Napoleon de Geso
mentally crippled by lonely teen years
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Insomniac said:I act autistic when I’m around anyone tbh
How many failed approaches did it take until you became completely desensitized to rejection?Valiant Virgin said:My behaviour is pretty normal. I have very low inhibition as a result of approaching a lot of girls, so I'm not undermined by nerves or anything.
Insomniac said:I act autistic when I’m around anyone tbh
acnescarcel said:i say as little as possible and try to end the conversation as quickly as possible
PowerLevelCel said:I never approach, because I can't act normal.
Insomniac said:I act autistic when I’m around anyone tbh
PowerLevelCel said:I never approach, because I can't act normal.
It didn't really work that way for me. Rejection was never a major concern for me in the first place because I accepted it as inevitable from the outset. When I started approaching, I enjoyed it despite the rejections because it felt good pushing myself so far out of my comfort zone. Now, however, I don't enjoy it as much because I've been rejected so many times and it feels like I'm getting absolutely nowhere no matter how hard I try. If anything, therefore, rejection has had a worse impact as time has progressed.Azaylias said:How many failed approaches did it take until you became completely desensitized to rejection?
I made a deal with myself to continue approaching until I turn 21, if I have no success by then I'll just accept defeat and LDAR. For me, after my 10th approach or so I just stopped caring about getting rejected as it became so routine to approach a foid, try to start a convo, then give up when she either tells me to go away or she gives me one way responses that I can't work with (Obviously a sign she isn't interested)Valiant Virgin said:It didn't really work that way for me. Rejection was never a major concern for me in the first place because I accepted it as inevitable from the outset. When I started approaching, I enjoyed it despite the rejections because it felt good pushing myself so far out of my comfort zone. Now, however, I don't enjoy it as much because I've been rejected so many times and it feels like I'm getting absolutely nowhere no matter how hard I try. If anything, therefore, rejection has had a worse impact as time has progressed.
Error 404.Amerimutt said:I get lightheaded from eye contact. Enough to pass out. Anxiety spells. During my interview for my job the blond cougar, and I made eye contact long enough for me to almost lose consciousness. It felt like my brain went into sleep mode like a PC.
I'm autistic. Saw a foid from highschool at the sports store yesterday. I was buying a gun. I wanted to build up the courage to say.. "I remember you from school.. You look good.." but I froze up. My brain has no processing power in talking to women at all.
Yeah, I'm approaching it a similar way. I turn 30 next year, and I feel I need to approachmaxx before then, although it's hard to find the motivation to do so. I've already approached almost 200 girls with no tangible success. If I put my mind to it, I could get to 300 before I turn 30, but at this point motivating myself to go out and do it - knowing how futile it is - is a lot easier said than done.Azaylias said:I made a deal with myself to continue approaching until I turn 21, if I have no success by then I'll just accept defeat and LDAR. For me, after my 10th approach or so I just stopped caring about getting rejected as it became so routine to approach a foid, try to start a convo, then give up when she either tells me to go away or she gives me one way responses that I can't work with (Obviously a sign she isn't interested)
Total outcast.Napoleon de Geso said:
Insomniac said:I act autistic when I’m around anyone tbh