What’s your worst rejection that you still kinda haven’t gotten over?

[Clavicus Vile]

I’m still bothered by being ghosted by that suicidal female neet a bunch of months back. She barely showered or washed her hair, ate takeout all the time, and didn’t leave her room much. She apparently also had autism and two other disorders if I’m not mistaken.

But she was cute, white, and thin, had this long black messy unwashed hair. I wanted to sniff her stinky messy hair and bury my face in it

Even though I didn’t ever reveal my face to her, we talked for 2 weeks and seemed to have a lot in common. But she one day just randomly ghosted me. It was so brutal.

 

[nice_try]

The girl started crying (literally) and ran away after I told her that I had a crush on her.
Other people at the party thought I did something to her.
I'm over it, tho.

 

[Sir Waco]

me growing out of babyhood and being rejected by society

 

[ViciousKanga]

i never talked to a women romantically

 

[cripplecel]

I don’t know

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

I've never been rejected. I'm a Chad.

EDIT: there was this one time I told a girl I loved her in 6th grade. I think she was flattered and we were somewhat nice to each other after the fact but nothing ever came of it. We were only children after all.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

"no one likes you" - some asian girl I cold approached like 19 years ago. She said it so matter-of-factly it was unsettling.

I've been rejected by A LOT of women some have said much harsher things to me but for some reason one bothered me the most. Probably a combo of how coldly and emotionlessly she said it and how it was accurate.

 

[universallyabhorres]

"no one likes you" - some asian girl I cold approached like 19 years ago. She said it so matter-of-factly it was unsettling.

I've been rejected by A LOT of women some have said much harsher things to me but for some reason one bothered me the most. Probably a combo of how coldly and emotionlessly she said it and how it was accurate.

I am curious you say you are ugly but other guys seem to want to be your friend while only women reject or avoid you. I just don't understand why.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

I am curious you say you are ugly but other guys seem to want to be your friend while only women reject or avoid you. I just don't understand why.

I'm NT (or at least I appear NT to others) and I grew up in a different time period than you. And as I've mentioned before, back when I was growing up, people weren't hyper-introverted, closed off, and terminally online like they are now. Sorry if you don't find this answer satisfying.

 

[universallyabhorres]

I'm NT (or at least I appear NT to others) and I grew up in a different time period than you. And as I've mentioned before, back when I was growing up, people weren't hyper-introverted, closed off, and terminally online like they are now. Sorry if you don't find this answer satisfying.

It's fine, I understand your perspective. I wish you would give me surgery advice, I am so tired of being shit on.

 

[fentacel]

this might sound funny, but kindergarten. after I told her, she cried, then cut my neck with scissors later on, she apparently meant to cut my hair instead.

 

[Solid State]

When I was a senior in high school, a girl asked me out because she thought I was interesting and smart.

When we were sitting in her car before going somewhere, she tried showing me her new earrings. I tried to tell her to take them out as I was feeling very uncomfortable as she wanted to get very touchy...and I ended up having a relapse and pulled them out of her ears. She hysterically told me to get the fuck out of her car and to never talk to her again, and I was left to walk two miles home...and it was then I realized that this is probably what I can expect in the foreseeable future.

 

[justuseless]

When I was a senior in high school, a girl asked me out because she thought I was interesting and smart.

When we were sitting in her car before going somewhere, she tried showing me her new earrings. I tried to tell her to take them out as I was feeling very uncomfortable as she wanted to get very touchy...and I ended up having a relapse and pulled them out of her ears. She hysterically told me to get the fuck out of her car and to never talk to her again, and I was left to walk two miles home...and it was then I realized that this is probably what I can expect in the foreseeable future.

Fucking fakecel

 

[Popovshishman]

Fucking fakecel

Tbf sounds like a mentalcel, guessing he might've had some traumatic experience or some shit.

 

[Popovshishman]

When I was a senior in high school, a girl asked me out because she thought I was interesting and smart.

When we were sitting in her car before going somewhere, she tried showing me her new earrings. I tried to tell her to take them out as I was feeling very uncomfortable as she wanted to get very touchy...and I ended up having a relapse and pulled them out of her ears. She hysterically told me to get the fuck out of her car and to never talk to her again, and I was left to walk two miles home...and it was then I realized that this is probably what I can expect in the foreseeable future.

Mind if I ask what caused the relapse? or what the relapse actually was

 

[ihatefemcels]

When I was a senior in high school, a girl asked me out because she thought I was interesting and smart.

When we were sitting in her car before going somewhere, she tried showing me her new earrings. I tried to tell her to take them out as I was feeling very uncomfortable as she wanted to get very touchy...and I ended up having a relapse and pulled them out of her ears. She hysterically told me to get the fuck out of her car and to never talk to her again, and I was left to walk two miles home...and it was then I realized that this is probably what I can expect in the foreseeable future.

Fakecel + wtf is wrong with you, that’s all on you

 

[Solid State]

Mind if I ask what caused the relapse? or what the relapse actually was

I have a form of OCD called dermatillomania. I will compulsively pick at things that subconsciously register as "foreign" in my skin like moles, scabs, etc. out of anxiety or when I am stressed.

The problem is that this also applies to other people as well, as I will compulsively pick things like piercings, tattoos, etc. and I have injured people when this has happened and I have gotten in trouble in the past because of this.

I take medication for it, but I do have to avoid physical contact with people that have things on them that could cause an issue. The problem is that this is not exactly conducive to relationships in the eyes of most people, sexual or otherwise.

Make of that what you will, but it is a large part of why I am a 41-year-old incel. I hate how I am, but who among us here got to choose what we are?

 

[PolskiKartofel]

All women have blocked or ghosted me after first meeting, maybe one or two wrote they don't want to contact me

 

[Leonardo Part V]

I was rejected by my "oneitis" in 2014 and it took me 10 years to get over it.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

the one that gave me a fake name and fake number was probably the worst ngl I called some random old bitch asking if "fake name" is there. was extremely humiliating

 

[TerribleFate]

A few months ago my oneitis told me that she'd be sacrificing herself if we got together. My mind still hasn't fully processed this because I'm sure I would rope the moment it fully sets in.

 

[Popovshishman]

I have a form of OCD called dermatillomania. I will compulsively pick at things that subconsciously register as "foreign" in my skin like moles, scabs, etc. out of anxiety or when I am stressed.

The problem is that this also applies to other people as well, as I will compulsively pick things like piercings, tattoos, etc. and I have injured people when this has happened and I have gotten in trouble in the past because of this.

I take medication for it, but I do have to avoid physical contact with people that have things on them that could cause an issue. The problem is that this is not exactly conducive to relationships in the eyes of most people, sexual or otherwise.

Make of that what you will, but it is a large part of why I am a 41-year-old incel. I hate how I am, but who among us here got to choose what we are?

That's very unfortunate.

ake of that what you will, but it is a large part of why I am a 41-year-old incel. I hate how I am, but who among us here got to choose what we are?

To quote Bowden, "You can do a bit, but you're born to be what you are." That's the circumstances we find ourselves in and we've all been dealt poor hands (ofcourse, some of us have worse hands than each other but they're all still poor hands nonetheless).

 

[Lonelyus]

An emo girl i had a crush on

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Never got rejected since I don't interact with females.

 

[Mihailo Toloto]

Fucking fakecel

When I was a senior in high school, a girl asked me out because she thought I was interesting and smart.

When we were sitting in her car before going somewhere, she tried showing me her new earrings. I tried to tell her to take them out as I was feeling very uncomfortable as she wanted to get very touchy...and I ended up having a relapse and pulled them out of her ears. She hysterically told me to get the fuck out of her car and to never talk to her again, and I was left to walk two miles home...and it was then I realized that this is probably what I can expect in the foreseeable future.

He's not a fakecel, he's a truecel. He's mentally broken

 

[Mihailo Toloto]

I've never been rejected because I don't usually talk to women. If I were rejected, I would most likely commit suicide because I'm mentally unstable and can't handle negative emotions

 

[bathlete]

i don’t really remember, maybe i wanted the heinous memory to disappear from my mind

 

[DutchCel01]

The worst one was some legit fucking whore who used me for money (it was all online aswell i was a fucking retard i know) and she kept telling me she needed more money and she would come see me. Eventually i wised up and told her to fuck off which she then proceeded to make fun of me. This is the only one that im actually embarrassed about and which also hurt me mentally and i still think about how much of a retard i was. Im a fucking autist who believes everything