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whats wrong with having a oneitis?

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why do many incels despise it? every single grade I was in I had a new onetisis and I just couldnt help it. its not worshipping but someone you naturally feel super attracted to and you see often
 
Depression when you get rejected by her. But even worse than a romantic oneitis is a friendship oneitis. It’s easy to understand why someone wouldn’t want to date you, but it’s harder when they don’t even want to be friends with you.
 
Depression when you get rejected by her. But even worse than a romantic oneitis is a friendship oneitis. It’s easy to understand why someone wouldn’t want to date you, but it’s harder when they don’t even want to be friends with you.
I would never ask any foid out regardless of how attracted because it will only lead to embarassment
 
I have never fallen in love with anyone so I don't understand oneitiscels
 
It comes out as naive
 
it's a youngcel trait, if you don't grow out of it it's cringe
I never mentally grew up and I still enjoy alot of things I did as a kid. im in college. its over for me
 
why do many incels despise it? every single grade I was in I had a new onetisis and I just couldnt help it. its not worshipping but someone you naturally feel super attracted to and you see often
Because to have a oneitis means you have a bluepilled mindset. Having a oneitis is inherently female worship. You're worshipping a disney fantasy version of her that you made in your head. If you apply REAL female nature to her in your fantasies, you'll fall out of love extremely quickly.

It's normal to be SEXUALLY attracted to women, but being obsessed with her romantically is BETA CUCK behavior.
 
I know it sounds soy but idk how to not be one as a virgin manlet :feelsbadman:
Like I said, stop applying fantasies to these foids. Think of them in terms of FEMALE NATURE. For example, the whore is a selfish entitled hypergamous narcissist who only has eyes for Chad. You see her as an angel while she gags on BBC that same night. If you smell her breath it won't be roses, it will smell like Chad's sweaty balls etc. Stop with the fantasizing and think logically about women.
 
Honestly a bit enviable, I have yet to find a woman I find attractive, likeable and who isn't already taken. And if you exclude 1 or 2 specific people you can narrow that down to "I have yet to find a woman I find likeable".
 
It's cucked to have feelings for a foid who would never reciprocate, doesn't know you exist, or dislikes you. It's a bad cope because you only get hurt in the end
 
when she leaves you for somebody better looking your gonna see what is wrong with it. dumb question i think
 
Because you are basically worshipping one foid when there are billions of others
 
Like I said, stop applying fantasies to these foids. Think of them in terms of FEMALE NATURE. For example, the whore is a selfish entitled hypergamous narcissist who only has eyes for Chad. You see her as an angel while she gags on BBC that same night. If you smell her breath it won't be roses, it will smell like Chad's sweaty balls etc. Stop with the fantasizing and think logically about women.
I do see it, but regardless some foids are too hot to completely ignore. I rarely have any oneitises nowadays but I relate to those that do alot
 
It's putting foids on a pedestal, so it is associated with simping for them and believing that NAWALT

"When you develop an infatuation for someone you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. It doesn't need to be a good reason. Taking photographs of the night sky, for example. Now, in the long run, that's just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to split up. But in the haze of infatuation, it's just what you've been searching for all these years."

Redpill/PUA types disliked 'one-itis' for practical reasons, because it often means that guys have a slavish, foid-centric mentality, take a subordinate role relative to the foid, and mystify foid nature to protect their one-itis

Incels dislike it because they think it's bluepilled

Foids hate it because um ew
 
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It is chemical reactions that fuck with your brain so you can't control it but time will make you move on over it.
 
If you are not substantially interacting with your oneitis, then this is related to the pathogenesis of narcissism.

You do not even know these foids, yet are obsessed with them. It is very unhealthy, especially for the success of actual romantic interaction. An extreme form of this problem eventually leads to tranny coping, as you become so obsessed with a foid that you "become" them as if in an effort to summon them :lul:
 
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You do not even know these foids, yet are obsessed with them. It is very unhealthy, especially for the success of actual romantic interaction. An extreme form of this problem eventually leads to tranny coping, as you become so obsessed with a foid that you "become" them as if in an effort to summon them :lul:
Ngl would be funny if a oneitiscel overcame their oneitis by 'becoming' the foid and deciding that they fancy themselves more
 
You are torturing yourself into thinking/hoping a foid is interested in you for x or y reason, leading you having love dreams with you and her, living outside reality, while she don't give a shit about you and swallows chad's cum while you daydream about holding her hand.
 
Ngl would be funny if a oneitiscel overcame their oneitis by 'becoming' the foid and deciding that they fancy themselves more
They can only achieve temporary catharsis after transitioning. The disassociated state they enter into cannot last forever.

I mean, if the wall is an issue for biological women, then imagine the wall for a tranny larping as a female :feelshaha:
 
They can only achieve temporary catharsis after transitioning. The disassociated state they enter into cannot last forever.

I mean, if the wall is an issue for biological women, then imagine the wall for a tranny larping as a female :feelshaha:
jfl puts Trump's wall to shame
 

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