tfw friendless kissless handholdless virgin
SuicideFuel What's worse? Having no friends? Or never having a girlfriend?
no girlfriend imo
They're not equally as bad, and not having a GF is definitely worse. If you get a GF, and it is serious you can marriage and have kids, you can create your own family, and your own family will need your full 100% time and attention if you want to have any decent kind of relationship with your family. Also, you can't have intimacy and sex with your friends nor can you have kids with them.
I don't have any friends, but I never really think about it, but a GF is whats on my mind nearly 24/7.
I don't have any friends, but I never really think about it, but a GF is whats on my mind nearly 24/7.
Be like me and lack both... 
not having a gf is much worse, honestly i could care less about having irl friends with normalfags but i still crave a gf
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Well I've had friends... I've had no friends... but 0 gf.
So I would say not having a gf.
So I would say not having a gf.
I'd agree if women were able to be comforting to weakness but girls don't want to be a guy's only part of a social life. Plus having friends can be fun.
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any sort of attachment is a burden, be it a romantic relationship with a female or a platonic one with another male. everyone grows tired of other people after a while, and they will of course ditch you without a second thought when they find a person with higher status (this includes looks and etc.) it's all pointless and is setting yourself up to be knocked down. the best way to go is to avoid them altogether and kill any urge to engage in them.
we're social creatures, people literally kill themselves because they can't handle being so isolated
Both tbhngl.
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we're also pretty much wired to orbit. it doesn't mean that it ends well.
the fact is, everyone hates ugly people including other ugly people. when you think about it objectively, there is no point in forming any sort of attachment with anyone else because you will get burned in the end.
If incels could just stop desiring friends and romantic relationships then incels as a concept would not be a thing. We wouldn't be sad about tfw no gf because we wouldn't give a shit, leaving this forum and other incel spaces to be meaningless.
gf cuz im introverted. dont have friends and i reliazed i dont really care too much that i dont
I tried to be friends with the guys at the arsperger's group.
They're about my age, 50 - 60.
They're about my age, 50 - 60.
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not true. not being able to get inside a romantic relationship would still be the biggest symptom of being ugly, which has much more far reaching conclusions than "i can't get my dick wet". for instance, i don't give the slightest fuck about having sex or having a girlfriend, and yet i'm still here because being a midget has ruined my life in ways important enough to make not being able to have sex/a gf a mere triviality.
I'd say no gf because even though I really would like some friends, having friends never stopped the loneliness or tfw no gf feels. I need both to be happy
There is zero point of entering a romantic relationship if all you want is sex. If one has zero desire for being loved by a girl then he'd be happy seeing hookers.
Honestly I'm not sad about any of it now, just angry about how normies have treated me, but I had to majorly fuck with my mind to achieve that. Either way, I agree that it's normal to want these things.
I just want a small group of close bros and one fun and loving + supportive girlfriend
Based autistic mindset tbh
this is more of a schizoid mindset, plenty of autistic men are horrifyingly lonely. Autism doesn't often make you asocial.
No girlfriend, because you could always fulfill your social needs with a girlfriend. Not to mention you have the internet to instantly connect with hundreds of others
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No friends. I want someone who I can relate with.
Problem is that most women don’t want a guy with no social life other than her, and most girls already have enough friends to not rely on her boyfriend or husband solely for companionship. At least with friends you have someone, and unlike with foids, close male friends will way more likely not find you disgusting for talking about your problems to them or opening up to them.
Unless you can find a girlfriend who is basically a bro in a girl’s body, then not having friends really fucking sucks.
Never having a girlfriend is infinitely worse than having no friends. I’ve barely had any friends, but I’ve never had a girlfriend. And I do consider my fellow incels to be good friends. I can have a great time hanging out and LDARing with the boys, but without anyone who will love me for who I am and want to give me affection, life is useless.
You can’t hang out with us IRL
We're replicators, friends are a means to that end. What makes men depressed and prone to visiting Gandy? Not getting laid. Yeah, not having friends sucks but you see guys with gfs/wives who get by just fine.
True... though it would be great if we did. Like if we had an incel commune. Though sometimes I do use voice chat with incels on discord and it’s pretty fun.
I would have roped a long time ago without my IRL incel friends. Really depends on what your friends are, if they are normans that you simply can't sympathize with then having no gf ever would be much more depressing
i really want children tbh
how the fuck would i know
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rather have a gf at this point who wants me to fuck her.
Gf is more important because she is your friend
Girlfriends aren't your friend, you can't treat girls like your friends and expect anything good to come of it
Those two tend to come hand in hand.
That’s really lame and i wouldn’t want to date a girl like that. Wtf is the point then? Some stinky bacteria filled hole? My oneitis was my best friend.
Girls want you to dominate them and treat them as their superior, not as your equal and they sure as fuck don't wanna be motherly to a boyfriend because that shit is weakness, and weakness is cancer to foids.
One of the many reasons i hate women. They expect you to do all the work and ask for such much without offering anything in return other than a bacteria filled hole. I think im sticking to escorts in that case.
I've seen girls do motherly stuff with their bfs. You just have to be attractive, that's literally it.
Now if you want your gf to be the dominant one, then that's another problem. Dominant girls have male mental wiring. Probably more promiscuous and have cheating tendencies, ironically more drawn to classical alphas than their submissive counterparts.
>I've seen girls do motherly stuff with their bfs. You just have to be attractive, that's literally it.
That's weak shit.
>Now if you want your gf to be the dominant one, then that's another problem
Dominant as in loving, caring and taking a bit of the lead so the pressure isn't squarely on me. Not as in pegging and being forced to eat her out.
You linked a test from idrlabs, so I take it you are familiar with mbti. How are you not aware of the isfj subtype? Or the esfj? They are the classic motherly, matriarchal types.
Famous ISFJs
Famous ISFJs at IDR Labs: The site for individual differences research.
Because women find male weakness repulsive. Even ISFJs. They do biologically.You linked a test from idrlabs, so I take it you are familiar with mbti. How are you not aware of the isfj subtype? Or the esfj? They are the classic motherly, matriarchal types.
Famous ISFJs
Famous ISFJs at IDR Labs: The site for individual differences research.www.idrlabs.com
Friends are a good cope tbh, I wouldn't trade them for a run-of-the-mill gf who doesn't share my interests. If I could go to the anime world and get to be with my perfect waifu I could deal with never seeing them or my family again though, as unfortunate as that might be.
This is why you must bring your friends
Or have the ability to go in and out whenever you please
Or bring her to your home world only if she isn't like other women and won't have the slightest desire to leave you for Chad
She'd become 3D, I'm not sure if I would like that tbh
That'd be ideal ngl
but it's too wishy-washy considering the thread topic tbhthb
Friends but no gf = good personality but unattractive.
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