too late
 
Do you have a point in life from where it would be pointless for you to get a girlfriend, a time where you wouldnt get girlfriend because you wouldnt get anything out of the relationship, or where the afford to sustain the relationship would be to heavy to make it worth it?
I'm already there. And let me tell you this: Like Yoda said: "Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose" This is the only way to keep sanity. Get stronger because nothing is gonna get better. For me being alone is not a problem anymore.
 
After that I can’t meet foids anyway and they will expect too much experiences and moneys

Not even worth this bullshit anyway. After teenage years it is pointless to play this game.
Thats pretty much what I thaught the last time too, whats the point to even start now, you missed the start and the best parts are allready gone forever, now is only the mediocracy left, but without any good memorys of the past.

But I dont think that I reached the point where I can give up completly, somehow hope is still left, but thats not a good thing.
 
There are only a few people which dont get destroyed or atleast hard damaged by constant loneliness, do you think that you could forget about the blackpill and trust a partner?
Forget the blackpill? Never, but that isn't synonymous with healing. The damage I endured throughout my life could be washed away, and rather easily at that. My hate and the hole in my heart just disappear every time I get enough positive social interaction in a day, if that was a constant I wouldn't be on this site but since I'm subhuman I'm like an animal that only ever gets scraps of food hoping for a whole meal.


And thats the part where Im not so sure about, maybe Im just copin idk, but I think, but what I can see around in my circle of friends/ family/ work, that relationships are mostly tonnes of work to keep them "alive", a lot of relationships normies consist are heavily on lies and copin that everything is alright and every problem is just temporary and all thid just to not be single.
I just think that there is a point where all of these coasts dont be worth the value you get out of having a girlfriend.
Don't really look into other peoples relationships but from my friends theirs wasn't and isn't like this. But then again they nearly have Just Be First privileges which is something we will never get lol.
 
My hate and the hole in my heart just disappear every time I get enough positive social interaction in a day
If thats the case good for you, but I wouldnt be so sure that it will be like that.
And again you maybe get the postive dociaal interaction the first time, but when some time passed its probably going to be absolutley boring, she will be bored of you or vice versa

Don't really look into other peoples relationships but from my friends theirs wasn't and isn't like this
Its not only the people, its like most relationships are like that, good fullfilling relationships seem like the excaption.


But then again they nearly have Just Be First privileges which is something we will never get lol.
Thats trve
 
Im 24 and have never even held a girls hand. It feels like its too late for me already im so far behind, like 10+ years
 
When I lose enough of my hair and when I am physically unable to act normally.
 
And thats the part where Im not so sure about, maybe Im just copin idk, but I think, but what I can see around in my circle of friends/ family/ work, that relationships are mostly tonnes of work to keep them "alive", a lot of relationships normies consist are heavily on lies and copin that everything is alright and every problem is just temporary and all thid just to not be single.
Same. Modern relationships and marriages are nothing but a humiliation ritual for men.

Since at least the age of 30 getting into a relationship won't have much of an effect because by that time your psycho-social developement is finished
 
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After early 20s you have very low odds
 
Once you leave HS/Uni it's time to call it quits. School is the only place where you can reliably come into contact with women, and if you fail to get a gf in an environment where young foids are constantly within reach it's time accept that it never began.
 
Do you have a point in life from where it would be pointless for you to get a girlfriend, a time where you wouldnt get girlfriend because you wouldnt get anything out of the relationship, or where the afford to sustain the relationship would be to heavy to make it worth it?
After 30
 
One rather unfortunate thing for people like us, is the fact that lack of sexual experience might also be an issue even if you do "ascend". The first time most people have sex it is mostly a gropefest and they have no idea what to actually do. Now, this is usually no big deal for your average teenager because the expectation of both parties is rather low.

The problem for individuals like us is that even if you did find a partner, they would probably think you are horrible at sex and do not want to "hold the hand" of somebody who is 30+ who they probably think has no idea of what the fuck they are doing, and this would probably be an even larger obstacle for those of us who would want something long-term.

It would be like a potential employer coming across a candidate who is well into adulthood who has never had a job before and has a whole line of other candidates to choose from with years of experience.
 
It's probably already too late.
 
I already know it's over but I'll know for sure by age 35
 
Do you have a point in life from where it would be pointless for you to get a girlfriend, a time where you wouldnt get girlfriend because you wouldnt get anything out of the relationship, or where the afford to sustain the relationship would be to heavy to make it worth it?
ive already reached that point a while ago now. nothing can save me. and if there is something that can save me it's not a foid
 
One rather unfortunate thing for people like us, is the fact that lack of sexual experience might also be an issue even if you do "ascend". The first time most people have sex it is mostly a gropefest and they have no idea what to actually do. Now, this is usually no big deal for your average teenager because the expectation of both parties is rather low.

The problem for individuals like us is that even if you did find a partner, they would probably think you are horrible at sex and do not want to "hold the hand" of somebody who is 30+ who they probably think has no idea of what the fuck they are doing, and this would probably be an even larger obstacle for those of us who would want something long-term.

It would be like a potential employer coming across a candidate who is well into adulthood who has never had a job before and has a whole line of other candidates to choose from with years of experience.
Yeah I often thaught of the same, but then I calm myself down by thinkin that it probably wont happen anyway
 
its been over for me for many years as an oldcel i need divine intervention winning the lottery or some shit to have a slim chance to ascend
 
its been over for me for many years as an oldcel i need divine intervention winning the lottery or some shit to have a slim chance to ascend
As a an oldcel, the question even if you get all of these what will you have from it
 
if you had bad formative years it is pretty much already over
 
There needs to be made a distinction.
Sex never expires, not even for 60yo grandpas. In that sense, it's never too late. We crave sex until we die.
However that is just the pleasure part. It feels good, but that's not what this is about. You can be 35yo virgin and nut in a prostitute but everybody agrees that's worthless.

It's about the confidence and self-esteem that comes with it. Having sex in your teens will set you up for your later life because it's an amazing boost towards a positive feedback loop. Take two completely identical 16yo boys and have one experience a relationship and keep the other a virgin into his 20s and their entire lives will play out dramatically different.

So to rephrase your question: When is it too late for sex to give you that essential boost in confidence? I reckon at ~18yo when you graduate HS. If you're a virgin by then, that's the first massive dip in confidence, however you can still ascend in college and make up for it and become "normal". After college (~22yo) it's safe to say you missed out on this effect. Your youth is over, you are a fully grown man.

I am a believer in teen love. I know guys who have basically nothing going for them but they are still all-around happy people because they lucked out and had a GF either currently or some years ago. That shit makes an incredible difference.
 
There needs to be made a distinction.
Sex never expires, not even for 60yo grandpas. In that sense, it's never too late. We crave sex until we die.
However that is just the pleasure part. It feels good, but that's not what this is about. You can be 35yo virgin and nut in a prostitute but everybody agrees that's worthless.

It's about the confidence and self-esteem that comes with it. Having sex in your teens will set you up for your later life because it's an amazing boost towards a positive feedback loop. Take two completely identical 16yo boys and have one experience a relationship and keep the other a virgin into his 20s and their entire lives will play out dramatically different.

So to rephrase your question: When is it too late for sex to give you that essential boost in confidence? I reckon at ~18yo when you graduate HS. If you're a virgin by then, that's the first massive dip in confidence, however you can still ascend in college and make up for it and become "normal". After college (~22yo) it's safe to say you missed out on this effect. Your youth is over, you are a fully grown man.

I am a believer in teen love. I know guys who have basically nothing going for them but they are still all-around happy people because they lucked out and had a GF either currently or some years ago. That shit makes an incredible difference.
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