It's Over What's the worst grief beknown to man?

[LostSoulUK]

Losin yourself

In the context of the poll, there's somethin about losin a dog that cuts deep, a dog will love you unconditionally when you least deserve it. A dog would even love a serial killer, rapist and paedophile. Kids grow to resent you, even you're own mother will abuse you at some point in you're life. There's nowhere a dog would rather be than you're home, it never judges us, it never abuses our trust, it loves us complicitly till death do us part. There's a reason why a dog is a man's best friend, coined from the days of yesteryear with a man an his dog on a battlefield. I know cats offer us that same undying love and I have a kitten myself, but their self reliance doesn't cut as deep as losin a man's best friend.

A dog is by you're side through thick an thin, unflinching in its loyalty to your sorry arse, a sentence a dog least deserves.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Losing a father as that’s something I have experienced. Although losing a mother can be just as bad too. Losing immediate family is horrible

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Losing a pet is absolutely nothing compared to seeing your own father who was like a best friend to you all your life on his deathbed and then seeing him dead later on. Going to the funeral and knowing that this is it and you’ll never see him again hits so hard.

 

[_meh]

Losing a father as that’s something I have experienced. Although losing a mother can be just as bad too. Losing immediate family is horrible

Losing a family member is like you're losing a part of you.

 

[cockroach]

Losing a hamster for sure.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Losing a family member is like you're losing a part of you.

For real, especially when you were close with them. Have you lost any close family members?

 

[Jud Pottah]

Losing my feline friends.

 

[_meh]

For real, especially when you were close with them. Have you lost any close family members?

Both grandfathers and an uncle.

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

yeah family hurts more than anything else.

 

[ack]

losing my virginity

 

[LostSoulUK]

Losing a pet is absolutely nothing compared to seeing your own father who was like a best friend to you all your life on his deathbed and then seeing him dead later on. Going to the funeral and knowing that this is it and you’ll never see him again hits so hard.

I know a fellow incel brother who's father died recently, it cut him so deep, he's still grieving several months on, probably years on most likely. I never knew my dad personally, he died when I was 12 and he was an absent father an from what I've learned a drug dealer.

My mother has always been there for me, but my mother has also been emotionally abusive to me, gaslighting me for years to defend my evil brother. If he murdered someone she would still defend him at my expense, despite the years that bastard took from me with his threats and volatile behaviour.

As much as I love my mum for all that she has done for me, I'll never have that connection with her, I find it uncomfortable an awkward to even be in the same room as her, not least my social anxiety but because she's always loved her abusive son more than me. I can never forgive her gaslighting towards me throughout the years of hell I endured from him.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Both grandfathers and an uncle.

Brutal. I’ve lost one grandpa, two grandmas, many aunts and uncles, and my father. It’s so hard man

 

[nevergetsanybetter]

Losing my feline friends.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I know a fellow incel brother who's father died recently, it cut him so deep, he's still grieving several months on, probably years on most likely. I never knew my dad personally, he died when I was 12 and he was an absent father an from what I've learned a drug dealer.

My mother has always been there for me, but my mother has also been emotionally abusive to me, gaslighting me for years to defend my evil brother. If he murdered someone she would still defend him at my expense, despite the years that bastard took from me with his threats and volatile behaviour.

As much as I love my mum for all that she has done for me, I'll never have that connection with her, I find it uncomfortable an awkward to even be in the same room as her, not least my social anxiety but because she's always loved her abusive son more than me. I can never forgive her gaslighting towards me throughout the years of hell I endured from him.

Brutal, sucks that you never got to experience a decent father and better mother

 

[LostSoulUK]

Brutal. I’ve lost one grandpa, two grandmas, many aunts and uncles, and my father. It’s so hard man

I lost an uncle last week, well I say lost, he was never there to begin with in all truth. He was confined to a care home from his 30s with schizophrenia, his mind was completely gone. Spent his childhood in special needs schools and self harming. We only saw him once a year at christmas, besides that no one gave a fuck. Really sad way to go, but hardly knew him. He had a sudden heart attack in the care home, the staff saw him stand up and choke, then collapsed aged 58. Paramedics attempted to restore his heart for 2 hours but his life was over. He gained so much weight due to inactivity.

Imagine spending ur entire life in mental disability, confined to a care home at a young age with other mental cels and people in their dying years, then suddenly die of a heart attack aged 58. The sad reality is my life is no better.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I lost an uncle last week, well I say lost, he was never there to begin with in all truth. He was confined to a care home from his 30s with schizophrenia, his mind was completely gone. Spent his childhood in special needs schools and self harming. We only saw him once a year at christmas, besides that no one gave a fuck. Really sad way to go, but hardly knew him. He had a sudden heart attack in the care home, the staff saw him stand up and choke, then collapsed aged 58. Paramedics attempted to restore his heart for 2 hours but his life was over. He gained so much weight due to inactivity.

Imagine spending ur entire life in mental disability, confined to a care home at a young age with other mental cels and people in their dying years, then suddenly die of a heart attack aged 58. The sad reality is my life is no better.

Yeah that’s absolutely brutal for him

 

[La Grande *Koala*]

Losing immediate family is horrible

 

[La Grande *Koala*]

Realizing that you've never really been able to connect with your family because you're a mutt and therefore not even really related to them

 

[SilverBullet]

Losin yourself

Saw the question and immediately thought this

 

[lazy_gamer_423]

losing my dad
thinking about losing him is the only thing that gets me close to crying, but i still can't cry

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

: “Let’s unpack this inkwell! As a proud, fat feminist, I’m here to tell you that your sad little dead relatives are not your ticket to whining about how life isn’t fair. The truth is, women don’t owe you ANYTHING. Not your attention, not your validation, and certainly not your pity party. Get over it. Get out of your hole, do some work on yourself (and no, not just crying over your past), and stop expecting the universe to hand you everything on a silver platter. You’re not special because of your trauma.”

 

[allDead]

I'm roping 100% when my mom passes

 

[OwariDa]

I probably won’t ever reproduce but as a parent losing a kid would probably be the worst thing ever

I know losing your parents is still up there as one of the worst feelings but as a parent you see your little baby grow and get older, you’re there for every moment of their life but then one day that little baby you held in your arms that smiled at you is in your arms lifeless

I can’t even imagine that pain

 

[Castaway]

As much as I sometimes dislike my father, I would be devastated if he died. More so than any other family member

 

[Abacaxi14]

I think losing a kid would be the worst option.