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Blackpill When did you realise you're an incel?

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Please do share experiences.
 
decades of zero pussy
 
Probably 15/16
 
21 years of no friends let alone pussy
 
Honestly I knew I was socially awkward pretty much since I have memory. I would get visibly red near strangers so it was really hard not to notice for me how hard it was to socialize (it got better as I grew up though). Realized Im an incel at around 16. I thought that the lack of romantic experience was just due to me "not trying" or something idk, but at 16 I realized that its actually because Im not desirable for women. I accepted Im an incel pretty recently though, at like 17-18 years old.
 
During covid lockdowns
 
At 13 or 14 when I began seeing kids my age getting growth spurts and girlfriends, friends, social skills and whatnot whilst I was still a manlet, anti-social, bullied and teased, and alone.
 
Probably 15 when I really went out my way to attract females to no success for the following years.
 
When I realized that people in my class were having parties and sex. Lots of it. And I wasn't included in it.
 
My first day in Uni
 
At the sweet age of 28 when I realized that I wasn't saving myself for a virgin foid to live happily ever after but that the foids were actively avoiding me and rejecting me left and right.

So eventually I decided to escortmaxx, which did not help much to cope.
 
When I realized that people in my class were having parties and sex. Lots of it. And I wasn't included in it.
This brings horrible memories for me
 
When I discovered the black pill (before that I thought that it would happen "naturally" :feelskek:)
 
When i was 17, i knew it was over for me
 
This brings horrible memories for me
We all went through this, hearing about crazy cool nice stuff that happened but without being ever invited to those.

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Please do share experiences.
I kinda knew smth was wrong when I was only in friend circled with other social outcasts but I actually realised I'm incel once I finally accepted that I'm not a MTN(the cope was very strong when I first discoveref the BP on org) , plus stopped adding 3 cm to my height and realised that the stats were fake and the avg man is taller than me by 6+ cm and also when I realised that I'm basically the archetypival incel nerd.
 
When I graduated high school a kissless virgin and most of my classmates weren’t.
 
When foids react negatively to me, just for existing
 
No girls, always pessimist, hate the social norms...
 
I looked in the mirror the other day and saw a few gray hairs, and a very tired look in my eyes. I realized I was getting old and I have nothing to show for it; no relationship, no achievements, no experience of genuine reciprocated love in any way shape or form. Only sweet vivid dreams reminding me of my own loneliness and isolation.
 
In all honesty somewhere in my early 20's after watching faceandLMS videos. The videos hit different.

It was wild to see how women actually treated good looking men, meanwhile women were calling me ugly. It is what it is.
 
When I tried chadfishing
 
Around 12 years old, new girl at the church I used to go to would avoid me like the plague. She would talk to all the other boys, but me she would keep conversation short and run away
 
earlier this year, didnt surprise me, always instinctively knew i was never getting any pussy
 
At the age of 16, when I started reading the Russian forum Dvach, I learned about blackpill and gradually began to understand how true it all was
 
15-16, you just notice you don’t fit in, don’t get invited to shit, get treated like shit (the latter did improve by losing 40 pounds).
 
15-16 I noticed I didn’t have many friends and no social life

18- everyone in my year at high school arranged to have a party as a leaving school party. Literally everyone was invited but me. I asked if I could go but was told it was a “small event”. They literally took a group picture with everyone in. Since then I have hated society
 
I was always sad for not having friends, but only at 21, thanks to the moggers and normies that I met in university, I realized how much of a loser I was. I had never kissed, never worked a job and earned money, never been a part of anything. Prior to that, somehow videogames and porn had been good enough copes to numb me and make me not care about it. Then, suddenly, I was an adult with nothing good going on, surrounded by people younger than me who had better lives under every aspect.
 

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