What Would You Hate More?

[ApoplecticRage]

You go out on a Saturday night to a social setting (bar, dance, party, etc.). You spot a girl who is your looksmatch and you observe her for a while. She doesn't strike you as a bitch for some reason. She in fact seems nice. After two hours of internal debate you muster the courage to talk to her. What reaction would make you hate her more? (1) She embarrasses you in front of a group by saying "Somebody PLEASE get this guy away from me."; (2) She likes the attention you've given her and talks to you for about 30 minutes and gives you her number but has no intention of ever communicating with you again. When you answer keep in mind how happy you will be as you go to sleep that night believing that you possibly have a shot at having a gf.

 

[whogivesafucc]

obviously if she embarrasses me

that's just fucking soul crushing

 

[ApoplecticRage]

obviously if she embarrasses me

that's just fucking soul crushing

Yeah I made the poll b/c it's a tough question for me. I voted for "ghost" though.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Obviously the first option.

The second option does not include public humiliation

 

[ApoplecticRage]

Obviously the first option.

The second option does not include public humiliation

Yep I see your point. But I've been ghosted and the hurt and anger occur over several days, especially of course when you're waiting/hoping for the bitch to reply. Option 1 is like ripping off a band-aid.

 

[EthnicelNL]

If she embarrasses you, your a cuck for allowing it to come that far

 

[Berok]

Atleast you get a ego booster if she dosent embrasse you

 

[BasedGod1]

Public humiliation would be worse for sure, and its not like I don't suffer that already just being out in public.

 

[Getlooksordie]

I have enough experience in bars/clubs to know that getting her number means it´s a 100% guaranteed rejection. If a girl is into you she will make out with you AND want her to come home with you that night.

Numbers, even makeouts literally mean nothing. They don´t even mean that she´s attracted to you in the slightest. Sometimes girls will just make out with guys if they are bored that night then tell the guy to fuck off afterwards.

 

[ApoplecticRage]

If she embarrasses you, your a cuck for allowing it to come that far

Yeah but the premise is that you mustered the courage to give it a try. Like Gretzky said...you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. But I'm to the point these days where I don't like to give them the chance to say no and I don't like to give them the satisfaction of approaching them.

 

[GreenBull]

Noone has ever embarrassed me in the public, so I cannot tell how that feels like. But I've been ghosted by a girl before and that was an unbearable pain that persisted for a long time.

 

[ApoplecticRage]

I have enough experience in bars/clubs to know that getting her number means it´s a 100% guaranteed rejection. If a girl is into you she will make out with you AND want her to come home with you that night.

Numbers, even makeouts literally mean nothing. They don´t even mean that she´s attracted to you in the slightest.

Wow that view seems rather extreme.

Noone has ever embarrassed me in the public, so I cannot tell how that feels like. But I've been ghosted by a girl before and that was an unbearable pain that persisted for a long time.

This.

Atleast you get a ego booster if she dosent embrasse you

Fair point.

 

[Getlooksordie]

Wow that view seems rather extreme.

This.

I´ve literally got hundreds of girls phone numbers in my phone and I´ve gotten precisely zero lays from it.

Women will offer you their phone number because it´s the fastest way to get rid of an unattractive guy. Same for PUAs. The PUA will do his dancing monkey routine and then the girl will give him her number as a reward without ever having the intention to meet him again. It´s essentially like giving a treat to a dog who just did a trick for her.

Anybody who has actually done approaches knows that numbers are completely useless. I feel like shit when a girl offers me her number because I know I´ve been rejected.

 

[whogivesafucc]

I have enough experience in bars/clubs to know that getting her number means it´s a 100% guaranteed rejection. If a girl is into you she will make out with you AND want her to come home with you that night.

Numbers, even makeouts literally mean nothing. They don´t even mean that she´s attracted to you in the slightest. Sometimes girls will just make out with guys if they are bored that night then tell the guy to fuck off afterwards.

What???

 

[mylifeistrash]

I´ve literally got hundreds of girls phone numbers in my phone and I´ve gotten precisely zero lays from it.

Women will offer you their phone number because it´s the fastest way to get rid of an unattractive guy. Same for PUAs. The PUA will do his dancing monkey routine and then the girl will give him her number as a reward without ever having the intention to meet him again. It´s essentially like giving a treat to a dog who just did a trick for her.

Anybody who has actually done approaches knows that numbers are completely useless. I feel like shit when a girl offers me her number because I know I´ve been rejected.

LOL. It was like that for me when I did pua like 9 years ago. I would get endless numbers that would be worthless as fuck.

When I finally left that college town despite going out endlessly or going to countless parties, no one even remembered me. I would have been exactly the same off just LDARing.

 

[takERisks]

But if they embarrass you you were good enough to be seen with her in public

 

[Weirdcel]

Can't even imagine myself in a bar/dance/party on a Saturday night.

 

[IsolationHurts]

I prefer to be ignored than humiliated obviously

 

[Getlooksordie]

What???

getting a makeout means you were good looking enough for her to spend an hour or so talking to you in a club/bar, but it doesn´t mean she thinks you are hot enough for a ONS, let alone be her boyfriend. There is a huge gap between getting a makeout and getting a lay.

If you are upper normie tier, basically chadlite you will occasionally get makeouts if you cold approach which mean absolutely nothing. You need to be chad to get ONS from bars/clubs/online. Basically if she is not the one approaching you there is less than a <1% chance you will get a lay. Chads get approached by women who want to get fucked that night. Everyone else is fighting for fake numbers, her time and makeouts.