What you say

[realUboadiah]

Maybe water thread but it seemed profound to me at this moment.

What you say is often not the biggest factor with if you're likeble or not. Timing plays a bigger role. A person may find something fun, funny or interesting at one point but at another time it falls flat and is considered boring babble or cringe. So being likeable is massively luck based. And your entire relationship dynamic with another person is formed on interactions that could have gone way differant. So getting along with others is quite luck based.

 

[gracious sub5]

Maybe water thread but it seemed profound to me at this moment.

What you say is often not the biggest factor with if you're likeble or not. Timing plays a bigger role. A person may find something fun, funny or interesting at one point but at another time it falls flat and is considered boring babble or cringe. So being likeable is massively luck based. And your entire relationship dynamic with another person is formed on interactions that could have gone way differant. So getting along with others is quite luck based.

Agree, likeabilty is very luck and timeing based. Looks and who is saying also matters.

 

[Mohamedömar]

So getting along with others is quite luck based.

I disagree tbh
it is not all on luck
but your skills and shape play big role

 

[realUboadiah]

Agree, likeabilty is very luck and timeing based. Looks and who is saying also matters.

100%

 

[realUboadiah]

it is not all on luck
but your skills and shape play big role

That too

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

Normies luck = hoping she likes your phenotype or that you don’t say the wrong thing (neurodivergence increases this risk)

Chads luck = passive and constant, every single moment of his life is lucky.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Interactions with women I liked might have been different if my genetic timing was right