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for me it's constantly being reminded of something I'll never have. Everytime I go out in public, I have to see couples, friends etc.
I'm lonely all day every day, so every once in a while I get the urge to try and make a connection. But 100s of rejections in the past has made me stop doing that.
The only social interaction I have nowadays is a little bit with family, this forum and a hello or goodbye with a cashier or something.

But the constant confrontation of what I can't have is the most torturous for me.
 
You are always mogged, every micro instant of your existence. You can’t escape from it.
 
The crippling loneliness and gaslighting received if you ever bring it up
 
Being denied one of the most fundamental human experiences in life
 
Getting gaslighted by your own family
 
The boredom, the state of wanting to exist and not. But I think that the pure state of apathy that you cultivate in your isolation is one of the most dehumanizing things you can experience on this earth. Of course if any reddit people want to say that torture is worse, I say to them that suffering is completely subjective.
 
Having to pretend I'm totally okay with being single for the rest of my life like an animal alone in a cage watching others run free and have relationships.
 
The boredom, the state of wanting to exist and not. But I think that the pure state of apathy that you cultivate in your isolation is one of the most dehumanizing things you can experience on this earth. Of course if any reddit people want to say that torture is worse, I say to them that suffering is completely subjective.
 
The loneliness is dehumanizing at times.
 
Everything is pointless. We're lied to constantly. There's no reason to care about anyone but myself.
 
Insignificance and exclusion, I'm a worthless mutt, an anomaly, the purpose of my existence as a tool for some mountain monkey to extract money out of an ignorant sexpat who should've died in Vietnam. I don't belong to any race or nation, my presence in this forum is my identity, and it's the only place where I have dignity.

Born just to experience endless agony, and die to be thrown into the potter's field, taking every trace of my existence with me :feelsbadman:
 
You are always mogged, every micro instant of your existence. You can’t escape from it.
This is also frustrating
The crippling loneliness and gaslighting received if you ever bring it up
Yup it's insane how much our suffering is denied as just 'in our head'
Being denied one of the most fundamental human experiences in life
:feelscry:
Getting gaslighted by your own family
This is why I will never say anything about incel or bp to my family
The boredom, the state of wanting to exist and not. But I think that the pure state of apathy that you cultivate in your isolation is one of the most dehumanizing things you can experience on this earth. Of course if any reddit people want to say that torture is worse, I say to them that suffering is completely subjective.
I feel you, the daily routine is so fucking dull, it legit makes me go insane.
Having to pretend I'm totally okay with being single for the rest of my life like an animal alone in a cage watching others run free and have relationships.
The loneliness is dehumanizing at times.
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Everything is pointless. We're lied to constantly. There's no reason to care about anyone but myself.
Yup, it's demoralizing.
 
The fact that nobody has sympathy, and actually go out of their way to make your life worse. I'm already suffering, why add to the BS.
 
for me it's constantly being reminded of something I'll never have. Everytime I go out in public, I have to see couples, friends etc.
I'm lonely all day every day, so every once in a while I get the urge to try and make a connection. But 100s of rejections in the past has made me stop doing that.
The only social interaction I have nowadays is a little bit with family, this forum and a hello or goodbye with a cashier or something.

But the constant confrontation of what I can't have is the most torturous for me.
Don’t care in the slightest about all that, friends especially. Just make me 6‘8 with robust frame and face and a big penis and I am good. But no, instead I am forced to live this life of misery experiencing severe mental and physical sufferings every single day. And all inflicted on me by my parents, okay, 90% parents the other 10% is on me for not pubertymaxxing while I still could. @wereq
 
seeing so many people have what I will never have
 
Don’t care in the slightest about all that, friends especially. Just make me 6‘8 with robust frame and face and a big penis and I am good. But no, instead I am forced to live this life of misery experiencing severe mental and physical sufferings every single day. And all inflicted on me by my parents, okay, 90% parents the other 10% is on me for not pubertymaxxing while I still could. @wereq
Yeah I don't even care about relationships anymore. I just need to be an ultra robust gigachad mogger who can do a fuck ton of extremely cool athletic shit.
 
absolute lack of respect, empathy, or courteousness that others obviously receive
 
the seemingly infinite amount of time and effort you put into ascending before you realize its over. prior to being blackpilled to the core, all the hard work and self improoovement in my life, even outside of trying to ascend from inceldom, has not paid off whatsoever. not even a tiny bit. im still the same shitty subhuman in every aspect of life that i was 5 years ago. its the feeling of realizing there is absolutely nothing you can do about your situation no matter what you do. im fucking cursed.
 
Feeling inferior to every other man being emasculated 24/7.
 
every single aspect is bad as an incel, but lacking the sex and love is the worst
 
Pain, emotional rape almost everytime i realise i'm undesirable.
Tried to don't care, but when pain starts being physical - it's impossible to do anything with this state.
 
Coom

Jfl everything related to be a functional human being
 
Being excluded from humanity and nowadays, copes too. The latter means limited freedom too when there's lack of resources, connections and help. It's a state of constant pain not being able to just get a hug. Male sexuality is severely belittled in society, all while it's overly sexualized and normies would go full kamikaze chimpout if they suddenly had to live like average autistic men.
 
it's constantly being reminded of something I'll never have.
that's a tought one
For me tough, the worst is not having a teenage. That's the most cruel thing that can be done
 
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