What's your biggest flaw?

[Deleted member 7448]

Mine is my avoidant personality disorder. I'm not diagnosed or anything, but I definitely have it. A few examples: I haven't had a conversation with anybody other than my parents in months. If we don't count people at work, it's years.

I spent 100% of my free time online, but I have 0 online friends. Sometimes people want to talk to me and I don't reply back, I just don't like talking to people.

Sometimes people are friendly online and I feel uncomfortable from that. I'm used to people being jerks and I like that. People wanting to be my friends makes want to avoid them and I never reply to their messages.

There was this girl when I was in university that hugged everybody as a greeting, even ugly guys. I was basically the only one that almost ran away to avoid huggigng.

Back when I didn't drop out of society, a person might call me like once a year or something. I'd dodge the call and not answer.

I have 2 numbers in my phone, my mom and my dad.

 

[ADD Sufferer]

I suffer from ADD and it has a huge impact on my life.

 

[▼▼ ΔQUA .biz ▼▼]

My chin.

 

[inficel]

Mine is social anxiety, which makes me extremely awkward and unable to make friends. I spent weeks just sitting at my computer because I'm to anxious to leave my house.

 

[MisterCandy]

I'm also avoidant personality, maybe even more than you because I don't even have a phone and I even avoid my own father. LOL. I'm only comfortable around kids which once led to an embarrassing confrontation with a neighbor who accused me of being a pedophile. But fuck that faggot. I just told him to call the cops and then slammed the door in his ugly face.

 

[guerillahubris]

Mine is my avoidant personality disorder. I'm not diagnosed or anything, but I definitely have it. A few examples: I haven't had a conversation with anybody other than my parents in months. If we don't count people at work, it's years.

I spent 100% of my free time online, but I have 0 online friends. Sometimes people want to talk to me and I don't reply back, I just don't like talking to people.

Sometimes people are friendly online and I feel uncomfortable from that. I'm used to people being jerks and I like that. People wanting to be my friends makes want to avoid them and I never reply to their messages.

There was this girl when I was in university that hugged everybody as a greeting, even ugly guys. I was basically the only one that almost ran away to avoid huggigng.

Back when I didn't drop out of society, a person might call me like once a year or something. I'd dodge the call and not answer.

I have 2 numbers in my phone, my mom and my dad.

I'm also avoidant personality, maybe even more than you because I don't even have a phone and I even avoid my own father. LOL. I'm only comfortable around kids which once led to an embarrassing confrontation with a neighbor who accused me of being a pedophile. But fuck that faggot. I just told him to call the cops and then slammed the door in his ugly face.

ban augustcels. go outside you volcels

Mine is social anxiety, which makes me extremely awkward and unable to make friends. I spent weeks just sitting at my computer because I'm to anxious to leave my house.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Long midface.

 

[inficel]

ban augustcels. go outside you volcels

lmao piss off

 

[Deleted member 7448]

ban augustcels. go outside you volcels

Really? We are literally unable to talk to other human beings and you call us volcels?

 

[guerillahubris]

Really? We are literally unable to talk to other human beings and you call us volcels?

you can actually fix it with effort and maybe some xanax.

 

[Deleted member 2798]

Mine is my avoidant personality disorder. I'm not diagnosed or anything, but I definitely have it. A few examples: I haven't had a conversation with anybody other than my parents in months. If we don't count people at work, it's years.

I spent 100% of my free time online, but I have 0 online friends. Sometimes people want to talk to me and I don't reply back, I just don't like talking to people.

Sometimes people are friendly online and I feel uncomfortable from that. I'm used to people being jerks and I like that. People wanting to be my friends makes want to avoid them and I never reply to their messages.

There was this girl when I was in university that hugged everybody as a greeting, even ugly guys. I was basically the only one that almost ran away to avoid huggigng.

Back when I didn't drop out of society, a person might call me like once a year or something. I'd dodge the call and not answer.

I have 2 numbers in my phone, my mom and my dad.

I probably have this too, to a lesser degree. I used to feel exposed by attention (not a problem now, as it's never furnished). I don't use any social media and this is the only forum I've ever posted on; I never felt like I had anything to say to anyone and considered their posts as historical record rather than a living dialogue. In middle/early high school, there were a few fakecel experiences that I retreated from coldly.

Another, possibly related, idiosyncrasy I've got is the desire to keep interactions sealed from extrasystemic elements. This mostly ends up meaning that I don't like my conversations being overheard and will speak in low tones to keep it from happening. I don't like wires crossing and telling people about other people.

I still don't like being "surprised" with conversation and am now very terse. Since I've recognized the necessity of overcoming my aversion to other people, I've been able get past it but have had fewer opportunities to and a poor idea of where to proceed from there.

I am not strikingly physically repellent, but I am not attractive enough to overcome the fact that I have nothing close to anything resembling acquaintances and no ability or real interest to make them.

 

[Evildoer]

My height.

 

[MisterCandy]

Really? We are literally unable to talk to other human beings and you call us volcels?

People who don't have high anxiety see it as voluntary because they can't understand it. It's sorta like the book "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest." There were the committed and the voluntary. The committed were the guys in the mental hospital who were legitimately insane and were not allowed to leave. The voluntary were guys who we're simply too afraid of the real world but who could technically leave the hospital anytime they wanted.

An excerp from the book:

"Sefelt, what about you? There's nothing wrong with you but you have fits. Hell, I had an uncle who threw conniptions twice as bad as yours and saw visions from the Devil to boot, but he didn't lock himself in the nuthouse. You could get along outside if you had the guts—"​

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"Sure!" It's Billy, his face boiling tears. "Sure!" he screams again. "If we had the g-guts! I could go outside to-today, if I had the guts. My m-m-mother is a good friend of M-Miss Ratched, and I could get an AMA signed this afternoon, if I had the guts!"​

McMurphy suddenly realizes that most of the men are in the asylum voluntarily; the most sane person there is also the one kept against his will, while the craziest men are there of their own volition. It’s because they’re too scared to be anywhere else.​

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If you haven't read the book yet go read it now. Don't watch the movie because it kinda sucks and doesn't explain a lot but the book is fantastic.

 

[PersonalityChad]

my face

 

[SupremeG]

My mental disorder/autism.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Manlet, low T, weak chin, fat nose

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Being a manlet in Germany,skin problems,bad frame

 

[San Salvador]

JFL at """"""" mentalcel"""""""" faggots in this thread. My biggest flaw is my shit tier eye area.

 

[JovanD]

Being born.

 

[Felix97]

My eye area

 

[notmeok1989]

Weak chin, eye area. I always wonder what I'd look like with a slightly bigger chin.

 

[Gremlincel]

Small dick, followed by being short.

 

[armis]

Below average looks and un-NTness.

 

[acnescarcel]

JFL at """"""" mentalcel"""""""" faggots in this thread. My biggest flaw is my shit tier eye area.

so true half the fags in this thread are larpers or coping. my biggest flaw is my acne scars.

 

[Bradford_Indigo]

Being black no one wants to fuck a shrimp dick black am i right

 

[Sadist]

Face and height

 

[Cuckservative]

Aspergers, avoidant personality and the fact I can be a massive asshole.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

me too op

im also ugly, dumb and cant even have conversations with people online. im basically a retard and I wonder why i don't receive some sort of government benefits

 

[bearcel]

Aspergers, massive insecurities, avoidant personality.

 

[HumanTrash]

Moobs, not sure if losing weight will help much with them as I've had them pretty much always (as teenager I had legit gyno and after that they stayed because of getting fat). I also have ugly niggernose and shitty sideprofile.

 

[Stoiccel]

Face and height