so many incidents, imma provide one that's fresh
at my first job, there was this north indian high class foid (her parents owned apple orchards and practically she had no financial woes but just doing jobs because muh financially independent wimon hurr durr) maybe heighted 5 feet and so, same age as mine and by caste definitions we were on same par despite being from different states-culture et al;
so i decided to take a chance and tried to be friendly with her like bringing her water bottles when she was going "It's too hot here!" and trying to help with her work - she responded with big smiles and thank yous and "you're very intelligent!" so so i was in delusion that i am going to win her hearts - but man was i wrong... she actively kept track of my work and at a meeting over work evaluations she pulled reverse uno by pointing out where i was 'mistaking' or 'needed improvements' all out in front of our wimon boss and got me burdened with "trainings" (many that i never needed)
later when i tried to talk with her over it she actively avoided me by saying she's busy or just outright ignoring like moving away with a file or pulling out her phone and appearing she's in chat or calling someone etc but most importantly her entire expressions she wore before just turned like she was annoyed at me
i used to think for a while i made those mistakes at work and now she's taking me as a rookie or something so i need to improoove to get back with her at good terms - but it was all cope; as i later found out she just did it all because she chose a chad at work over me and just wanted to get rid of me so i don't interfere with their office romance; all this was informed by another coworker over a tea break who heard it all from that girl in their casual conversations
my only gripe there was she could've just said "No!" but she pulled these things to not only make me look bad at work but also playing with my emotions...but yeah it was one of life lessons over blekpill philosophies; it also made me understand to not punch above your own worth