Napoleon de Jizzbal
mentally crippled by lonely teen years
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I act autistic when I’m around anyone tbh
I act autistic when I’m around anyone tbh
i say as little as possible and try to end the conversation as quickly as possible
I never approach, because I can't act normal.
I never approach, because I can't act normal.
It didn't really work that way for me. Rejection was never a major concern for me in the first place because I accepted it as inevitable from the outset. When I started approaching, I enjoyed it despite the rejections because it felt good pushing myself so far out of my comfort zone. Now, however, I don't enjoy it as much because I've been rejected so many times and it feels like I'm getting absolutely nowhere no matter how hard I try. If anything, therefore, rejection has had a worse impact as time has progressed.How many failed approaches did it take until you became completely desensitized to rejection?
Error 404.I get lightheaded from eye contact. Enough to pass out. Anxiety spells. During my interview for my job the blond cougar, and I made eye contact long enough for me to almost lose consciousness. It felt like my brain went into sleep mode like a PC.
I'm autistic. Saw a foid from highschool at the sports store yesterday. I was buying a gun. I wanted to build up the courage to say.. "I remember you from school.. You look good.." but I froze up. My brain has no processing power in talking to women at all.
Yeah, I'm approaching it a similar way. I turn 30 next year, and I feel I need to approachmaxx before then, although it's hard to find the motivation to do so. I've already approached almost 200 girls with no tangible success. If I put my mind to it, I could get to 300 before I turn 30, but at this point motivating myself to go out and do it - knowing how futile it is - is a lot easier said than done.I made a deal with myself to continue approaching until I turn 21, if I have no success by then I'll just accept defeat and LDAR. For me, after my 10th approach or so I just stopped caring about getting rejected as it became so routine to approach a foid, try to start a convo, then give up when she either tells me to go away or she gives me one way responses that I can't work with (Obviously a sign she isn't interested)
Total outcast.
I act autistic when I’m around anyone tbh