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What's your idea of a good girlfriend? (realistic)

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Let's keep this realistic, so saying you need a virgin, that's as likely as winning the lottery and getting hit by lightning simultaneously.
 
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Realistically, I want a girl that I can mold to my taste, to adapt her to my personality and my needs.

I also want to experiment subliminal conditioning, hypnosis, and drug treatment on that girl.
 
Answering will take too much effort
 
5' 6'', blonde, blue eyes, petite, perky medium/small/flat pretty tits, not thicc, ideally no male friends, low IQ, my looksmatch
 
- has a vagina (this part is vital)
- looksmatch
- isn’t fat
- isn’t a bitch
- has at least two brain cells to rub together (not a total moron)
- loyal
- submissive

That’s about it tbh
 
Ohh, yeah, I didn't finish my thought, that was dumb.

What I meant to say is that this woman doesn't exist for me, hence my second P.S.S where I said that I don't provide anything in return. Damn, that's embarrassing.
 
-Looksmatch
-Loves me
-Has hygiene
-Has a vagina
 
A good girlfriend doesn't realistically exist, this entire thread will be fantasy unless someone is into cuckolding, betabuxing, and slavery, cuz realistically unless you're Chad that's all you're gonna get.
 
Vagina
Good hygiene
Looks match
Smart, like me
 
Not obese
Not a feminist
Not literally deformed

That’s basically it for me
 
Realistically :

- NOT A FUCKING LANDWHALE

That's all.
 
realistically: a nonexistent female
 
Fuck being (((realistic))). JFL @ realistic cucks.

Here's what I would consider to be a good GF:

- virgin (a real virgin with zero sexual experience)
- 2 legs
- 2 arms
- a torso
- a tight vagina
- knows how to cook
- wants a ton of kids
- would worship the ground I walk on
- loves me
- thin
- loyal
- submissive
- doesn't bitch and moan 24x7 like most modern foids
- insecure
- not dumb but not too intelligent either
- likes nature
- doesn't like watching TV
- hates reality TV shows
- is satisfied with being a homebody most of the time

Yes, I know that there's a greater chance of me climbing Mt. Everest than me finding a girlfriend at all (let alone a GF with all these qualities).
 
- Antisocial like me so she is fine with it just being us two forever.
- 100% Loyal
- Not obese By this I literally mean OBESE, she can be fat even very fat but not obese. Although I prefer normal size but it´s not a must.
- Loves me
- Obsessed with me
even to the point of it be considered stalking because that would be the highest form of validation.
- Insecure
 
A good girlfriend doesn't realistically exist, this entire thread will be fantasy unless someone is into cuckolding, betabuxing, and slavery, cuz realistically unless you're Chad that's all you're gonna get.
This.
Your dream girlfriend is a myth.
It would only work if you're good looking enough. She'd do drastic changes to herself to please you.
 
looksmatch, kind, loyal, understands me and accepts me
 
- has a vagina (this part is vital)
- looksmatch
- isn’t fat
- isn’t a bitch
- has at least two brain cells to rub together (not a total moron)
- loyal
- submissive

That’s about it tbh
tbhtbhtbhnglngl
 
Jfl at these virgin 10/10 5'4 blonde model copers; you're fueling the stereotype we're all standardcels
 
I dont care if she is 2/10,3/10 or,with a lot of lucky,4/10. If she likes me and she feel something for me,is ok to me.


This year I tried to talk to a 3/10 girl. She was nice and,to me,cute.
 
I agree with a lot of what everyone is saying.

Generally we want a girl who even stalks us considering our limited exposure (or zero experience) in relationships.
Looksmatch works, and not obese.
Introverted, anti-social, similar brain level. She can be bluepilled, that's fine with me, most girls are anyway.

My own personal preference would be her height... I want her same height (5'5"/5'6"). That may be asking for too much, but it would make things interesting.

I do not give a flying fuck if she's flat chested or has some facial imperfections. I've even seen a girl like I'm describing, she would work very well with me.

I do not want to touch a Stacy, that would make me auto-betabuxxxxx / cuckboy.
 

If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.

alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)

marijuana usage (ever)

binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)

talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters

Tattoos / abnormal piercings / short hair (like a boy’s) /neon-colored hair

being blatantly manipulative

high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity

high-doses of self entitlement

criminal record that isn’t minor crimes

narcissistic or bipolar disorder

STDs or terminal illnesses

trivial things enrage her / drama queen

brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions

likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers

doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own

depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness

passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you

neglectful / abusive parents

childhood abuse

seeing a psychiatrist

having only male friends / having a lack of female friends

using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’

doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants

inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)

highly emotional

engages in gossip

oddly skilled at sex

dudes seem to recognize her everywhere and are all friendly & shit

doesn’t care when you try to bareback her

says she likes dancing but can’t do any ACTUAL dances aside from grinding like a degenerate

commitment issues

never views problems as her fault

her promises are flexible

her explanations don’t add up

doesn’t show appreciation

lack of humility

speaks ill of exes

doesn’t know how to cook

listens to rap or emulates black pop culture

nonreligious

remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition

constantly bored and always wants something new

big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private

alpha widowed

rape claims in the past

at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings

bad/nonexistent relationship with father

has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest

lying to others, especially during phone calls

frequent clubbing, getting wasted

plastic surgery

makeup

cheating / non faithful in the past

single mom

divorcee

has ever used Tinder / online dating

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)

you haven't met her family after 2 months

any type of sex worker

slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs

she was in a sorority

she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro

her mother is a whale

she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful

doesn't want to be seen with you

high partner count

frequently shows up late or blows you off

makes a scene in public

she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'

victim mentality

black or green nail polish

house/bedroom isn’t clean

disowned by her family

her ex-boyfriends are always hanging around

she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole

giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’

She is mean to random people

She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her

She constantly talks shit about her best friends

She has no friends

She posts about how she “hates guys”

feminism or extreme far-left views

overly protective of her phone

you met her at work

she asks “how much do you make”

she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’

traveled solo around the world after college

irresponsibility / avoiding duties

She is younger than 18 years old

She is older than 25 years old

She is older than you

She isn’t a virgin

She isn’t very beautiful

She must be feminine

The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic

She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to. There are millions of girls in America who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.

Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother.

I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.


Green Flags/bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior,

Empathetic

Stable intact family

Highly religious

Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family

previous partner count of 1 or 2.

Educated, strong conservative family, has a career

Any type of volunteer work

Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage

When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates

No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer

home cooked food not takeout

too young to have ridden the CC

Hard-work ethics

Sports/gym routines

Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom

Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.

Generous

Self-discipline, controls her behaviors

Clingyness to you

Happy/positive/optimistic attitude

Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated

Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything

When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged

Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So she does it out of respect for you.

Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals

Enjoys it when you make decisions for her

Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, Jane Austin’s works, animals
 
Submissive, pleasant, good, faithful, amenable personality.

Youthful and feminine appearance.

But I believe a girl can only be good within a society that heavily curbs her hypergamic/promiscuous impulses through ostracism/punishment.
 
Let's keep this realistic, so saying you need a virgin, that's as likely as winning the lottery and getting hit by lightning simultaneously.

A loyal woman who will be my friend and lover. Someone I enjoy spending time with. Someone I can do things with like go to the movies, cook together, take biking tours, go out for dinner, do sports together, cuddle while watching a movie. It would be great if she was riding a motorbike but not a must. I will listen to her when she is down or has a problem and she will do the same for me and we will find solutions together. Someone who takes a relationship seriously and won't just replace me the instance there is a problem but will work on it together.

Perfectly fine for me if she is a little overweight so long as it is not too much and she should be beautiful to me but doesn't need to be hot in a way most people would define it (i.e. I do not care what friends think). Just so that I find her attractive.

Anything I want from a woman is what I would bring to the table, myself. Would definitely treat her with respect but would expect the same from her.
 
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A loyal woman who will be my friend and lover. Someone I enjoy spending time with. Someone I can do things with like go to the movies, cook together, take biking tours, go out for dinner, do sports together, cuddle while watching a movie. It would be great if she was riding a motorbike but not a must. I will listen to her when she is down or has a problem and she will do the same for me and we will find solutions together. Someone who takes a relationship seriously and won't just replace me the instance there is a problem but will work on it together.

Perfectly fine for me if she is a little overweight so long as it is not too much and she should be beautiful to me but doesn't need to be hot in a way most people would define it (i.e. I do not care what friends think). Just so that I find her attractive.

Anything I want from a woman is what I would bring to the table, myself. Would definitely treat her with respect but would expect the same from her.
That's very well put, and it's how every healthy relationship should look like. Too bad such things are so rare.
 
- Young
- Loyal
- Virgin
- Not obese
- Not black
 
Having a girlfriend is cucked.
 
- has a vagina (this part is vital)
- looksmatch
- isn’t fat
- isn’t a bitch
- has at least two brain cells to rub together (not a total moron)
- loyal
- submissive

That’s about it tbh
MUST have a vagina but finding a non bitch is impossible bro
 
- has a vagina (this part is vital)
- looksmatch
- isn’t fat
- isn’t a bitch
- has at least two brain cells to rub together (not a total moron)
- loyal
- submissive

That’s about it tbh
 
A girl who isn’t fat and shaves
 
If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.

alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)

marijuana usage (ever)

binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)

talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters

Tattoos / abnormal piercings / short hair (like a boy’s) /neon-colored hair

being blatantly manipulative

high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity

high-doses of self entitlement

criminal record that isn’t minor crimes

narcissistic or bipolar disorder

STDs or terminal illnesses

trivial things enrage her / drama queen

brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions

likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers

doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own

depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness


passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you

neglectful / abusive parents

childhood abuse

seeing a psychiatrist

having only male friends / having a lack of female friends

using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’

doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants

inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)


highly emotional

engages in gossip

oddly skilled at sex

dudes seem to recognize her everywhere and are all friendly & shit

doesn’t care when you try to bareback her

says she likes dancing but can’t do any ACTUAL dances aside from grinding like a degenerate

commitment issues

never views problems as her fault

her promises are flexible

her explanations don’t add up

doesn’t show appreciation

lack of humility

speaks ill of exes

doesn’t know how to cook

listens to rap or emulates black pop culture

nonreligious

remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition

constantly bored and always wants something new

big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private

alpha widowed

rape claims in the past

at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings

bad/nonexistent relationship with father

has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest

lying to others, especially during phone calls

frequent clubbing, getting wasted

plastic surgery

makeup

cheating / non faithful in the past

single mom

divorcee

has ever used Tinder / online dating

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)

you haven't met her family after 2 months

any type of sex worker

slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs

she was in a sorority

she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro

her mother is a whale

she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful

doesn't want to be seen with you

high partner count

frequently shows up late or blows you off

makes a scene in public

she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'

victim mentality

black or green nail polish

house/bedroom isn’t clean

disowned by her family

her ex-boyfriends are always hanging around

she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole

giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’

She is mean to random people

She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her

She constantly talks shit about her best friends

She has no friends

She posts about how she “hates guys”

feminism or extreme far-left views

overly protective of her phone

you met her at work

she asks “how much do you make”

she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’

traveled solo around the world after college

irresponsibility / avoiding duties

She is younger than 18 years old

She is older than 25 years old

She is older than you

She isn’t a virgin

She isn’t very beautiful

She must be feminine

The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic

She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to. There are millions of girls in America who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.

Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother.

I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.


Green Flags/bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior,


Empathetic

Stable intact family

Highly religious

Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family

previous partner count of 1 or 2.

Educated, strong conservative family, has a career

Any type of volunteer work

Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage

When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates

No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer

home cooked food not takeout

too young to have ridden the CC

Hard-work ethics

Sports/gym routines

Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom

Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.

Generous

Self-discipline, controls her behaviors

Clingyness to you

Happy/positive/optimistic attitude

Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated

Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything

When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged

Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So she does it out of respect for you.

Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals

Enjoys it when you make decisions for her

Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, Jane Austin’s works, animals
With the exception of wine, foids consuming alcohol on the regular is degenerate.
 
loyal,wanting to have sex with me, not a bitch and lookswise i dont ask for much.
 
3 things I need. 1.) they won’t cheat 2.) not fat 3.) can enjoy spending time with
 
If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.

alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)

marijuana usage (ever)

binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)

talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters

Tattoos / abnormal piercings / short hair (like a boy’s) /neon-colored hair

being blatantly manipulative

high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity

high-doses of self entitlement

criminal record that isn’t minor crimes

narcissistic or bipolar disorder

STDs or terminal illnesses

trivial things enrage her / drama queen

brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions

likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers

doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own

depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness


passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you

neglectful / abusive parents

childhood abuse

seeing a psychiatrist

having only male friends / having a lack of female friends

using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’

doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants

inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)


highly emotional

engages in gossip

oddly skilled at sex

dudes seem to recognize her everywhere and are all friendly & shit

doesn’t care when you try to bareback her

says she likes dancing but can’t do any ACTUAL dances aside from grinding like a degenerate

commitment issues

never views problems as her fault

her promises are flexible

her explanations don’t add up

doesn’t show appreciation

lack of humility

speaks ill of exes

doesn’t know how to cook

listens to rap or emulates black pop culture

nonreligious

remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition

constantly bored and always wants something new

big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private

alpha widowed

rape claims in the past

at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings

bad/nonexistent relationship with father

has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest

lying to others, especially during phone calls

frequent clubbing, getting wasted

plastic surgery

makeup

cheating / non faithful in the past

single mom

divorcee

has ever used Tinder / online dating

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)

you haven't met her family after 2 months

any type of sex worker

slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs

she was in a sorority

she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro

her mother is a whale

she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful

doesn't want to be seen with you

high partner count

frequently shows up late or blows you off

makes a scene in public

she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'

victim mentality

black or green nail polish

house/bedroom isn’t clean

disowned by her family

her ex-boyfriends are always hanging around

she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole

giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’

She is mean to random people

She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her

She constantly talks shit about her best friends

She has no friends

She posts about how she “hates guys”

feminism or extreme far-left views

overly protective of her phone

you met her at work

she asks “how much do you make”

she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’

traveled solo around the world after college

irresponsibility / avoiding duties

She is younger than 18 years old

She is older than 25 years old

She is older than you

She isn’t a virgin

She isn’t very beautiful

She must be feminine

The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic

She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to. There are millions of girls in America who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.

Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother.

I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.


Green Flags/bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior,


Empathetic

Stable intact family

Highly religious

Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family

previous partner count of 1 or 2.

Educated, strong conservative family, has a career

Any type of volunteer work

Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage

When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates

No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer

home cooked food not takeout

too young to have ridden the CC

Hard-work ethics

Sports/gym routines

Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom

Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.

Generous

Self-discipline, controls her behaviors

Clingyness to you

Happy/positive/optimistic attitude

Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated

Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything

When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged

Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So she does it out of respect for you.

Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals

Enjoys it when you make decisions for her

Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, Jane Austin’s works, animals

believe me, just believe me, my mother has nearly ALL what you wanted to have for a wife
 
someone kind and smart, hopefully healthy and some similar interest. if she can like books and movies than its almost 9/10 alone especially if shes about true equality, like splitting bills and not expecting gender roles out of each other. looks dont matter to me but thicc hips and thighs is a dream haha most of all monogamous
 
If a girl breaches one of these red flags, then she is unfit for marriage. Be ruthless, don't rationalize or become desperate. MGTOW is preferable to a shitty marriage.

alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred)

marijuana usage (ever)

binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)

talking to ex’s all the time / friend zoning lots of random guys to keep as orbiters

Tattoos / abnormal piercings / short hair (like a boy’s) /neon-colored hair

being blatantly manipulative

high-doses of entitlement or grandiosity

high-doses of self entitlement

criminal record that isn’t minor crimes

narcissistic or bipolar disorder

STDs or terminal illnesses

trivial things enrage her / drama queen

brain incapacity to distinguish between intentional and unintentional actions

likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers

doesn’t care if you orgasm, only cares for her own

depressive, problem-creator, gas-lighter
impulsiveness


passive-aggressiveness or avoiding conflict to the point where they lie and hide things from you

neglectful / abusive parents

childhood abuse

seeing a psychiatrist

having only male friends / having a lack of female friends

using powerful words in the wrong context (exaggerated) ‘molest’, ‘oppress’, ‘torture’, ‘rape’, ‘genocide’, ‘abuse’, ‘illegal’

doesn’t do you any sexual favors/desires except for the position she wants

inability to hold down a job or laziness
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)


highly emotional

engages in gossip

oddly skilled at sex

dudes seem to recognize her everywhere and are all friendly & shit

doesn’t care when you try to bareback her

says she likes dancing but can’t do any ACTUAL dances aside from grinding like a degenerate

commitment issues

never views problems as her fault

her promises are flexible

her explanations don’t add up

doesn’t show appreciation

lack of humility

speaks ill of exes

doesn’t know how to cook

listens to rap or emulates black pop culture

nonreligious

remembers offenses and uses it as ammunition

constantly bored and always wants something new

big difference between how she treats you in public vs in private

alpha widowed

rape claims in the past

at any point admits to destroying an ex's belongings

bad/nonexistent relationship with father

has ever taken part in an anti-Trump protest

lying to others, especially during phone calls

frequent clubbing, getting wasted

plastic surgery

makeup

cheating / non faithful in the past

single mom

divorcee

has ever used Tinder / online dating

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period)

you haven't met her family after 2 months

any type of sex worker

slutty friends, high amount of male friends or surrounds herself with gay bffs

she was in a sorority

she gives an amazing blowjob like a pro

her mother is a whale

she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful

doesn't want to be seen with you

high partner count

frequently shows up late or blows you off

makes a scene in public

she’s ever had a one night stand, even if ‘it was just one drunken night in college'

victim mentality

black or green nail polish

house/bedroom isn’t clean

disowned by her family

her ex-boyfriends are always hanging around

she came out of a long term abusive relationship with some asshole

giving ultimatums ‘if you loved me, you would <insert ultimatum>’. I respond with ‘if you loved me, you wouldn’t be giving me ultimatums. We’re done. Bye.’

She is mean to random people

She boasts that she can’t “get along” with other girls, or claims that other girls ‘hate’ her

She constantly talks shit about her best friends

She has no friends

She posts about how she “hates guys”

feminism or extreme far-left views

overly protective of her phone

you met her at work

she asks “how much do you make”

she takes pride in ‘being one of the guys’

traveled solo around the world after college

irresponsibility / avoiding duties

She is younger than 18 years old

She is older than 25 years old

She is older than you

She isn’t a virgin

She isn’t very beautiful

She must be feminine

The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic

She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to. There are millions of girls in America who “believe in God” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.

Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother.

I don’t see the point in getting married if you’re not going to pop two children out of her soon afterwards. Unless she just wants sex. No rush until she wants children.


Green Flags/bonuses
Responsible. Financially, doing chores, alcohol responsible behavior,


Empathetic

Stable intact family

Highly religious

Facebook pictures are of her and female friends and family

previous partner count of 1 or 2.

Educated, strong conservative family, has a career

Any type of volunteer work

Virgin, especially if she is waiting until marriage

When you first go over to her house she introduces you to all of her roommates

No canceled dates, if she can’t go then she lets you know ahead of time and gives a counter offer

home cooked food not takeout

too young to have ridden the CC

Hard-work ethics

Sports/gym routines

Goes out of her way to do you favors in the bedroom

Slightly moderate/conservative. Likes tradition and traditional male-female roles.

Generous

Self-discipline, controls her behaviors

Clingyness to you

Happy/positive/optimistic attitude

Doesn’t get easily mad or irritated

Can talk rationally like a mature adult without getting mad at anything

When you challenge her, she acknowledges your views and/or changes her mind about an issue frequently when challenged

Does things that are done because she is anxious or fearful that you might get angry/irritated with her. So she does it out of respect for you.

Nuturing/kind behavior to others, even animals

Enjoys it when you make decisions for her

Hobbies, interests, reading non-fiction (indicates intelligence)
Cool hobbies: Ice skating, horse riding, knitting, sewing, cooking, decorating for christmas, playing with kids, painting, violin, piano, musical instruments, books, Jane Austin’s works, animals
is there a single woman on earth that could qualify? certainly not in america
 

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