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Title. What was the moment you realized that you were doomed to inceldom? Share away...
 
The moment I found out about the term
 
Have never had sex and haven't kissed a girl in 9 years. Ugly and can't find someone who sees me as a potential sex partner. So yeah, pretty easy to realize I'm an incel.
 
My failure to make girls show interest in me, my short stature, my high feminine voice that sounds like blade edge is scrapping on a drum, my stupid circumcision because of phimosis loss some length and below average, no women send me text messages unless I bother to do it, they have more important things to do…
One told me once she not wanting a relationship because of her personal issues.. month later she friend zoned for another cel.
What is it if not an incel.. I had some more success in school but they’re were autistic and nothing interesting happened so it doesn’t count :feelsbadman:
 
In high school i realized i will never have sex.Everyone was taller then me except for 1 guy.And once i told my mom i am short and will never gf and she started sayng stupid shit like oh i know of a person who is shorter blabla bla
 
Have never had sex and haven't kissed a girl in 9 years. Ugly and can't find someone who sees me as a potential sex partner. So yeah, pretty easy to realize I'm an incel.
Mannn I would rope, how you guys even manage it.. if I really fail at the end of 2022 then I rope for real
 
When I started hanging out with a chadlite in high school
 
When I started researching about the blackpill and that it never began for me, I instantaneously knew that I am an incel afterwards
Have never had sex and haven't kissed a girl in 9 years. Ugly and can't find someone who sees me as a potential sex partner. So yeah, pretty easy to realize I'm an incel.
Can’t be fucking serious man you claim your an incel but you fucked a foid before? How retarded is that
 
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When I couldn’t make based decision and am still relying on parents
 
Have never had sex and haven't kissed a girl in 9 years. Ugly and can't find someone who sees me as a potential sex partner. So yeah, pretty easy to realize I'm an incel.
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I always knew it was over, but when I hit puberty it just became really apparent, every normie and every foid found me disgusting.
 
Prob around 21 when my acnes cleared. I always thought I was gl under. It left so much scarring I look just as bad.
 
Can’t be fucking serious man you claim your an incel but you fucked a foid before? How retarded is that
I haven't fucked anyone, retard. I made out with some girl in middle school, but that was it. Puberty ruined me. My face as an adult is not the same as it used to be when I was a kid.
 
have you kissed a girl since 9 years ago?
Since 9 years I was playing Skyrim in my basement lol, back then I didn’t even care kissing
I haven't fucked anyone, retard. We made out with some girl in middle school, but that was it. Puberty ruined me. My face as an adult is not the same as it used to be when I was a kid.
Same for me, the girls in my school were weird and ugly, autistic abominations lol, yeah “special” education, back then I was also a white knight and I didn’t it was unattractive behavior, now I am 24 almost and it’s really difficult to even date girls, I’m very awkward and anti social, they never seem to want another date with me
 
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Have never had sex and haven't kissed a girl in 9 years. Ugly and can't find someone who sees me as a potential sex partner. So yeah, pretty easy to realize I'm an incel.
Did you voluntarily receive sex from a woman 9:years ago?:feelshehe:
 
I haven't fucked anyone, retard. I made out with some girl in middle school, but that was it. Puberty ruined me. My face as an adult is not the same as it used to be when I was a kid.
You phrased it in a retarded manner of course its implied that you had sex
 
When I was about 11 or 12 all the girls wouldn't talk to me or be near me. Even though I am a friendly, nice person.

And the girls had no problem talking to all the other guys and being around them - even if they didn't want to date them and wouldn't let them near their vaginas, eg.. the normies.
 
Did you voluntarily receive sex from a woman 9:years ago?:feelshehe:
No. I haven't had sex, Link. I made out with some girl at 10. I was an okay-looking boy in middle school. But puberty ruined me and I haven't been able to attract any girl since then. I promise.

You phrased it in a retarded manner of course its implied that you had sex
Okay. My writing-style is retarded. But I explicitly said "have NEVER had sex."
 
When I realized girls weren't attracted to me
 
When i started being honest to myself, after lying to myself for years by telling myself that i got rejected because of my personality or my status or not having enough money
 
When i found out about blackpill, before that i blamed this and that and i believed i would eventually find someone because i didnt know about absolute awalt.
 
When I realized that girls aren't attracted to me.

I hate being white, average-looking, and intelligent.

It's still not enough.
 
When I started noticing that even women that weren't conventionally attractive weren't attracted to me. That pretty much convinced me I was below average, and Tinder further cemented my idea years after.
 
getting 0 pussy and failing to jbwmaxx in a college full of indians and chinese (ouch)
 
i never knew it was over until now, i never thought i was THAT ugly but one trait that really fucked me over was my height, i’m 17 years old and i’m 5’3ft, i don’t even make female average height. i would always get rejected by ugly women too
 
When I noticed that literally no girl has ever shown interest in me, and I have always been seen as a second class citizen in their eyes.
 
When I first saw the writings of @erenyeager. He wrote about destroying the world for inceldia and I just knew he was onto something.
 
Women on Facebook called me incel because i was sexist
 
There wasn't exactly 1 moment but all my 29 years of living just fucked me up. I had a silent breakdown at 30 but the wave of realizations started building up at 29.

-On my birthday the only notice or praise I got was from an escort site wishing me a happy birthday and they wanted me to be more active in the escort community.

-I had a handful of online dating accounts and was "determined" to fuck on or around my birthday before hitting 30. So I sent out mass texts and emails for like a whole month prior. Dating is a numbers game, right? WRONG!! SOME FUCKING PEOPLE GET 0 FUCKING RESPONSES YOU FUCKING LIARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
so I took the day off. Woke up. Exercised. Showered. Ate. Sat down to see if I had any replies. One after one going from app to app. Website to website. From my main emails to my alt emails. The first website I was like, "Eeeehhh. It's no biggie. I'm sure some fish got hooked. Plenty of fish in the sea, right?" then over the next hour or two I just started despising every action I ever took. HOW.FUCKING.STUPID I was to believe anybody would want to date me. i'm living with my goddamn parents and dont have a vehicle and make minimum fucking wage. what do I have to bring to the table? to offer? that i won't hit them? that i won't yell at them? GET FUCKING REAL!! WOMEN LOVE THAT SHIT!! Women love the drama of getting yelled at and beat up so she can go on social media and claim she is a godadmn survivor and was in a 'toxic' relationship with a guy she fucked over and over and OVER again while she gave me shit. Not even a second glance. By hour two I was dead inside. I took a nap. I didn't want to be apart of this world anymore. I was turning 30 and had nothing to show for it. No happy memories since I was a child.

-Around that time a lot of my favorite sites were being taken down. Ones similar to this site where I would post and feel a sort of comradery with people like me. People I would anonymously talk to week after week. Like a sort of therapy if you will because I don't have anybody to talk to. I have this site and that is it. Before this site I had other similar sites but they were all taken down by feminist cunts. So I went for weeks/months just coming home from work then straight to bed because there was nothing to do. Nobody to talk to. To care about me. So glad I found this site when I did. I can lurk here after work and it gives me something to do on the weekends.

I don't like to give props to the admins or mods because while I do believe they were once probably incels like us it is quite apparent they status-maxxed and have tons of girls slobbering over them like hungry jackals. Then the whole ads came and it is even more obvious they sold us out to 'certain' agencies and are selling our data like Facebook does. For AI learning perhaps. But facts are if it wasn't for them I"d be a lot more miserable than I already am. And I'm already more miserable than any man should be. So thanks admins/mods.
 
When I first saw the writings of @erenyeager. He wrote about destroying the world for inceldia and I just knew he was onto something.
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