I'm assuming fatcels have it the hardest. Is this true?
I was obese until about 17, and it was one of the worst things that ever happened to me. I experienced no normal formative year growth because I was bullied hard and excluded for being really fat. My parents for whatever reason, did not care. I had few friends and girls were 100% uninterested.
I am sympathetic to fatcels because I have been there and I understand how hard it is to “just lose weight”. Food addiction is similar to that of a hard drug. It can be almost impossible at times. Do note, it can be very rewardsinf as you may end up not being so incel when you get skinny.
For context, I am now a healthy weight and am 23.
I am sympathetic to fatcels because I have been there and I understand how hard it is to “just lose weight”. Food addiction is similar to that of a hard drug. It can be almost impossible at times. Do note, it can be very rewardsinf as you may end up not being so incel when you get skinny.
For context, I am now a healthy weight and am 23.
Dunno, I've never been volcel myself.
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I don’t know but I think I’m becoming one slowly my gut feels like it’s getting bigger
A lot of the people here might say fatcels aren't really incels because you can just lose the weight. Which is partly true, but I feel like a lot of people neglect to remember the mental fortitude it takes to break bad habits, such as poor diet.
I'm obese, and I'm working on getting better. I've been bullied, shunned, and abused (even by family members), over my weight. That kind of bullying leaves you scarred, just like any other form of bullying.
Though being overweight doesn't inherently make you an incel, and I'm not incel because I'm fat I know that for sure. I wouldn't say fatcels have it the hardest, a lot of people say your race, facial structure, and height matter much more.
I'm obese, and I'm working on getting better. I've been bullied, shunned, and abused (even by family members), over my weight. That kind of bullying leaves you scarred, just like any other form of bullying.
Though being overweight doesn't inherently make you an incel, and I'm not incel because I'm fat I know that for sure. I wouldn't say fatcels have it the hardest, a lot of people say your race, facial structure, and height matter much more.
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I weigh 165kg. Taxes the fuck out of your life. Sincerely I don't recommend it. In process of trying to lose some weight for myself.
Yes you are bellow everyone.
FATCEL IS VOLCEL, rename this to "what's it like to be volcel".
Losing weight doesn't change your facial structure/make it more symetrical or harmonious.
I never said it did? I just said a lot of people might just tell fatcels to simply lose the weight as if it was easy. That and that people consider other things like race, facial structure, and high to matter more.
Very well said. I was also obese at like 220 pounds at 5'6. So yeah. But I successfuly lost it too. Have had no problem keeping the weight off.
Fatcel isnt ALWAYS volcel. But I'd say in most cases simply losing the weight will fix your problems.
240lbs @5'9 checking in. I wasn't fat as a kid. However, completing uni under my strict helicopter parents took its toll, and I began gaining weight. Worst part is, I developed severe sleep apnea without knowing it. I became chronically tired and unable to work. I got shit on by everyone for being NEET and overweight, until I was diagnosed last year. I have to wear an oxygen mask to sleep, and while it helps a little, it doesn't come close to solving the issue. The mask is very uncomfortable, and it blows air down your throat. You have to be dead tired in order to fall asleep with it on.
While I was depressed over my life before, I am now grateful for the health I had. It sucks not even being able to enjoy LDAR'ing. I recently ordered a recliner to sleep in. When I sleep flat on a bed (because I'm a mouthbreather), my neck fat literally chokes me while I sleep. However, sleeping at an angle lets the neck fat drop towards your body, instead of onto your airways. I am very excited to see if the recliner works. When this is all over, I will live life to the fullest.
While I was depressed over my life before, I am now grateful for the health I had. It sucks not even being able to enjoy LDAR'ing. I recently ordered a recliner to sleep in. When I sleep flat on a bed (because I'm a mouthbreather), my neck fat literally chokes me while I sleep. However, sleeping at an angle lets the neck fat drop towards your body, instead of onto your airways. I am very excited to see if the recliner works. When this is all over, I will live life to the fullest.
Your emoji is literally what I experience when I have sleep apnea
Fatcel is volcel.
Manlets and elephantitiscels are the only true involuntarycels
Manlets and elephantitiscels are the only true involuntarycels
I was extremely fat and lost huge amounts of weight (80pound) After that I realized that there is no hope got depressed and found r9k and then r/incels
Fatcel=volcel until you loose weight
Fatcel=volcel until you loose weight
People don't really know about the terrible combination that is sleeping problems + obesity. I once read a study that found if you had trouble sleeping soundly and weren't already obese, within 2 years you were like 8 times more likely to become obese than normal. Now when you factor in that obesity often causes sleep disturbances and sleep disturbances increase likely hood of obesity, you can imagine the sort of negative cycle a person can get in. One of the few positives I found in getting older was having a easier time falling asleep. I think that definitely contributed to the overall stabilization of my mood as much as any other effects of maturity.
Anyways, being a fatcel sucks. I was born a normal weight and within a year of being born I became on obese baby and pretty much stayed fat to varying degrees through my whole life. At my fittest, I'd say I was somewhere around 50lbs over my ideal weight, which would be during wrestling seasons as a teenager. The blackpill has shown me it is likely just my shitty face, but I always assumed I wasn't attractive to women because they never seemed the least bit interested and I didn't find myself or obesity attractive either. I imagine obesity is much harder to deal with if you're a framecel in regards to being a target for bullying. I guess I got a lot more shit and faced ostrichization more than your average normie, but I never had to face the physical bullying I know a lot of guys here have due to my large orge-tier frame.
I guess the part I always hated most about it is just the general oppressive nature of gravity, kek. Wanting to run around with everyone else and no matter how hard you try you just can't run as fast or for as long. I tried being active and shit, have played sports and martial arts, but you really have to just quit eating if you're a weak willed addict like me. I just haven't ever been able to do it for long enough without eventually giving up and gaining back all the weight.
People call you a fatso.
You lose weight.
You still get no pussy.
You gain weight.
Repeat.
You lose weight.
You still get no pussy.
You gain weight.
Repeat.
Thanks for the thorough response. You're spot on about how being larger framed makes it easier to carry fat. While you were talking about bullying, I was thinking how it's easier physically for a larger framed person to carry fat. A framecel can carry the same amount of weight as his larger framed counterpart, but due to his weak frame, the weight will feel like twice as much. This is even worse if you're a mouthbreather. I didn't have sleep apnea for the first 40lbs I gained, but I certainly had it when I went higher. And the 2nd 40 lbs came on quick (due to sleep apnea). Weak and ugly kids are more likely to be bullied. The stress of this (along with already fucked up sleep) causes them to eat unhealthy and gain weight. I'm sure you've noticed that most fat adults are facially ugly, short, and balding. They are just LDAR'ing.
Losing the weight is easy. It is the food addiction you gotta fight
I was 84 kg when i found the blackpill 2 months ago. Now 74 hopefully more to lose
I was 84 kg when i found the blackpill 2 months ago. Now 74 hopefully more to lose
to me, controlling the diet and food is possible. but when your'e overweight its like walking around in a power armor.
"just work out bro" is not that simple. you get weeklong body injuries and cramps from simple routines like jogging.
1 workout a day can exhaust your whole fucking gas tank. but people act like its normal to be 50lbs overweight and do exercise like its nothing
"just work out bro" is not that simple. you get weeklong body injuries and cramps from simple routines like jogging.
1 workout a day can exhaust your whole fucking gas tank. but people act like its normal to be 50lbs overweight and do exercise like its nothing
I can empathize for all fatcels who have been overweight/obese since childhood.
No sympathy for adult-onset fatcels
No sympathy for adult-onset fatcels
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