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Describe what would be your perfect love experience in details.
Why don't you just go for escorts? What a "girlfriend" would bring except sex? You can get affection in a lot of others way than just a girl.
Isn't even the "girl-friend" thing means that you're as well a friend? Aren't your friends enough if you have any (i don't)? Apart from sex-related stuff, what the hell does a woman bring more than any close friend?
If you keep chasing after teens love while it sucks (i informed myself a lot on this and it's mostly bullshit bluepill stuff, movie and story made things that doesn't belong in real life) you won't understand that normies and chads that went through it know themselves it's kind of bullshit.
Even love how some of you guys picture yourself is totally deluded. Get a grip. such "Love" don't exist.
I totally comprehend guys talking about not being able to get laid, but what about escortmaxxing?
And don't tell me "i don't want to pay a girl for being a girl" you're chasing for YEARS and tried number of things, payed for restaurant, looksmaxing, etc when there is just a better way with a prettier girl, who knows her stuff for way cheaper and infinitely quicker.
Why the hell don't you just escortmax? Are you just shy?
 
:feelsseriously: how though?

friends, family.
Women want attention and affection from males. Men don't care about that. Try to be a man if you have real friends you shouldn't care about having women attention.
Too expensive

Not more expensive than all the redpill bullshit to get a "girl" "friend"
And i have a question. If escortmaxxing was extremely cheap, like 20 dollars an hour. Would you choose it? It would be way cheaper than any girlfriend.
 
friends, family.
Women want attention and affection from males. Men don't care about that. Try to be a man if you have real friends you shouldn't care about having women attention.
A woman's attention and validation is different though since you have the biological need to be with a woman.
I don't believe you can just substitute it with friends and family
 
A woman's attention and validation is different though since you have the biological need to be with a woman.
I don't believe you can just substitute it with friends and family

You have biological need to get laid. Not to "be with a woman".
You have biological need to have people around you, not a girlfriend.
I'm not saying you can substitute sex with anyone else. But apart from sex everything else will be better than with a single foid.
 
Someone who
1. Can cook for me delicious food.
2. Can Raise my kids right.
3. Is at least average in attractiveness.
4. Doesn't feel that I am repulsive.
5. Doesn't nag, knows when to shut her yap.
6. Is at least a little bit empathetic and understanding.
7. Either does house chores or contributes equally in family finances.
8. Knows that a true relationship is for life and is willing to live for the family just like I will.
9. Is not a whorish slut.
 
Ok bro if you’re so tough, don’t give a fuck, and have it all figured out then why did you join this forum?

This post is a greycel tier cope.
 
Someone who
1. Can cook for me delicious food.
2. Can Raise my kids right.
3. Is at least average in attractiveness.
4. Doesn't feel that I am repulsive.
5. Doesn't nag, knows when to shut her yap.
6. Is at least a little bit empathetic and understanding.
7. Either does house chores or contributes equally in family finances.
8. Knows that a true relationship is for life and is willing to live for the family just like I will.
9. Is not a whorish slut.

You're talking about a wife. But a lot of people here just complain about not experiencing teens love and without knowing it sometimes hope for it despite pretending they want a wife.
What you want here is a wife in a monogamous society but not actual love. Her doing all of this is not her loving you, but her constraint by society like you are yourself constraint to do others things like protecting your children, working, providing etc. Which you maybe don't do.
Nowadays society has changed but not human biologic, so you guys should adapt and stop hoping for that kind of love that is gone since generations, just look at the divorce rate.
Ok bro if you’re so tough, don’t give a fuck, and have it all figured out then why did you join this forum?

This post is a greycel tier cope.

I'm not tough i'm just realist and i've read shitload of things about that subject. A lot of incels are just completely deluded and think teens love is a thing when in reality the only thing they're missing is sex.
I've seen a whole lot of them understanding it though so i'm not talking about them.
 
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You're talking about a wife. But a lot of people here just complain about not experiencing teens love and without knowing it sometimes hope for it despite pretending they want a wife.
What you want here is a wife in a monogamous society but not actual love. Her doing all of this is not her loving you, but her constraint by society like you are yourself constraint to do others things like protecting your children, working, providing etc. Which you maybe don't do.
Nowadays society has changed but not human biologic, so you guys should adapt and stop hoping for that kind of love that is gone since generations, just look at the divorce rate.
Ok first of all I am not looking for anything whatsoever. I know its over.
Second, current soyciety is cucked to the core. It leads to inceldom and I don't give a fuck about it. So is your idea of "love" which is nothing but an excuse to promote whoredom, hypergamy and chad harems. Third, monogamous relationships where people are constrained to behave a certain way have the lowest divorce rates. You could say the love is strongest.
Fourth, teen love is a cope. I know many incels disagree because they grew up in soy cultures where teenlove was all around them in schools and media. Its just training for foids to become whores, chads to become harem masters and normies to become betasimp jesters.
Fifth, how can you say that if a wife does all that for me that means she does not love me. If she is happily doing all that what more love could I possibly want.

And last, you sound like IT.
 
If I think too long about this it will be suifuel, no thank you
 
Ok first of all I am not looking for anything whatsoever. I know its over.
Second, current soyciety is cucked to the core. It leads to inceldom and I don't give a fuck about it. So is your idea of "love" which is nothing but an excuse to promote whoredom, hypergamy and chad harems. Third, monogamous relationships where people are constrained to behave a certain way have the lowest divorce rates. You could say the love is strongest.
Fourth, teen love is a cope. I know many incels disagree because they grew up in soy cultures where teenlove was all around them in schools and media. Its just training for foids to become whores, chads to become harem masters and normies to become betasimp jesters.
Fifth, how can you say that if a wife does all that for me that means she does not love me. If she is happily doing all that what more love could I possibly want.

And last, you sound like IT.

It has the lowest divorce rate because they are forced to stay together otherwise shame will be on them.
I agree with you and you confirm my point teenlove is just a cope but sadly a lot of incels fell for it.
You want a wife and it's very honorable but still she won't love you because society says it, but at least she will be forced.
Sadly society isn't like that anymore and in reality, monogamy was a brief period over humanity lifetime. We're in the period where monogamy ends so we have to adapt as a group of male. Remember the founders of Rome. They had no women either.
 
It has the lowest divorce rate because they are forced to stay together otherwise shame will be on them.
I agree with you and you confirm my point teenlove is just a cope but sadly a lot of incels fell for it.
You want a wife and it's very honorable but still she won't love you because society says it, but at least she will be forced.
Sadly society isn't like that anymore and in reality, monogamy was a brief period over humanity lifetime. We're in the period where monogamy ends so we have to adapt as a group of male. Remember the founders of Rome. They had no women either.
Gender roles have been pretty consistent across cultures since the dawn of civilization. Just because you want whoredom to be natural, IT, doesn't mean it was.

Also IT, as I said I disagree with your very idea of love which in reality is a concept only know for a brief period in humanity(see the irony?). Its an excuse for female whoredom and men fell for this nonsense.

IT, what I think of as love between people is something which is cultivated. It is not independent of what they can do for each other, its not an abstract concept but the value we find in fellow humans. Between family between friends. If a woman can do the above listed things for me there can be no greater expression of love which I will return in kindness. Of course selfish self serving cucks such as yourself could never understand such a concept IT. You think every responsibility a person can have he/she is "forced" to take. But think about this IT, you are forced to work for a corporate, to pay taxes to a Government. And unless you are a complete soycuck I am sure you love neither. Then why don't you go live in a jungle if you hate responsibilities so much?
 
Mike Tyson said it best...

“A lady in the streets a hoe in between the sheets”.
 
I have almost no desire anymore for a real foid. I don't think I would be able to handle the constant stress of trying to keep her happy and willing to continue having sex with me.

At this point I just want an ultra-realistic human-like sex robot that's shaped like a 16 year old Natalie Portman. That's not too much to ask.
 
Someone who
1. Can cook for me delicious food.
2. Can Raise my kids right.
3. Is at least average in attractiveness.
4. Doesn't feel that I am repulsive.
5. Doesn't nag, knows when to shut her yap.
6. Is at least a little bit empathetic and understanding.
7. Either does house chores or contributes equally in family finances.
8. Knows that a true relationship is for life and is willing to live for the family just like I will.
9. Is not a whorish slut.
cringe
 
Because of how particularly farfetched it is. Tradwife dreams for anyone other than trad chad are funny and cringe
Of course its farfetched. Its over basically. It was not that farfetched some time back though and many cultures still practice this. Plus not everyone with a tradwife was a chad. A tradwife looking for a chad is not a tradwife to begin with.
 
Unfortunately, romantic love can never be perfect.
 
Looksmatch and hobbymatch would be ideal
 
i dont even know bro
 
Being with a girl who is a 4 or above, preferably dark brunette / mediterranean, absolute mutual attraction, walking downtown, me joking with her, and in teasing her, being able to pick her up out of nowhere, with a slight gasp and annoyance by her ('how dare you do that'), and kiss her on the lips gently while her annoyance turns into a smile.

that would be pure love and make me happy. fantasy though.
 
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