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Venting What’s the point in living?

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When you can’t even enjoy the basic things of life. Like hanging out with friends or having sex with beautiful women. All my copes so far have been watching YouTube videos or gooning. I’m worn out, anyone got suggestions what I could do to improve my life?
 
Become a painter
 
there is no point were forced to be alive by god punishing us from whatever
 
The point in living is almost entirely removed when you’re excluded from the things that make life enjoyable. Purpose and meaning should have never been meant to be discovered by the individual, but are optimally assigned by the collective, which has unfortunately been undermined in our modern, hyper-individualistic society, hence it is impossible to find a point in living when you suffer as much as we do. The best advice is to seek something enjoyable and consistent, such as a hobby, or to rationalize your way into meaning through metaphysics.
 
Cant have a good universe without infinite untold suffering
 
Cant have a good universe without infinite untold suffering
But I don’t want to suffer anymore. I want something good in life :cryfeels:
 
But I don’t want to suffer anymore. I want something good in life :cryfeels:
Stop thinking so much and make yourself as physically comfortable as possible.
 
The point in living is almost entirely removed when you’re excluded from the things that make life enjoyable. Purpose and meaning should have never been meant to be discovered by the individual, but are optimally assigned by the collective, which has unfortunately been undermined in our modern, hyper-individualistic society, hence it is impossible to find a point in living when you suffer as much as we do. The best advice is to seek something enjoyable and consistent, such as a hobby, or to rationalize your way into meaning through metaphysics.
Yes. I play civilization and read primarily.
 
Stop thinking so much and make yourself as physically comfortable as possible.
Yes. Play Graviteam Tactics to make yourself as comfortable as possible
 
can you please elaborate on what it means? Im curious.
The idea is that meaning does not necessarily have to be empirically discovered in the external world in order to function psychologically. Historically, most people did not discover meaning individually; it was embedded into religious or philosophical systems that explained why life mattered. For example, religions assign meaning through divine purpose, cosmic order, or moral duty. Even secular philosophies can do something similar.

What I am referring to is deliberately adopting or constructing such a framework so that your existence fits into a larger explanatory structure. Be it religious metaphysics (i.e., existence serves a divine purpose, even if that purpose is not immediately visible), or philosophical metaphysics (i.e., certain interpretations of existentialism where meaning is created through will or personal values, though this could arguably be seen as self-contradictory), or cosmic or deterministic views (i.e., seeing yourself as part of a broader unfolding process of the universe, where individual existence is simply one component of a larger system).

The main point is that meaning is not necessarily something that must be “found” in the external world. It can be logically justified through a framework that gives existence an interpretable role. There is also a question of what meaning even is, and what exactly qualifies as a proper meaning in life? In a sense, you could justify meaning if you could prove normative realism, which is not a major leap since normativity is strongly tied to meaning (I suppose it can also be found through some sort of aristotelian teleology and pursuit of eudaimonia).
 
To me the point in living is bland when I can't even merit free artistic control. It's the only thing that matters to me so being this off of it just makes me curse myself that I wanted it
 
To me the point in living is bland when I can't even merit free artistic control. It's the only thing that matters to me so being this off of it just makes me curse myself that I wanted it
What artistic domains do you want control over? I wish I had musical ability, I would gladly dedicate all my time to music if I did.
 
What artistic domains do you want control over? I wish I had musical ability, I would gladly dedicate all my time to music if I did.
I wish I had a perfect visual memory so I could draw how I want to. Music is cool and transfers lots of inspiration cross-medium but I just wanted to be able to draw well
 
there is no point really. But im also too pussy to sui. Just cope for now
 
No point, my access to firearms is holding me back from ascending
 
The idea is that meaning does not necessarily have to be empirically discovered in the external world in order to function psychologically. Historically, most people did not discover meaning individually; it was embedded into religious or philosophical systems that explained why life mattered. For example, religions assign meaning through divine purpose, cosmic order, or moral duty. Even secular philosophies can do something similar.

What I am referring to is deliberately adopting or constructing such a framework so that your existence fits into a larger explanatory structure. Be it religious metaphysics (i.e., existence serves a divine purpose, even if that purpose is not immediately visible), or philosophical metaphysics (i.e., certain interpretations of existentialism where meaning is created through will or personal values, though this could arguably be seen as self-contradictory), or cosmic or deterministic views (i.e., seeing yourself as part of a broader unfolding process of the universe, where individual existence is simply one component of a larger system).

The main point is that meaning is not necessarily something that must be “found” in the external world. It can be logically justified through a framework that gives existence an interpretable role. There is also a question of what meaning even is, and what exactly qualifies as a proper meaning in life? In a sense, you could justify meaning if you could prove normative realism, which is not a major leap since normativity is strongly tied to meaning (I suppose it can also be found through some sort of aristotelian teleology and pursuit of eudaimonia).
Thanks for the detailed explanation,will look more into it.:feelsYall:

in simpler terms it means to see yourself as a part of a bigger picture or a machine, rather than the machine itself. If I understood correctly.

I guess it could make sense. I know that I'm not special and that ultimately we are all replaceable. The question now is how do we find balance between being a cog and not feeling like one.
 
Thanks for the detailed explanation,will look more into it.:feelsYall:

in simpler terms it means to see yourself as a part of a bigger picture or a machine, rather than the machine itself. If I understood correctly.

I guess it could make sense. I know that I'm not special and that ultimately we are all replaceable. The question now is how do we find balance between being a cog and not feeling like one.
Yep. The goal isn’t to convince yourself that you’re the center of the universe. It’s to interpret your existence in a way in which your actions fit into some coherent structure of value or purpose, hence you could interpret meaning through a coherent pursuit of eudaimonia, which can be justified once normativity is established — as well as the other ideas I have mentioned. Of course, this is quite difficult in today's society, due to the highly atomized nature of the social and cultural landscape, but it is still feasible; you could ground it rationally, albeit the greater challenge is to convince yourself psychologically (which is why religious frameworks that were collectivistic and restricted individual freedom worked well to ground meaning).
 
When you can’t even enjoy the basic things of life. Like hanging out with friends or having sex with beautiful women. All my copes so far have been watching YouTube videos or gooning. I’m worn out, anyone got suggestions what I could do to improve my life?
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reproduce by surrogracy
 
Yep. The goal isn’t to convince yourself that you’re the center of the universe. It’s to interpret your existence in a way in which your actions fit into some coherent structure of value or purpose, hence you could interpret meaning through a coherent pursuit of eudaimonia, which can be justified once normativity is established — as well as the other ideas I have mentioned. Of course, this is quite difficult in today's society, due to the highly atomized nature of the social and cultural landscape, but it is still feasible; you could ground it rationally, albeit the greater challenge is to convince yourself psychologically (which is why religious frameworks that were collectivistic and restricted individual freedom worked well to ground meaning).
Interesting, the pursuit of hapiness it self is the search for meaning.

Reminds me of the movie pursuit of happiness.
 
When you can’t even enjoy the basic things of life. Like hanging out with friends or having sex with beautiful women. All my copes so far have been watching YouTube videos or gooning. I’m worn out, anyone got suggestions what I could do to improve my life?
Yo broski! Have you tried anti depressives? Whats your hobbys? Tried the gym?
A social part time job? Just get out there my man.
 
When you can’t even enjoy the basic things of life. Like hanging out with friends or having sex with beautiful women. All my copes so far have been watching YouTube videos or gooning. I’m worn out, anyone got suggestions what I could do to improve my life?
To fuck, But your not the right genetics and neither am i therefore you and i dont rack up bitches and cannot reproduce with females.
 
None.

At least as an incel.

We are condemned to rot to death thinking about everything that got refused to us.

All the girls we found cute not choosing us and getting railed by random dudes instead.

And ending up khhv incel at an age you're supposed to be independent and have years and years of sexual experience behind you.
 

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