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What would you have needed to not be an incel?

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Greycel
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Like what would have to be different not „not being ugly“ but like what exactly?
 
Social circle and friends + more simple minded instead of constant overthinking
 
A better social life growing up. Locked inside during the holidays, all-boys boarding school otherwise. Shit fucked me up proper
 
better skull, longer leg bones

it's all bones bones bones bones
 
Aside from obviously being ugly, being born neurotypical probably would’ve helped (maybe); being framecel has probably largely contributed to my inceldom as well.
 
Better social life growing up, even my family ignored me.

And better looks of course. A better face. And to be really honest, exercise, I look skinny-fat and weak.
 
I’d have to be an entirely different person
 
A few millimeters of bone, half a foot of height, and a neurotypical brain.
 
A nice face and straight spine to attract a foid and a big dick to keep said foid.

I guess being less direct and more outgoing would also help.
 
Being a NT and having lower inhibition would do.
 
I need a new wider face with balanced proportions, a wider shoulder, an average body shape and I need a new brain that can communicate with NT
 
98% less inhibition. Ability to make friends with people. Ability to make friends with women.
 
Not having social anxiety and no ugly face
 
Being NT, losing 30-40lbs, and having a better face
 
I would have needed:
  • Better genes
  • A better brain
  • Better looks
  • Better parents
  • A Better upbringing
  • A Better environment
 
Being nt and at least 2 inches taller
 
Like what would have to be different not „not being ugly“ but like what exactly?
height, social circle that weren't also losers, dad that forced me to do shit.... BEING NT
 
Being tall and attractive
 
Born white and raised by a white family.
 
Needed to not be born, I was fucked from the very get go to where there was no point in fighting
 
its a lot of thing but i think if i had the balls to speak up and confidently. i struggle speaking to people but think if youconfident enough even as a sub5 you would be ok
 
Neurotypicality, I've seen many normfags in my generation who seem to almost be my looksmatch (idk probably not) who can at the very least be in "talking stages" with foids because they have normie humor, that might be cope though since they're probably still in oofy doofy relationships
 
10cm of height, a few millimeters difference in jaw development and no hairloss
 
Like what would have to be different not „not being ugly“ but like what exactly?
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Not being an autistic neurodivergent.
 

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