Serious When did you know you were an incel?

[bianacian]

At what point did you guys realize you were an incel? What was the moment that made you realize it?

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

When I was...much younger.

Re: how do i make this girl love me AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #151911223Thursday, December 18, 2014 12:53 AM CST Alright, you'll have to communicate with the individual directly about your opinion regarding the "Relationship" between the both of you. You cannot force someone to develop a genuine romantic attraction towards you, they have to analyze the various qualities of your personality and come to a conclusion themselves regarding how favorable they may perceive you to be. If the individual isn't willing to adapt their perception of the situation based on positive subjective qualities, It's simply time to cease your attempts at persuasion.

Re: [ Content Deleted ] AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #151955167Thursday, December 18, 2014 9:01 PM CST There's much more important aspects of your "Academic-Lifestyle" than simply trying to receive utterly worthless Social-Status to boast about in your later years. You'll benefit from respecting this person's decision and understanding that an actual "Romantic-Relationship" is much more than simply based on desire and a good image. I'm going to suggest focusing on "Academic" lessons.

Re: Girls these days... AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #151998004Friday, December 19, 2014 5:08 PM CST "It IS okay to like people and to get into relationships and all that, but hope for the best and expect the worst" I never once stated in my previous response that there was anything wrong with attempting to maintain a "Romantic" relationship during your teenage years. "Puberty" itself is a developmental process characterized by extensive chemical and psychological instability persisting for a varying duration of years. Any individual seeking to form any 'meaningful' relationships during these years of "Puberty" should recognize that both their perception, and the perception and interest of the significant other will likely shift at a consistent rate due to the changes. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't try to form a relationship if you desire to do so, I'm merely suggesting that the topic creator weigh the advantages/disadvantages of the practice in itself and his current circumstances before attempting to enter a romantic relationship as the teenage duration of time provides plenty of opportunities to develop crucial career skills other than simply just Social-Status capabilities.

Re: is it possible to love someone you barely know

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#152414850Thursday, December 25, 2014 12:24 PM CST "no its more then infatuation" An individual can develop an acute form of romantic attraction to another human, yet this doesn't necessarily indicate that they actually have genuine "Love" for the person to the degree or intensity that they perceive it to be. As you acquire more information about an individual, you become much more acquainted with their overall characteristics on a more psychologically durable level.

Re: Is it normal to not have a GF at 13

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#158387704Saturday, March 21, 2015 10:47 PM CDT Alright, It's unnecessary to argue consistently over something as simplistic and inessential as courting an individual during adolescence. Revising your employment capabilities is often much more beneficial than relying on "Romantic" relationships between psychologically underdeveloped children for "experience". more_horiz

Re: I keep falling in love with aromantic girls

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#181988304Tuesday, January 19, 2016 3:41 AM CST The problem may not necessarily be that they are "aromantic", it may simply be that they lack romantic interest involving you specifically. This is not your fault. Only mathematics is valuable.

 

[Incelius Savage]

Since i was a small kid

 

[Broly]

When girls didn’t like me

 

[hondas2000cel]

I held onto hope all the way up until late 2018, I’ve made peace with it for the most part now

 

[hondas2000cel]

When girls didn’t like me

 

[curryboy420]

After I didn't get any good apprenticeships and in my last chance uni when I realised I cant even socialise.

 

[war_with_myself]

when i read how noodles rejected rice men because of their race. felt completely subhuman

 

[subhuman]

when i first became conscious

 

[Luzifer]

When they start bullied me when i was 8 yo, for my looks

 

[StayFrosty]

11yo
felt like I didn't fit in, girls never initiated convos with me, I would actually cringe whenever I looked in the mirror. you become subconsciously blackpilled early on without even knowing it (but you feel it in your gut) based on how other people perceive you and treat you

 

[Misogynist Curry 卐]

At 18

 

[Incline]

At what point did you guys realize you were an incel? What was the moment that made you realize it?

When I was 13

But back then I didn't know about blackpill so really more like 21

 

[Hope and Change]

when my oneitis started making fun of me at age 18

 

[Hope and Change]

How about you op? @bianacian

 

[BadStartingStats]

Had a feeling in middle school. Confirmed freshman year when I couldn’t get a date to homecoming.

 

[Sexless incel]

I always knew that i am not really desirable, but it didn’t bother me that much, so i never really thought about my sexual market value, until i wanted to try my luck in the dating game at 20 and i fully realized how much of an incel i am and how delusional i was about myself.